you're very close minded...its easy to get stuck on your beliefs, but not everything has a right and wrong answer. For example, your dad saying that gay people will always be sick people--there may be some truth to that if homosexuality is a genetic condition/abberation. Don't take it the wrong way, I don't have any issues with gays...never did, even before it became the politically correct thing to support them. I may have made tons of immature jokes about them growing up, but again it was never malevolant. I never felt uncomfortable around them or the topic...maybe this is because I was never a religious person. Your parents may be religious people or have grown up in a house hold that was deeply religious. If thats true, they were probably taught that gays are demon spawn.
Anyways, keep more of an open mind on things. Nobody made you supreme ruler of the universe, and just going to university doesn't make you an expert on such topics. Parents usually have alot of wisdom in them, they've lived far longer than you and experienced more.
I really do not consider myself narrow minded. And while i said that some of my parents' views are what people had in the middle ages, i did not say i didn't respect them or that i want them to change. It's the fact that even talking about these things makes them so agitated that they try to force their beliefs on me and take everything i say as an insult to them. Discussing about anything other than who did what, what car X person bought, whose kids dropped out and the likes, is shameful to them.
We're all Christians, and yeah they may believe in some things that i find a little too extreme, but they're far from fanatics. It's not like we go to church every Sunday or anything. I don't think it's about religion, rather than the circumstances and the environment they grew up in. And no, going to university doesn't make me an expert on life, i just mentioned it because i believe I'm a very different person than who i was, say, 4 years ago. People you meet, things you do, places you visit- they all affect one's personality and forge their character.
As far as homosexuality goes, yeah i make jokes about gays with my friends on a daily basis, but to me they are people like any other with just a different sexual orientation. Few gays I've met were really kind, funny and open hearted people, and you'd never know they're gay unless you got to know them well. So, again, people like any other.
And, seriously, homosexuality as a genetic condition? Only clueless people would believe that. Although there are ongoing studies, the majority of the science community(genetics, neuroscience, psychophysiology) does not support that claim. Even if, years from now, homosexuality was linked to a specific marker, or comprehensive changes and alterations in the genome, how would it be a "condition"? Condition usually hints pathology, of which gays have none. Would you feel the need to "cure" them? It would be as much a condition as black/white people are, as red-haired people are, as blue eyed people are; that's genetic variety. IF it is ever proven to be genetic.
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