Yes,multiple times but i felt miserable each and every time.I need some good night's sleep otherwise i just feel sleepy and fatigued and generally unable to do even simple work.
I'm in a similar boat as well, but I don't really care if a gay couple adopts kids. I thin they should be allowed to raise them, but there is no doubt that a man and woman is the most ideal setting for rasing a kid. Without them both it does have some consequences.
FrostyPhantasm
Yeah i think having mixed gender parents is ideal because a child should have role models of both genders.Its not impossible for gays or even single parents to raise kids,but as you said it might have some nasty consequences.
So your argument is we shouldn't allow them to be parents...because of what MIGHT happen? Because of a small dispositional chance that something MIGHT go wrong? Durrrrrrrrr. I bet you the chance of parental beatings and abuse are higher with non-gay parents than gay parents or single parents, should we not allow poorer families to have kids because there is a small chance the kid won't be as successful? Should there be a screening process to have kids?
Its not really a small chance that something can go wrong.And its not that i wouldnt allow them to adopt kids,its just that i prefer mixed gender parents and would rather give those kids to straight couples if available.
On a serious note, I think the number one reason should be because not doing so violates individual free-will, which is wrong (in cases where no-one is being harmed). However, I must admit that I'm not too crazy about letting same-sex couples raise children.
FrostyPhantasm
Agreed.I think kids need parents of both/mixed genders.
This argument is such a stupid one. What about all the single parent families? Should they not be allowed to raise kids? I know lots of people who didn't have a dad or mother through their developing years (me and my sister included) who ended up perfectly fine? Are you suggesting that I'm better off with one parent than two of the same gender?
On a serious note, I think the number one reason should be because not doing so violates individual free-will, which is wrong (in cases where no-one is being harmed). However, I must admit that I'm not too crazy about letting same-sex couples raise children.
ShadowMoses900
Agreed.I think kids need parents of both/mixed genders.
I'm in a similar boat as well, but I don't really care if a gay couple adopts kids. I thin they should be allowed to raise them, but there is no doubt that a man and woman is the most ideal setting for rasing a kid. Without them both it does have some consequences.
Yeah i think having mixed gender parents is ideal because a child should have role models of both genders.Its not impossible for gays or even single parents to raise kids,but as you said it might have some nasty consequences.
On a serious note, I think the number one reason should be because not doing so violates individual free-will, which is wrong (in cases where no-one is being harmed). However, I must admit that I'm not too crazy about letting same-sex couples raise children.
BluRayHiDef
Agreed.I think kids need parents of both/mixed genders.
Now why am i not surprised? Religion itself is peaceful,some followers are not.It is said in Quran : "If anyone slays a person, it would be as if he slew the whole humanity and if any one saved a life, it would be as if he saved the life of the whole humanity".End of story.
JustBeYourself
Yeah one verse means the religion is peaceful, let's ignore the verses that contradict and abrogate it so we can continue living our life in some kind of fantasy land :-) Reality SUX! A lot of people voting "yes" seem to base their opinions on nothing but optimism. Sad. Anyway I wish this thread would just die already..
Well then ask the mods to lock the thread.You're obviously one ignorant son of a bi*ch and you know nothing about Islam and yet insist on talking nonsense about it.How sad.
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