im sure { some} if not most have had either a bf/ or a gf, sometimes both. life is great, the sex is good { sometimes} your together every day, holding him or her in your arms, u go out together, go places together, kissing , holding hands. your on top of the world what could possible go wrong, the simple answer is everything can go wrong.

someone usually comes out ofa break-up really really happy, or really really sad.the latter part obviously sucks for anyone on the receiving end of the " its over ", so now that the world has given u a very real slap in the face type how do u pick up that controller? maybe some of us can simply block it out, and go forth on a great journey through some great fantasy world. for everyone else that cant get past that blow right away, all u can do is cry, or feel like **** day after day after day.

so will picking up that controller, or moving your mouse over something for a few hours really help u forget about that person who walked out of your life. imo that answer is very often no. having said that the best thing one could do if your unfortunate enough to get spat on by someone is to just exactly what u wont feel like doing, that is getting lost in a game that u love to play so dearly. u might find your pausing the game for countless minuts starring into nothingness, or just putting the controller/mouse away for a few moments, why? because that person u thought loved u creeps back into your mind.

then u get to feel bad all over again, wonderful ! so how do u get past this, there is no amnesia pill u can pop, no special magic elixer to drink and forget. there is only one cure, and thats time. so if your sitting there feeling like nothing matters, and your starring @ your video game/ computer, dont think about it, just turn it on and have at it.

no one person has the right no matter whom they might of been to u , to make u feel worse than u do already. dont stop playing your system, even if u did both play together. so if u went thru what i went thru, dont give up hope, and certainly dont give up on your video games. the pain will still be there when u turn it off, and it probaly wont go away anytime soon, so no point sulking about it to the point where nothing is relevant, i did do that, and it certainly didnt help at all.

what i did do though , although extremely hard was pick up my 360 controller, and i found that even though u will probaly never forgot some of those memories,it at least provides some comfort withing your heart, it wont cheat on u, curse u out, or call u ugly or fat, it will be loyal as long as u are loyal to the system. even to this day i think about my ex as it was withing past 18 months , but dont let it consume you, they werent that special to begin with if they rip your heart out with a dagger, and have no qualms about it. i learned this the hard way, and im probaly a better person because of it.

happy gaming everyone, it gets better even if it seems like its forever