"The men that don't believe in amends are the worst of the group. Theyknow that most od what they have done shouldn't be forgiven and won't be forgiven.

They don't want to make the effort of asking because the pain of rejection and the reminder of their actions will hurt too much. They want to move on and forget, even though forgetting is impossible.

I am in their cla ss. I know I won't be forgiven and I'm not going to bother to ask. My amends will be my death. No one I have hurt will ever have to se me, hear from me, or think about me ever again.

I won't be able to damage them of f*** up their lives anymore, I won't be able to cause them the pain I have caused previously.

Forget me if you can.

Forget I did whatever it was I did."