In EVERY single EA game I got I've most recently recieved a "Request refused by server" message - both in BF2, 2142 and C&C3:TW - anymore getting that message? Or how do I get rid of it, since it's just a matter of time I'm going down there not only tearing that router apart but also cracking all my EA-Craps CDs since their support just won't help me either.