From reading all sorts of stuff online i figured it had something to do with the router. I disabled the internet threw the network settings on the ps3 and it loads up fine. I dont know why but i felt like trying that to see if that was the problem and it was. Now i wish i would have found that out before i returned the system, but thankfully i was able to get a brand new system and 150$ back thanks to the replacement plan i bought from best buy. So now i got a brand new ps3 and a brand new game, even tho neither was needed in the first place.

For that other guy who was having the same problem, you dont need to unplug the ethernet wire everytime you want to play the show, just turn on your system, and go to network settings and disable the internet. You wont have to keep unplugging and plugging the wire in by doing that.

Thankfully i didnt plan on playing this game online, but i just wanted to play it in general, and now i know how to do that.