[QUOTE="Shame-usBlackley"][QUOTE="Black_Knight_00"] Speaking in general terms, that's another expression that's very common but essentially wrong: "gay tolerace" Just because I'm a straight man I don't feel like I should feel superior to homosexuals so that I'm "tolerating" their sexuality they have no control over. There's nothing to tolerate because there's nothing morally wrong about it. I know what you meant by the way, I was making a general remark on the expression.Black_Knight_00
It's not a matter of moral superiority. Some people just don't like the gay lifestyle. And there's nothing wrong with that, nor is there any law stating they must. In YOUR view there is nothing wrong with that lifestyle, but to others it is not okay. Hell, our president was against gay marriage for nearly his entire first term in office. Since then, he has become more tolerant of the lifestyle. I don't think gay people owe anyone an apology for their lifestyle, nor do I believe people who are against it who (yes) tolerate it, should be browbeaten for it. It's not an easy, 100 percent support/100 percent against issue.
And moral superiority works both ways, doesn't it? Just as you suppose that a straight person tolerating the gay lifestyle is some form of superiority, so too could it be interpreted that being told you have to accept the lifestyle of another group of people is a form of superiority as well. I think honestly, people should just go back to saying, "It's none of my business who you fvck" and just leave it alone. A straight person who acts like an assh0le is still an assh0le just as much as a gay person who acts like an assh0le is still an assh0le. In fact, MOST people are assh0les, I don't care what their sexual prefereces are.
It's not a lifestyle. "Lifestyle" implies choice, whereas homosexuals have no more choice in how they are born than eterosexuals do. Saying homosexuality needs to be tolerated is like saying blue parrots must tolerate red parrots: they're all parrots, just of a slightly different variety. There's nothing to tolerate, rather understand and accept.That's a bunch of supposition on your part being stated as fact. While scientists believe that a gay gene is possible, there has been nothing definitive as yet.
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