[QUOTE="JuarN18"] thank God my parents are not like that
sorry for okami too but hey maybe that was the destiny:shock:
WylFret
Right, heaven forbid you have parents that actually care about you and perhaps have just a wee bit more life experience to draw from than you do.
Read what the original post said - his mom said no, however, "maybe some other time." Sounds to me very much like mom wasn't familiar with Okami and wants time to find out more about it before giving the okay. Seriously, what is wrong with that???
Actually I was pretty much the same as a teen, life was all about me and what I wanted, and I didn't have any perspective either. But as an adult and a parent myself, I understand the sheer amount of responsibility that comes with parenthood. And I have learned that the "bad parent" is the one that lets their kids do whatever they want, not the one that tells their kids no when it is appropriate to do so.
I don't think parents that let their kids do what they want are bad parents either. My parents had my best interest in mind and they tried to bar me from certain things, especially toy guns. I never had any toy guns as a kid. I knew I was more responsible than my siblings even if I was younger so I bargained with my parents. So long as I was at the top of my class they would let me do what I wanted. I got to do what I wanted, never got in trouble, didn't hurt anyone, and graduated with honors from high school and college.
Yes, your parents have your best interest in mind, but I think if you can show them you're a responsible young person they may allow you to make more self-sufficient decisions. It never hurts to try. If they tell you, "no," you haven't lost anything.
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