A Girl Question for anyone

Does a girl who has previously date a attractive guy, even find average guys as a viable option?

Does a girl who has previously date a attractive guy, even find average guys as a viable option?

maptheninja

Attractiveness is not solely based on physical attributes.

Sure. You may be surprised what some girls consider super attractive and what they don't. Physical appearance isn't everything.

Sure. You may be surprised what some girls consider super attractive and what they don't. Physical appearance isn't everything.

binpink

Sure. You may be surprised what some girls consider super attractive and what they don't. Physical appearance isn't everything.

binpink

Yes i know. but with my current generation it does alot more

[QUOTE="binpink"]

Sure. You may be surprised what some girls consider super attractive and what they don't. Physical appearance isn't everything.

rawsavon

[QUOTE="binpink"]

Sure. You may be surprised what some girls consider super attractive and what they don't. Physical appearance isn't everything.

rawsavon

*flirty comment affirming that you do. tee hee. wink wink.*

[QUOTE="binpink"]

Sure. You may be surprised what some girls consider super attractive and what they don't. Physical appearance isn't everything.

maptheninja

Yes i know. but with my current generation it does alot more

No they do not.bobaban

do You speak truth?

[QUOTE="maptheninja"]

[QUOTE="binpink"]

Sure. You may be surprised what some girls consider super attractive and what they don't. Physical appearance isn't everything.

ayanami_rei

Yes i know. but with my current generation it does alot more

The fact that you mentioned justin bieber in this thread is somewhat of an insult

Sure. You may be surprised what some girls consider super attractive and what they don't. Physical appearance isn't everything.

binpink

The fact that you mentioned justin bieber in this thread is somewhat of an insult

maptheninja

Well it's true 95% still is not everythingDarthkaiser

It's important, yea, at every point in a relationship. However WHAT or WHO is attractive to certain people in the first place can't be pinned down so easily.

...can't be pinned down so easily.

binpink

[QUOTE="Darthkaiser"] Well it's true 95% still is not everythingbinpink

It's important, yea, at every point in a relationship. However WHAT or WHO is attractive to certain people in the first place can't be pinned down so easily.

Indeed, but on a general concept (generalizing population of the early XXI century) Attractiveness + Self Esteem= Win Attractiveness is quite important, the human being makes a impression of a person the very first 30 seconds of meeting. Attractiveness helps you suceed at those 30 seconds and self esteem and confidence for the rest of it. Without the first you can't even get to "the rest of it" If one would make an easier example for TC think of attractiveness as smell and what's on the inside the taste.. No matter how great it taastes the food if it smells like s*** one will most likely avoid it. Summing up TC attractiveness counts and is very important. but it's not the whole thing because........there people who eat food that smell like s*** anywayDarthkaiser

I guess I'm just trying to make it simpler for TC but whatever. Plus I'm trying to answer his question from another angle. Oh well. Everyone knows physical attractiveness is important.

Many thigs attribute to attraction.-Big_Red-

depends.. if she likes average guys, she'll like average guys. go figure.

[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"]Many thigs attribute to attraction.rawsavon

[QUOTE="binpink"]

Sure. You may be surprised what some girls consider super attractive and what they don't. Physical appearance isn't everything.

rawsavon

HE's GOT A GUN!!!

[QUOTE="Darthkaiser"]Indeed, but on a general concept (generalizing population of the early XXI century) Attractiveness + Self Esteem= Win Attractiveness is quite important, the human being makes a impression of a person the very first 30 seconds of meeting. Attractiveness helps you suceed at those 30 seconds and self esteem and confidence for the rest of it. Without the first you can't even get to "the rest of it" If one would make an easier example for TC think of attractiveness as smell and what's on the inside the taste.. No matter how great it taastes the food if it smells like s*** one will most likely avoid it. Summing up TC attractiveness counts and is very important. but it's not the whole thing because........there people who eat food that smell like s*** anywaybinpink

I guess I'm just trying to make it simpler for TC but whatever. Plus I'm trying to answer his question from another angle. Oh well. Everyone knows physical attractiveness is important.

Yes but even with your angle, there is definitely criteria that you can set that the vast majority of women will feel make a man attractive, such as a muscular build (but not too buff), being tall, having the mature "chiseled" look.

Oh and physical attractiveness accounts for about 99.9% of things I feel. Quite frankly no one is going to date someone they find to be ugly, and quite frankly if there is a choice to be made I feel alot of people will go for the physically attractive person rather than the person with the better personality BUT will try and create a friendship with the unnattractive one. My life has pretty much been a testament to this...

You know, people always talk about men's unrealistic expectations of the female body caused by the media. Fact is, women are just as bad.WarriorsCreed

Honestly, they are probably worse.

I have been prousing the online dating scene and it is a wee bit ridiculous.

When ever women specify what they want in a guy, it is some tall, usually bearded man.

I have had everything point to me and girls being a good match (answered questions similarly, similar interests and goals, etc.) and yet STILL won't even get so much as a reply when I message them....

Hell, I had a girl IRL constantly texting me, calling me on a semi-daily basis to talk about her day, and we were hanging out quite often and I STILL got rejected when I asked her out (granted she turned out to be a bad person with the **** she came out with so it didn't really matter anyways as it made her completely un-dateable to me)...

[QUOTE="WarriorsCreed"]You know, people always talk about men's unrealistic expectations of the female body caused by the media. Fact is, women are just as bad.LostProphetFLCL

Honestly, they are probably worse.

I have been prousing the online dating scene and it is a wee bit ridiculous.

When ever women specify what they want in a guy, it is some tall, usually bearded man.

I have had everything point to me and girls being a good match (answered questions similarly, similar interests and goals, etc.) and yet STILL won't even get so much as a reply when I message them....

Hell, I had a girl IRL constantly texting me, calling me on a semi-daily basis to talk about her day, and we were hanging out quite often and I STILL got rejected when I asked her out (granted she turned out to be a bad person with the **** she came out with so it didn't really matter anyways as it made her completely un-dateable to me)...

Depends on the girl...like how they talk about my looks.

[QUOTE="LostProphetFLCL"]

[QUOTE="WarriorsCreed"]You know, people always talk about men's unrealistic expectations of the female body caused by the media. Fact is, women are just as bad.rawsavon

Honestly, they are probably worse.

I have been prousing the online dating scene and it is a wee bit ridiculous.

When ever women specify what they want in a guy, it is some tall, usually bearded man.

I have had everything point to me and girls being a good match (answered questions similarly, similar interests and goals, etc.) and yet STILL won't even get so much as a reply when I message them....

Hell, I had a girl IRL constantly texting me, calling me on a semi-daily basis to talk about her day, and we were hanging out quite often and I STILL got rejected when I asked her out (granted she turned out to be a bad person with the **** she came out with so it didn't really matter anyways as it made her completely un-dateable to me)...

The problem is the pickiness really only seems to exist when it comes to looks. The fact that someone like The Situation can get loads of women says alot (not that guys aren't guilty of this as well).

And honestly, I think more than just being picky, I think alot of people have completelt stupid expectations for relationships and the crap we have shoved down our throats in Hollywood movies just makes it worse.

It seems to me that most people have no concept of how relationships are not just going to be sunshine and rainbows and in fact take lots of effort on BOTH sides. Girls are expecting some perfect looking white knight to sweep them off their feet and make everything better (Seriously this crap is getting so old too. Give me a women with at least A LITTLE freaking independence and ability to take the first step sometimes).

People just completely lack patience alot of the time and break-up for the dumbest reasons (OMG I am not as in love with them as when it started. Time to end it and yes I have seen that happen).

You know, people always talk about men's unrealistic expectations of the female body caused by the media. Fact is, women are just as bad.WarriorsCreed

Honestly, they are probably worse.

I have been prousing the online dating scene and it is a wee bit ridiculous.

When ever women specify what they want in a guy, it is some tall, usually bearded man.

I have had everything point to me and girls being a good match (answered questions similarly, similar interests and goals, etc.) and yet STILL won't even get so much as a reply when I message them....

Hell, I had a girl IRL constantly texting me, calling me on a semi-daily basis to talk about her day, and we were hanging out quite often and I STILL got rejected when I asked her out (granted she turned out to be a bad person with the **** she came out with so it didn't really matter anyways as it made her completely un-dateable to me)...

Depends on how deep your pockets are.

Yes but even with your angle, there is definitely criteria that you can set that the vast majority of women will feel make a man attractive, such as a muscular build (but not too buff), being tall, having the mature "chiseled" look.

Oh and physical attractiveness accounts for about 99.9% of things I feel. Quite frankly no one is going to date someone they find to be ugly, and quite frankly if there is a choice to be made I feel alot of people will go for the physically attractive person rather than the person with the better personality BUT will try and create a friendship with the unnattractive one. My life has pretty much been a testament to this...

My girlfriend is seriously hot and i'm not. Therefore you have a good chance :D

[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="LostProphetFLCL"]

Honestly, they are probably worse.

I have been prousing the online dating scene and it is a wee bit ridiculous.

When ever women specify what they want in a guy, it is some tall, usually bearded man.

I have had everything point to me and girls being a good match (answered questions similarly, similar interests and goals, etc.) and yet STILL won't even get so much as a reply when I message them....

Hell, I had a girl IRL constantly texting me, calling me on a semi-daily basis to talk about her day, and we were hanging out quite often and I STILL got rejected when I asked her out (granted she turned out to be a bad person with the **** she came out with so it didn't really matter anyways as it made her completely un-dateable to me)...

LostProphetFLCL

The problem is the pickiness really only seems to exist when it comes to looks. The fact that someone like The Situation can get loads of women says alot (not that guys aren't guilty of this as well).

And honestly, I think more than just being picky, I think alot of people have completelt stupid expectations for relationships and the crap we have shoved down our throats in Hollywood movies just makes it worse.

It seems to me that most people have no concept of how relationships are not just going to be sunshine and rainbows and in fact take lots of effort on BOTH sides. Girls are expecting some perfect looking white knight to sweep them off their feet and make everything better (Seriously this crap is getting so old too. Give me a women with at least A LITTLE freaking independence and ability to take the first step sometimes).

People just completely lack patience alot of the time and break-up for the dumbest reasons (OMG I am not as in love with them as when it started. Time to end it and yes I have seen that happen).

[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="LostProphetFLCL"]

Honestly, they are probably worse.

I have been prousing the online dating scene and it is a wee bit ridiculous.

When ever women specify what they want in a guy, it is some tall, usually bearded man.

I have had everything point to me and girls being a good match (answered questions similarly, similar interests and goals, etc.) and yet STILL won't even get so much as a reply when I message them....

Hell, I had a girl IRL constantly texting me, calling me on a semi-daily basis to talk about her day, and we were hanging out quite often and I STILL got rejected when I asked her out (granted she turned out to be a bad person with the **** she came out with so it didn't really matter anyways as it made her completely un-dateable to me)...

WarriorsCreed

If there are people that have unrealistic expectations (if they truly are unrealistic), then they will never find someone b/c that had standards that could not be achieved.
-their loss and no one else's (who would be happy with someone like that)

If, on the other hand, they standards are achievable for them, then they are not unrealistic.

Also, the more you limit your options to what you really want (so long as they are obtainable), then the more likely you are to be happy when you actually find something that fits what you were looking for.

whats cool was this chick was always annoyed by me but then i got a haircut and she was all over me

[QUOTE="LostProphetFLCL"]

[QUOTE="rawsavon"] I find no issue with people being picky. It might result in fewer options, but the options will have a higher chance of success (happiness)rawsavon

The problem is the pickiness really only seems to exist when it comes to looks. The fact that someone like The Situation can get loads of women says alot (not that guys aren't guilty of this as well).

And honestly, I think more than just being picky, I think alot of people have completelt stupid expectations for relationships and the crap we have shoved down our throats in Hollywood movies just makes it worse.

It seems to me that most people have no concept of how relationships are not just going to be sunshine and rainbows and in fact take lots of effort on BOTH sides. Girls are expecting some perfect looking white knight to sweep them off their feet and make everything better (Seriously this crap is getting so old too. Give me a women with at least A LITTLE freaking independence and ability to take the first step sometimes).

People just completely lack patience alot of the time and break-up for the dumbest reasons (OMG I am not as in love with them as when it started. Time to end it and yes I have seen that happen).

Sorry if I confused people, but yes my problem is getting into a DATING relationship.

I easily make friends with women and have had older women (who are in relationships) ask me how I am not in a relationship (mainly because of how nice of a guy I am), yet I STILL cannot land a girlfriend...

It just boggles my mind that with having no trouble getting girls to like my personality, not a single one is willing to date me.

I have stopped talking to the last girl who rejected me because I can't help but think of her as a terrible person (she has cheated on multiple boyfriends and I am talking repeatedly with their best friend, and actually screwed around with my cousin/friend AT MY HOUSE WHILE I WAS IN THE SHOWER and this was when she was under the impression I was going to take her on a date...) and despite not wanting to date me, she kept texting me and calling me saying she missed me and ****...

Does a girl who has previously date a attractive guy, even find average guys as a viable option?

maptheninja

[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="LostProphetFLCL"]

The problem is the pickiness really only seems to exist when it comes to looks. The fact that someone like The Situation can get loads of women says alot (not that guys aren't guilty of this as well).

And honestly, I think more than just being picky, I think alot of people have completelt stupid expectations for relationships and the crap we have shoved down our throats in Hollywood movies just makes it worse.

It seems to me that most people have no concept of how relationships are not just going to be sunshine and rainbows and in fact take lots of effort on BOTH sides. Girls are expecting some perfect looking white knight to sweep them off their feet and make everything better (Seriously this crap is getting so old too. Give me a women with at least A LITTLE freaking independence and ability to take the first step sometimes).

People just completely lack patience alot of the time and break-up for the dumbest reasons (OMG I am not as in love with them as when it started. Time to end it and yes I have seen that happen).

LostProphetFLCL

Sorry if I confused people, but yes my problem is getting into a DATING relationship.

I easily make friends with women and have had older women (who are in relationships) ask me how I am not in a relationship (mainly because of how nice of a guy I am), yet I STILL cannot land a girlfriend...

It just boggles my mind that with having no trouble getting girls to like my personality, not a single one is willing to date me.

I have stopped talking to the last girl who rejected me because I can't help but think of her as a terrible person (she has cheated on multiple boyfriends and I am talking repeatedly with their best friend, and actually screwed around with my cousin/friend AT MY HOUSE WHILE I WAS IN THE SHOWER and this was when she was under the impression I was going to take her on a date...) and despite not wanting to date me, she kept texting me and calling me saying she missed me and ****...