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That's simply untrue, you're making a vast generalization that *all women* will dislike a particular sex act. On top of that you're casting your own personal ("gross") and moral ("pointless") judgments on the activity. - Whether or not a particular sexual activity is right for a person depends on their *own* physical, mental, and spiritual feelings. What's important here is that these teens are educated honestly. Scaring the crap out of them with overdone "you're going to get AIDS and die if you ever have sex ever" is worthless - they'll eventually find out you're lying and stop trusting you. Not telling them all the facts is worthless too - we tell them "wait until marriage" and don't tell them anything else, and well, they're left to their own devices and whatever their equally uneducated friends say. - The word "taboo" here doesn't help the cause - taboo is *appealing*, "taboo" adds mystery and the allure of the forbidden. Get clinical and get honest, and teens will be healthier.I never understood why some people love a-sex so much. It's not only gross and pointless, but the female partner won't even enjoy it. :|
Gamer4Iife
[QUOTE="Gamer4Iife"]That's simply untrue, you're making a vast generalization that *all women* will dislike a particular sex act. On top of that you're casting your own personal ("gross") and moral ("pointless") judgments on the activity. - Whether or not a particular sexual activity is right for a person depends on their *own* physical, mental, and spiritual feelings. What's important here is that these teens are educated honestly. Scaring the crap out of them with overdone "you're going to get AIDS and die if you ever have sex ever" is worthless - they'll eventually find out you're lying and stop trusting you. Not telling them all the facts is worthless too - we tell them "wait until marriage" and don't tell them anything else, and well, they're left to their own devices and whatever their equally uneducated friends say. - The word "taboo" here doesn't help the cause - taboo is *appealing*, "taboo" adds mystery and the allure of the forbidden. Get clinical and get honest, and teens will be healthier. lol Mean GirlsI never understood why some people love a-sex so much. It's not only gross and pointless, but the female partner won't even enjoy it. :|
subrosian
[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]Since when is that particular type of sex taboo?>_>Boba_Fett_3710Among straight couples it is. Why use the back door if the front door is wide open? You don't even have to knock. yes very true and well put
Honestly...i read the article and it said Taboo and i was like uhh so what it this taboo sex act...anal...really?Thessassin
Yeah, I was expecting some crazy, nasty act. All I could think was "really, that's it?" :|
It's not that bad. I wouldn't do it, but it's not like it's bad that they're doing it. I mean, if they have an STD or whatever, then they use a condom.dreDREb13Hahahahahah! Condoms don't protect you from STDs!
Honestly...i read the article and it said Taboo and i was like uhh so what it this taboo sex act...anal...really?ThessassinWell it's ABC news. What do you expect?
[QUOTE="Nifty_Shark"]You can still get a STD. Besides it is called oral sex. C'mon, you learned this in school.
Gamer4Iife
No, you can't... right ? :|
Do you know how people get STD's?I find it gross, the female already has a specific "thing" ready to acomidate the male reproduction organ if you ask me...
unless you are a male and is into guys I guess.
That's a ridiculous argument. Are you really trying to suggest that particular sexual act is only for gay men?[QUOTE="Thessassin"]Honestly...i read the article and it said Taboo and i was like uhh so what it this taboo sex act...anal...really?Dark_Knight6
Yeah, I was expecting some crazy, nasty act. All I could think was "really, that's it?" :|
I wasn't sure if I could say anal sex without getting in trouble. Apparently, we can.I've tried it with my girl friend and it feels so much better for me it's not even funny, but I don't do it anymore because she says she doesn't get much pleasure from it and that it hurts to much. We were successful once and she loved it that one time, but ever since then it's just been very painful for her.bigblunt537Well...since it hurts the girl I'll probably wouldn't try it. It would probably lead to a whole mess of problems with her bathroom breaks. *Shivers...
rofl at the AIDS scare relating to this type of sex.
Anal or not, if you have sex with someone with AIDS youre at risk to getting it. The type of sex really doesnt matter too much.
I can see it now in 5th grade classes:
"Kids, dont have anal sex, you'll get AIDS!"
"OH NO! Well, what about vaginal or oral?"
"Ummmmmmm i think thats OK"
Anal sex does have an increased risk of transmitting HIV, compared to vaginal or oral sex, however with proper protection the chances of transmission are low. Ideally, people who are sexually active should get screened at a health center, and if they're active with multiple partners (or suspect their partner has been) they need to get checkups regularly. - People just need to take some responsibility, and parents need to be willing to be someone their child feels comfortable talking about sex with.Anal or not, if you have sex with someone with AIDS youre at risk to getting it. The type of sex really doesnt matter too much.
mrbojangles25
[QUOTE="mrbojangles25"]Anal sex does have an increased risk of transmitting HIV, compared to vaginal or oral sex, however with proper protection the chances of transmission are low. Ideally, people who are sexually active should get screened at a health center, and if they're active with multiple partners (or suspect their partner has been) they need to get checkups regularly. - People just need to take some responsibility, and parents need to be willing to be someone their child feels comfortable talking about sex with.Anal or not, if you have sex with someone with AIDS youre at risk to getting it. The type of sex really doesnt matter too much.
subrosian
true, but thats like saying a fall from 500 feet is less lethal than a fall from 600.
Still, youre right...if youre careful and smart, you will be ok. I just hate these "fear sex!" people out there.
Anal or not, if you have sex with someone with AIDS youre at risk to getting it. The type of sex really doesnt matter too much.
Anal sex does have an increased risk of transmitting HIV, compared to vaginal or oral sex, however with proper protection the chances of transmission are low. Ideally, people who are sexually active should get screened at a health center, and if they're active with multiple partners (or suspect their partner has been) they need to get checkups regularly. - People just need to take some responsibility, and parents need to be willing to be someone their child feels comfortable talking about sex with.true, but thats like saying a fall from 500 feet is less lethal than a fall from 600.
Still, youre right...if youre careful and smart, you will be ok. I just hate these "fear sex!" people out there.
Oh yeah no, I agree, it's completely ridiculous. Technically speaking if you're in a monogamous relationship you have absolutely nothing to worry about. You can't get HIV from someone who doesn't have it. I think the whole "scaring the crap out of kids" approach is worthless because it just drives them to hide their relationships and engage in riskier behaviors.I don't see what's so taboo about anal. It's just another area of the body to explore. I'm more appalled by "getting down to business", without any sort of foreplay, as a regular situation in some relationships. Then again, I'm very open minded to non-traditional ideas in those situations, so...Damn, things have changed since I was in high school.
According to ABC News, researchers at the Bradley Hasbro Children's Research Center in Rhode Island has stated that a certain type of sex act is on the rise among teens and young adults. The experts have stated that young women like the one mentioned in the article are convinved to do things like this for the wrong reasons.
I wanna know...what are the RIGHT reasons? Man, I thought trying to cop a feel when I was a teenager was tough; now you have kids living out porn star fantasies.
Thoughts?
Hallenbeck77
I still just don't see the appeal. Wouldn't it sort of be like reverse pooping? Feeling like a huge turd coming back inside you? Eh, and vice-like as well.Notsogr8oneQuick info: The placement of the prostate in the male body is located right by the rectum, about three inches into the anus. It's been considered the "male G-spot", because it's an incredibly sensitive gland filled with nerve endings(not as concentrated as the cl!t but hey, that's a hard target).
Vicelike? Reverse pooping? Couldn't say I haven't done the deed myself, and I doubt I'd want to get into deep discussions about it with my friends who have. :P
[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]Since when is that particular type of sex taboo?>_>II_Seraphim_III was thinking the same thing lol...me too. its them christians i tells ya. pretty sure its against something, i could be wrong?
[QUOTE="Notsogr8one"]I still just don't see the appeal. .SajedeneDone right it can be quite fun.darn tootin!
Ummm... Hate to break it to you all, but.... Guess what comes out of the male genitalia.... I will let you think about it, anyways the reason that god doesnt want people to have sex before marriage is, to avoid teen pregnancies, and I would probably say that sex is not exclusive to one type of sex. As a christian I dont see anything wrong with anal sex (as long as your married), if it hurts, YOUR DOING IT WRONG! Also so you won't get std's, the problem with having sex with just anyone, is your going to get diseases spread around that shouldn't happen. Most likely in a marriage you won't get std's, so there is good reasons why the bible calls it adultery, but on a theoretical point of view, woudlnt you want your sex to be exclusive? Besides what if your relationship does not work out, then you had sex with someone that you are not even around anymore.
"1 ¶ Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: [It is] good for a man not to touch a woman. 2 Nevertheless, [to avoid] fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. 3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. 4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. 5 Defraud ye not one the other, except [it be] with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. 6 But I speak this by permission, [and] not of commandment. 7 For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that. 8 I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I. 9 But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn."
http://www.guidedbiblestudies.com/46_007.htm
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