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#1 Razor-Lazor
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I have a girl problem, so I figured I'd turn to the mighty geniuses that OT contains.

Anyways, here's my problem. I've liked this girl for about a year now. At first, she hated me, but we became friends. I had a crush on her, and the more we've talked and stuff, I fell in love with her. She's beautiful, smart, and just perfect to me. The problem is, she's dating my friend. I told him I liked her, and he went for her. Of course, since he's the "Mr. Perfect" in our town, she dated him. Since the first time they've dated, he's cheated on her, broke up with her on Valentine's Day, and dated her best friend. So this is the fourth time they're going out, and I can't stand it. He's a good guy, but I want to kill him whenever I see them together. People say I should just get over her, but that's incredibly hard for me, and frankly, I don't want to get over her.

What is your suggestion?

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Eat your friend's heart, and his power will be yours.
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I have a girl problem, so I figured I'd turn to the mighty geniuses that OT contains.

Anyways, here's my problem. I've liked this girl for about a year now. At first, she hated me, but we became friends. I had a crush on her, and the more we've talked and stuff, I fell in love with her. She's beautiful, smart, and just perfect to me. The problem is, she's dating my friend. I told him I liked her, and he went for her. Of course, since he's the "Mr. Perfect" in our town, she dated him. Since the first time they've dated, he's cheated on her, broke up with her on Valentine's Day, and dated her best friend. So this is the fourth time they're going out, and I can't stand it. He's a good guy, but I want to kill him whenever I see them together. People say I should just get over her, but that's incredibly hard for me, and frankly, I don't want to get over her.

What is your suggestion?

Razor-Lazor
I'd literally beat the crap out of your friend; no joke. He gives a bad rep to guys because he's a player and he betrayed your friendship by going out with her just because you liked her. As far as logical advice, just tell her how you feel. If she explains how she likes your friend then explain to her how deceptive he is. You have to show confidence and passion towards her. Don't go over board but if there's one thing girls like the most of any guy is confidence. Remember that!
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"he's cheated on her, broke up with her on Valentine's Day, and dated her best friend." "He's a good guy",

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wow I would hate to see your definiton of an *******. :lol:
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get over her. She is dumb for going back to this creep.

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#6 AAllxxjjnn
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No offense, that girl you're going for sounds INCREDIBLY stupid for going back to him so many times.

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#7 Wicked_Spades
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Stupid girls are easy. Tell her you want to be friends with benefits XD

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#8 Razor-Lazor
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[QUOTE="Wicked_Spades"][QUOTE="Razor-Lazor"]

I have a girl problem, so I figured I'd turn to the mighty geniuses that OT contains.

Anyways, here's my problem. I've liked this girl for about a year now. At first, she hated me, but we became friends. I had a crush on her, and the more we've talked and stuff, I fell in love with her. She's beautiful, smart, and just perfect to me. The problem is, she's dating my friend. I told him I liked her, and he went for her. Of course, since he's the "Mr. Perfect" in our town, she dated him. Since the first time they've dated, he's cheated on her, broke up with her on Valentine's Day, and dated her best friend. So this is the fourth time they're going out, and I can't stand it. He's a good guy, but I want to kill him whenever I see them together. People say I should just get over her, but that's incredibly hard for me, and frankly, I don't want to get over her.

What is your suggestion?

I'd literally beat the crap out of your friend; no joke. He gives a bad rep to guys because he's a player and he betrayed your friendship by going out with her just because you liked her. As far as logical advice, just tell her how you feel. If she explains how she likes your friend then explain to her how deceptive he is. You have to show confidence and passion towards her. Don't go over board but if there's one thing girls like the most of any guy is confidence. Remember that!

Thanks for the advice, but just so we're clear, he's a nice guy. He didn't just date her to make me mad, I showed her who I liked, and he started liking her. But I know there's no way he likes her as much as I do. Anyways, he even asked for my permission to date her, and I didn't want to sound like a jealous idiot, so I said sure.
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Wait until you guy's are old enough to actually start dating. And none of this, going out for 2 days crap and saying she's in a relationship.
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I didn't want to sound like a jealous idiot, so I said sure.Razor-Lazor
you should have said no....
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[QUOTE="Razor-Lazor"][QUOTE="Wicked_Spades"][QUOTE="Razor-Lazor"]

I have a girl problem, so I figured I'd turn to the mighty geniuses that OT contains.

Anyways, here's my problem. I've liked this girl for about a year now. At first, she hated me, but we became friends. I had a crush on her, and the more we've talked and stuff, I fell in love with her. She's beautiful, smart, and just perfect to me. The problem is, she's dating my friend. I told him I liked her, and he went for her. Of course, since he's the "Mr. Perfect" in our town, she dated him. Since the first time they've dated, he's cheated on her, broke up with her on Valentine's Day, and dated her best friend. So this is the fourth time they're going out, and I can't stand it. He's a good guy, but I want to kill him whenever I see them together. People say I should just get over her, but that's incredibly hard for me, and frankly, I don't want to get over her.

What is your suggestion?

I'd literally beat the crap out of your friend; no joke. He gives a bad rep to guys because he's a player and he betrayed your friendship by going out with her just because you liked her. As far as logical advice, just tell her how you feel. If she explains how she likes your friend then explain to her how deceptive he is. You have to show confidence and passion towards her. Don't go over board but if there's one thing girls like the most of any guy is confidence. Remember that!

Thanks for the advice, but just so we're clear, he's a nice guy. He didn't just date her to make me mad, I showed her who I liked, and he started liking her. But I know there's no way he likes her as much as I do. Anyways, he even asked for my permission to date her, and I didn't want to sound like a jealous idiot, so I said sure.

As Matty pointed out he's ANYTHING but a nice guy if he pulls this kind of ****: "he's cheated on her, broke up with her on Valentine's Day, and dated her best friend."
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#12 Razor-Lazor
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[QUOTE="mattykovax"][QUOTE="Razor-Lazor"]

"he's cheated on her, broke up with her on Valentine's Day, and dated her best friend." "He's a good guy",

wow I would hate to see your definiton of an *******. :lol:

:P Well it sounds bad, but I'm exagerating. He didn't really make out with girls, but he always excluded her and hung out with other girls. And, he dumped her the day before Valentine's Day. Finally, no one's really sure if he dated her best friend, they kinda had a one day thing going.
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[QUOTE="Razor-Lazor"][QUOTE="Wicked_Spades"][QUOTE="Razor-Lazor"]

I have a girl problem, so I figured I'd turn to the mighty geniuses that OT contains.

Anyways, here's my problem. I've liked this girl for about a year now. At first, she hated me, but we became friends. I had a crush on her, and the more we've talked and stuff, I fell in love with her. She's beautiful, smart, and just perfect to me. The problem is, she's dating my friend. I told him I liked her, and he went for her. Of course, since he's the "Mr. Perfect" in our town, she dated him. Since the first time they've dated, he's cheated on her, broke up with her on Valentine's Day, and dated her best friend. So this is the fourth time they're going out, and I can't stand it. He's a good guy, but I want to kill him whenever I see them together. People say I should just get over her, but that's incredibly hard for me, and frankly, I don't want to get over her.

What is your suggestion?

I'd literally beat the crap out of your friend; no joke. He gives a bad rep to guys because he's a player and he betrayed your friendship by going out with her just because you liked her. As far as logical advice, just tell her how you feel. If she explains how she likes your friend then explain to her how deceptive he is. You have to show confidence and passion towards her. Don't go over board but if there's one thing girls like the most of any guy is confidence. Remember that!

Thanks for the advice, but just so we're clear, he's a nice guy. He didn't just date her to make me mad, I showed her who I liked, and he started liking her. But I know there's no way he likes her as much as I do. Anyways, he even asked for my permission to date her, and I didn't want to sound like a jealous idiot, so I said sure.

Dumb move dude. She's attached to him dude. Simple mistake and an easy way to make life hell for you. Best thing to do is move on. You don't want to but you're seriously wasting your time.
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Shoot him with your Lazor!
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He's a good guy, but I want to kill him whenever I see them together.

What is your suggestion?

Razor-Lazor

My suggestion: seek professional help, becuase that **** ain't healthy.

Or, you could just write her an anonymous letter saying he is cheating on her. Gauranteed to start a major fight in their relationship.

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#16 MrPraline
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He doesn't sound like a nice guy. He sounds like a douche. From what you posted he treats her like ****.
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#17 MrPraline
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[QUOTE="Razor-Lazor"][QUOTE="mattykovax"][QUOTE="Razor-Lazor"]

"he's cheated on her, broke up with her on Valentine's Day, and dated her best friend." "He's a good guy",

wow I would hate to see your definiton of an *******. :lol:

:P Well it sounds bad, but I'm exagerating. He didn't really make out with girls, but he always excluded her and hung out with other girls. And, he dumped her the day before Valentine's Day. Finally, no one's really sure if he dated her best friend, they kinda had a one day thing going.

lolwut. You can't go back now!
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Find a girl who likes YOU.
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Find a girl who likes YOU.duxup
that's unAmerican.
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#20 MrPraline
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Or better: find a girl HE likes! Payback's a *****. :P
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Wow... how are you still friends with that guy?
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#22 MrPraline
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[QUOTE="duxup"]Find a girl who likes YOU.Jandurin
that's unAmerican.

Combining threads is unamerican.
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#23 Razor-Lazor
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Or better: find a girl HE likes! Payback's a *****. :PMrPraline
Any girl he likes is out of my league, sadly.
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[QUOTE="Jandurin"][QUOTE="duxup"]Find a girl who likes YOU.MrPraline
that's unAmerican.

Combining threads is unamerican.

not capitalizing the A is unAmerican >_>
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#25 msuspartan11
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[QUOTE="duxup"]Find a girl who likes YOU.Jandurin
that's unAmerican.

Quoted for truth, QTF the acronym is unAmerican.
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#26 MrPraline
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[QUOTE="Jandurin"][QUOTE="duxup"]Find a girl who likes YOU.msuspartan11
that's unAmerican.

Quoted for truth, QTF the acronym is unAmerican.

****ing up acronyms is UnAmerican. :P
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[QUOTE="MrPraline"]Or better: find a girl HE likes! Payback's a *****. :PRazor-Lazor
Any girl he likes is out of my league, sadly.

you're not listening. the girl is whipped from the sounds of it so you failed. just move on - there's plenty of chicks to go around; seriously. It didn't take me too long to find me a new girl.
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#28 Razor-Lazor
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Wow... how are you still friends with that guy?GodofBigMacs
I try. I have to give him credit, because when I moved, I was a complete loser, and I hated him. I was jealous of him for everything he had. Then, I started to become his friend. Everything went much better. I got about three times the amount of friends I had before we were friends, and yeah. Usually, it didn't bother me that he would date girls I had crushes on, but then he dated this girl. I just fell apart. I became depressed and I hardly ever talked to him.
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#29 MrPraline
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[QUOTE="Jandurin"][QUOTE="MrPraline"][QUOTE="Jandurin"] that's unAmerican.

Combining threads is unamerican.

not capitalizing the A is unAmerican >_>

Not capitalizing the first word of your post is UnAmerican. :x
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[QUOTE="MrPraline"]Or better: find a girl HE likes! Payback's a *****. :PRazor-Lazor
Any girl he likes is out of my league, sadly.

go for his mom
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#31 xxxAdvocatexxx
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Well the truth is... Be honest with her. Tell her how you feel. Ask her out. Plan and simple. If she turns you down than the worst that could happen is that you are just good friends. If you don't ask her out or let her know how you feel then you will never know how she feels. You need to know how she feels about you. trust me you will requet not knowing.

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#32 MrPraline
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This may not mean much coming from the internets, but I do feel bad for you. It does sound like you need to move on though.
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#33 clayron
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[QUOTE="Jandurin"][QUOTE="MrPraline"]Combining threads is unamerican.MrPraline
not capitalizing the A is unAmerican >_>

Not capitalizing the first word of your post is UnAmerican. :x

You two are the greatest.

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[QUOTE="Razor-Lazor"][QUOTE="MrPraline"]Or better: find a girl HE likes! Payback's a *****. :Pmichael_1234576
Any girl he likes is out of my league, sadly.

go for his mom

:lol: Epic suggestion.
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lol this reminds me of family guy with the christian bale voice over thing. Bale: "you're a nice guy but you are a F***ing idiot" Peter: *in between tears* " I dont feel like a nice guy" lol anyways just take her dont ask for permission. He sounds like a douche! If hes such a ladys man he wont really care if you take her cuz he will find another girl. BTW does he look anything like this:

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#37 rowzzr
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tc, why blame your friend for your stupidity? obviously, you need to meet other girls.
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#38 pierst179
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I hate these situations where a girl keeps going back to the same guy even though he cheats on her. But well that is life.

You should find another girl I guess.

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Anyone else think this guy looks fake? Like literally plastic?

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#40 raider1648
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take him here

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#41 xxxAdvocatexxx
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OMG What is wrong with him? He Looks plastic. Is she banging a blow up doll? And if so where can i get one? shocked

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New piece of advice. Shoot your friend with a raccoon tranquilizer from a far distance. He'll never know what happen and he'll have some weird skin issues. Guaranteed to stop girls from liking him for a good month or two XD

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Your friend sounds like a dick and this girl sounds stupid. I don't know if she's even worth it if she'll keep going back to him.
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Your friend sounds like a dick and this girl sounds stupid. I don't know if she's even worth it if she'll keep going back to him.t3hrubikscube
this is definitely the most logical answer
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#46 Razor-Lazor
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[QUOTE="t3hrubikscube"]Your friend sounds like a dick and this girl sounds stupid. I don't know if she's even worth it if she'll keep going back to him.michael_1234576
this is definitely the most logical answer

I thought your "date his mom" answer was pretty logical...
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#47 Papitar
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Make clear to her that you "REALLY LOOVE her" and see how she reacts.

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I would beat up your best friend if I was you.

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:P Well it sounds bad, but I'm exagerating. He didn't really make out with girls, but he always excluded her and hung out with other girls. And, he dumped her the day before Valentine's Day. Finally, no one's really sure if he dated her best friend, they kinda had a one day thing going.Razor-Lazor

Great googly moogly...

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#50 Thessassin
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3 options

1) tell her you like her

2) dont say anything and go about your miserable life

3) Get over her