Advice on weird situation with my girlfriend and best friend..

ok i trust them both, and i know nothings going on between them but they are like really good friends..

its kind of been bugging me lately because like they always talk on the phone like from like 1-3 am.. it really bugged me because my gf went on a trip for like 5 days and she never called me but she called my friend..

so what do you guys think i should do, i know its nothin big but it just kind of bugs me.

Punch your best friend in the nose and give your girlfriend a good spanking...

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Close friends? If they flirt then I'd keep an eye open.Zaeryn

What is up with all these threads lately with guys being girls close friends.

Punch your best friend in the nose and give your girlfriend a good spanking...

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super_mario_128

Yeah, I second this.

ya well i kinda freaked out at them before..

it was before we started dating but my friend and gf we like "wrestling" and it was really uncomfortable to watch so i left and was pissed at them and they said they were just playing around and that nothing happened but it really looked like flirting to me.

and they used to like eachother too, but i dont want to make a big deal if its not anything so idk.

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Punch your best friend in the nose and give your girlfriend a good spanking...

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jointed

Yeah, I second this.

Nah, give them both a spanking. And then ask them both to spank you. And then ask them to spank each other. And then see where things are going and wing it from there.

ya well i kinda freaked out at them before..

it was before we started dating but my friend and gf we like "wrestling" and it was really uncomfortable to watch so i left and was pissed at them and they said they were just playing around and that nothing happened but it really looked like flirting to me.

and they used to like eachother too, but i dont want to make a big deal if its not anything so idk.

earlboykins_11

why didnt you ask why she called your friend and not you?

if my gf kept calling my friend i would ask her about it

DTB Dont trust B|tch's

ok i trust them both, and i know nothings going on between them but they are like really good friends..

its kind of been bugging me lately because like they always talk on the phone like from like 1-3 am.. it really bugged me because my gf went on a trip for like 5 days and she never called me but she called my friend..

so what do you guys think i should do, i know its nothin big but it just kind of bugs me.

earlboykins_11

the other guy might be me!

If you're really friends then share her. Do her at the same time bird-man

Bros. before hoes, indeed.

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ok i trust them both, and i know nothings going on between them but they are like really good friends..

its kind of been bugging me lately because like they always talk on the phone like from like 1-3 am.. it really bugged me because my gf went on a trip for like 5 days and she never called me but she called my friend..

so what do you guys think i should do, i know its nothin big but it just kind of bugs me.

KeizerHalil

the other guy might be me!

Narcissism: you epitomise it.

1) You use the like too much in speech, but there is really no need to interject 'like' where it doesn't belong when you are typing, is there?

2) I'm going to be straightforward with you. I hope you can handle it. What they are doing isn't ok, by standards of a traditional friend relationship. Friends of opposite sexes don't wrestle with each other in front of their significant other. They don't call their friends instead of the significant other. They don't talk on the phone late at night with each other instead of their significant other. Speak up or don't complain. You know something is wrong, otherwise you wouldn't have posted this.

3) From the sounds of it, this relationship sounds pretty pathetic. For your own sake, break up with her.

Have a threesome. batboy113

The same identical thing happened to me. My ex gf talked to my friend more than she talked to me.

Notice how she is my ex.

Don't be controlling of her but I would just say that once the doubt is put into your mind, things will just roll downhill from there unless that doubt is removed. Let her know how you feel about it, but don't appear jealous or controlling. Learn from my mistakes. No woman likes a jealous man.

The same identical thing happened to me. My ex gf talked to my friend more than she talked to me.

Notice how she is my ex.

Don't be controlling of her but I would just say that once the doubt is put into your mind, things will just roll downhill from there unless that doubt is removed. Let her know how you feel about it, but don't appear jealous or controlling. Learn from my mistakes. No woman likes a jealous man.

efrucht

See this is why you guys should share her. Everybody wins especially your girlfriend and you want her to be happy don't you

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The same identical thing happened to me. My ex gf talked to my friend more than she talked to me.

Notice how she is my ex.

Don't be controlling of her but I would just say that once the doubt is put into your mind, things will just roll downhill from there unless that doubt is removed. Let her know how you feel about it, but don't appear jealous or controlling. Learn from my mistakes. No woman likes a jealous man.

bird-man

See this is why you guys should share her. Everybody wins especially your girlfriend and you want her to be happy don't you

*Beckons fellow OTers to arrange ourselves in a love circle*

there is a reason she called him over you. its time to find out that reason. send 47 round to her house

but seriously, sounds like she's not the one for you. talk to her about it without saying 'this makes me jealous' more just ask' why do you talk to him on the phone and not me?' but not those words cuz that would make you sound like a panzy

1) You use the like too much in speech, but there is really no need to interject 'like' where it doesn't belong when you are typing, is there?

2) I'm going to be straightforward with you. I hope you can handle it. What they are doing isn't ok, by standards of a traditional friend relationship. Friends of opposite sexes don't wrestle with each other in front of their significant other. They don't call their friends instead of the significant other. They don't talk on the phone late at night with each other instead of their significant other. Speak up or don't complain. You know something is wrong, otherwise you wouldn't have posted this.

3) From the sounds of it, this relationship sounds pretty pathetic. For your own sake, break up with her.

FragStains

lol.

shes cheating

ok i trust them both, and i know nothings going on between them but they are like really good friends..

its kind of been bugging me lately because like they always talk on the phone like from like 1-3 am.. it really bugged me because my gf went on a trip for like 5 days and she never called me but she called my friend..

so what do you guys think i should do, i know its nothin big but it just kind of bugs me.

earlboykins_11

here's what's going on. her and your friend have been messing around behind your back. she doesn't have the heart to dump you. like someone else said, get one last time with her in the sack and then dump her.darkjedirpm

good idea!

Get outta there, man. Before things escalate and get worse.

After you break up with her, see if your friends moves in on her. If he does then you know you were right. And you know the same thing is just going to happen to him so you can walk away happy.

Whoops, where'd that come from? Oh, sorry, I should probably move that out of here. Yeah, 'cause that's like not relevant at all.

[spoiler] Relax, I'm not making fun of you. Just keep an eye on them, maybe try and spend a little more time with just her, if she constantly wants him to be along also then you have a problem. [/spoiler]

ok i trust them both, and i know nothings going on between them but they are like really good friends..

its kind of been bugging me lately because like they always talk on the phone like from like 1-3 am.. it really bugged me because my gf went on a trip for like 5 days and she never called me but she called my friend..

so what do you guys think i should do, i know its nothin big but it just kind of bugs me.

earlboykins_11

pfft. get a new gf cuz you've lost that one.

Well I must tell you that if you're right then he isn't your friend and she doesn't care about you(at least not anymore) so don't hold back on anything and ask her right away, even if that means you lose a "friend" because he really wasn't.

I've been in this situation, just on the other "side". You know my best friend had a girlfriend and she started flirting with me, it got to the point were she kissed me once and I knew there was something wrong going on so I told my friend about what happened and he dumped her afterwards. Thing is she still liked me after that and now she's my girlfriend :P I don't know if this was a good example but you get the point.