Anyone else have a hard time saying no?

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#1 msuspartan11
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And no this is not a topic about me getting pressured into taking drugs. I'm just wondering if anyone else feels like they have a hard time saying no when people ask favors of you. I feel like I have to say yes or else I sound like a jerk.

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#2 Mercenary848
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no

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#3 Macanada
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You're the opposite of the Yes Man lol

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#4 RobbieH1234
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No.

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#5 sammyjenkis898
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It depends. The other day I was awoken by two Jehovah's Witnesses. They asked if I was interested in hearing what they had to say. I replied very loudly with "No!". :P
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#6 mattykovax
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Not really. and it must be about drugs because you brought it up. :lol:
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#7 msuspartan11
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No it's mainly people asking me at church asking if I would like to help in this summer youth program. I thought if I said no I would sound like a jerk.
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#8 ernie1989
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No.

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#9 Morning_Revival
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Depends on who is asking me. Earlier today, I was about to go to the mall to buy a movie, and this girl called me and asked if I could give her a ride home tonight. First of all, I dont even know how she got my number. I cannot stand her, because about 2 or 3 weeks ago, Lisa heard a song that reminded her of a friend who passed away. They played the song at the girls funeral, so she started crying, and then Im trying to comfort her but this girl pushes me out of the damn way :x I couldve punched her then. I was so mad.
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#10 crusadeonacid
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People-pleaser and push-over are both terms that fit me well.

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#11 intheshad0ws
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Well if its a friend asking me to help him with something and I really dont want to do it I still say yes.

I do this because I hope that he would do the same in return.

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#12 vidplayer8
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Sometimes yeah. Especially when I was younger.

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#13 CleanPlayer
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I'm a little like that. Sometimes I say maybe just to throw them off a little.
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#14 clock_of_omens
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if the person is my friend

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#15 lucky326
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I do, can be troublesome at times.

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#16 Shi-ro-me
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Depends on who's asking and what they're asking for. If my mom is asking me to hand her the remote for the tv then I'll gladly throw it at her face.

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#17 Devil-Itachi
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I have a hard time saying yes and no. The closes to yes or no for a question like that for me is usually a probably or I don't think so.
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#18 fmacraze
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Nope.
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#19 cyberdarkkid
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No I don't.
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#20 gingefails
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It really, really depends on the situation. Sometimes I enjoy saying 'no' to be mean, if it is trivial and unimporant.
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#21 DivergeUnify
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Not at all.
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#22 pygmahia5
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sometimes. it depends on who the person is and what its for.
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#23 scfan3
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I honestly find it impossible to say yes when people ask me to do something.....
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#24 UnrighteousFury
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Not really.

When ever someone goes, "Hey can you do me a favor," my response is always, "Depends on what it is."

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#25 sailor232
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Yeah sometimes, I've got alot better at saying no as I get older but it's still a hurdle sometimes. Really sucks and can get me in alot of trouble saying yes all the time.

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#26 The_New_Homer
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noep.
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#27 Santesyu
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Depends on who is asking me. Earlier today, I was about to go to the mall to buy a movie, and this girl called me and asked if I could give her a ride home tonight. First of all, I dont even know how she got my number. I cannot stand her, because about 2 or 3 weeks ago, Lisa heard a song that reminded her of a friend who passed away. They played the song at the girls funeral, so she started crying, and then Im trying to comfort her but this girl pushes me out of the damn way :x I couldve punched her then. I was so mad.Morning_Revival
:O I am interested in hearing more about this story...
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#28 T_P_O
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No.

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#29 scorch-62
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Not at all.
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#30 The_New_Homer
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I dont!
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#31 kingdre
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No.

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#32 solid_mario
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Depends on the favor. I've tried to do more for my friends recently because I wanted to.
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#33 JC346
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Depends on who is asking me. Earlier today, I was about to go to the mall to buy a movie, and this girl called me and asked if I could give her a ride home tonight. First of all, I dont even know how she got my number. I cannot stand her, because about 2 or 3 weeks ago, Lisa heard a song that reminded her of a friend who passed away. They played the song at the girls funeral, so she started crying, and then Im trying to comfort her but this girl pushes me out of the damn way :x I couldve punched her then. I was so mad.Morning_Revival
lolwut?
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#34 GodofBigMacs
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I have that problem...
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#35 The_New_Homer
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no
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#36 XD4NTESINF3RNOX
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no

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awww lame i was gonna say that :x

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#37 tsduv21
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It depends on who it is, but most of the time I can say no.
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#38 lilasianwonder
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No. In fact its my favorite word.

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#39 stepnkev
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No. I don't have a problem saying no. I enjoy doing favors for others though unless it goes against my beliefs.

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#40 XilePrincess
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Depending on what it is, if it's just me being lazy I suck it up and just say yes. If I really don't want to, or it's a stupid request, I just have an excuse or say "that's the dumbest favor Ive ever heard"
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#41 muller39
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No man No man No man No man No man!!!

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#42 0Tyler0
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"noep" "i dont" "no" wanna post that a 4th time?
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#43 Famiking
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I say "Yes, but no". It sounds much more polite >_>
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#44 papermariofan57
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I always try to say yes:) but when i cant i tell the person the truth

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#45 blackrytonite
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Most of the time I do, if it involves trying to please others. I won't do stuff that is against my morals though.

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#46 pierst179
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I do! :(

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#47 b3yondstupidity
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Uhmm, no not really no.
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#48 Renegade_Fury
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No........maybe.......yes... :(

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#49 deactivated-5c8e4e07d5510
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Depends on my opinion of the person asking me a favor...

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#50 luke1889
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I can say no really quite easily. When it comes to it, screw other people.