Anyone else sick of being who people want you to be?

Lol your the big man there in the arcade department right why not get a little office romance going. XDShadowlinex

[QUOTE="Shadowlinex"]Lol your the big man there in the arcade department right why not get a little office romance going. XDOmni-Slash

Then don't. Best to do what you want....within limits of course.

Then don't. Best to do what you want....within limits of course.

LJS9502_basic

Ms Ayanami.....your sarcasm detector is malfunctioning....

Omni-Slash

[QUOTE="Omni-Slash"]

Ms Ayanami.....your sarcasm detector is malfunctioning....

ayanami_rei

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[QUOTE="Omni-Slash"]

Ms Ayanami.....your sarcasm detector is malfunctioning....

Shadowlinex

I don't want to go to hardcore concerts, I don't want to see some stupid horror movie this Friday and get wasted the next night. I don't want to smoke and steal and pack a SUV being driven by someone wiithout a license. I'm sick of it, this is not who I am, but how I'm supposed to say no when everything around me demands such? Is it worth losing the people around me to live how I want?

massiv-damage

No. I had food. Now I'm just down.ayanami_rei

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No. Either get in and fit in, or get out. People will like you better this way--it's pretty damn selfish of you to want to be your own person.

Yeah I agree, being yourself is totally overrated as well as the notion that being unaccepted is good.

Exactly, it's nice to see someone in here with a hint of common sense. Now if everybody could just fall in line and be what everyone else wants them to be, the world would toally be a better place.

Uh,yeah dont do those things unless you want to.....mattykovax

Wise words, the TC would do well to follow them. Be yourself, don't try to make yourself into something fake. When you do that you're surpressing the real "you", and effectively killing your personality.

[QUOTE="ayanami_rei"]No. I had food. Now I'm just down.Omni-Slash

Oh, for sure. I turn on some Linkin Park and sob myself to sleep every night. Not before writing some poorly structered poetry, though.

[QUOTE="Omni-Slash"][QUOTE="ayanami_rei"]No. I had food. Now I'm just down.ayanami_rei

Rather close to that time and missing a certain someone. v.vayanami_rei

I don't want to go to hardcore concerts, I don't want to see some stupid horror movie this Friday and get wasted the next night. I don't want to smoke and steal and pack a SUV being driven by someone wiithout a license. I'm sick of it, this is not who I am, but how I'm supposed to say no when everything around me demands such? Is it worth losing the people around me to live how I want?

massiv-damage

[QUOTE="ayanami_rei"]Rather close to that time and missing a certain someone. v.vOmni-Slash

Yes, go with the majority of what OT is saying, and screw the majority.

...wait...

...But seriously, do what you want man.

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[QUOTE="Dystopian-X"]

Yeah I agree, being yourself is totally overrated as well as the notion that being unaccepted is good.

Serraph105

Exactly, it's nice to see someone in here with a hint of common sense. Now if everybody could just fall in line and be what everyone else wants them to be, the world would toally be a better place.

I don't drink. D:ayanami_rei

[QUOTE="Dystopian-X"]

Yeah I agree, being yourself is totally overrated as well as the notion that being unaccepted is good.

Exactly, it's nice to see someone in here with a hint of common sense. Now if everybody could just fall in line and be what everyone else wants them to be, the world would toally be a better place.

Sounds like you need some new friends, or need to enjoy getting wasted more haha

you smoke then proceed to steal and pack an SUV driven by a high, drunk person with no license? Well my friend, I'm not sure how you got yourself into a situation like that, but I think it's time you said, "naw man not tonight".mohfrontline

It's crazy to see people be what society wants them to be but not me :D

Just don't do it then...easy as pie.

Uh,yeah dont do those things unless you want to.....mattykovax

No one ever does anything they do not want to do.

I am, and Ive stopped trying to be "society's person".

Honestly, the passed two years or soof my life Ive become myself- totally, formed my own opinions, my values, not anyone else.

Im rocking the makeup and my own style, listening to the music I want to, and being confident in what I like, and in my values.

REM said once, "You are not me". and I love that phrase for exactly what it is.

I don't want to go to hardcore concerts, I don't want to see some stupid horror movie this Friday and get wasted the next night. I don't want to smoke and steal and pack a SUV being driven by someone wiithout a license. I'm sick of it, this is not who I am, but how I'm supposed to say no when everything around me demands such? Is it worth losing the people around me to live how I want?

massiv-damage

[QUOTE="Serraph105"][QUOTE="TecmoGirl"]

Exactly, it's nice to see someone in here with a hint of common sense. Now if everybody could just fall in line and be what everyone else wants them to be, the world would toally be a better place.

MuddVader

Find people who relate to then.. having friends just to fit in with a certain crowd is socialy stupid... especialy if you think they are being silly. But it happens all the time because people think that's what's important.

I got sick of it a long time ago.

but what if you are in my situation and if you really do express your views and be yourself your life is in danger. I live in a very strict home I let anyone know I think any different or do anything different than what is acceptable I would proabably end up kicked out of my own home. I want to do something about it but if I do that would mean completely living my life without a home. If ever I do end up homeless because of this homes blind stupidity how would I get myself to a area of warmer climate before winter so I can survive. I'm stuck in a situation where everyday I have to lie to everyone around me just to survive. How can I get out of situation? I don't know what to do and this is tearing me apart from the inside out. I don't know what to do with my life right now. I'm so chained down and can't do anything about it.

I was sick of it the second i hit middle school, I dont fit in like everyone else