Are you afraid to communicate with members of the opposite gender?

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#1 The_Smart_Idiot
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i feel smart for asking this
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#2 badaboom187
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Rarely, it's not a problem however there a few cases where i was afraid but i had my reasons. 
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#3 The_PirateKing
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~-~I have social anxiety so I'm afraid to talk to EVERYONE.:cry: But I'm sure as hell not gona let that stop me.;)~-~
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#4 Hitman_KyeZ
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~-~I have social anxiety so I'm afraid to talk to EVERYONE.:cry: But I'm sure as hell not gona let that stop me.;)~-~The_PirateKing

why im just curious?

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#5 quadraleap
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For me it is not gender, it is appearance/attraction level and mood at the time, and throw in some general anxiety.

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#6 kitty  Moderator
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it depends on the persons look before i talk to them
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#7 Conanfan1
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Usually, no. There is one exception, and I don't know why.
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#8 mattmaul5488
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Not in the least, there was never a reason to be worried,even with girls I liked..Of course I was good friends with them
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#9 The_PirateKing
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[QUOTE="The_PirateKing"]~-~I have social anxiety so I'm afraid to talk to EVERYONE.:cry: But I'm sure as hell not gona let that stop me.;)~-~Hitman_KyeZ

why im just curious?

~-~How the hell should I know why? I just am. Unless you meant what is social anxiety like, in which case I do know. It's when you are afraid of being judge of what people think of you. (or at least for me) So normal things like walking through a mall or ordering food from Mc Donald's is really really uncomfortable. If I mess up saying something I feel like a complete fool and take it too far. Of course I don't tell people I felt like an idiot doing that because that would make me look obsessive and they'll think I'm some weird obsessive person who can't get over the thought of looking like an idiot in front of people..... yea...>.> Yes, it is irrational, I know. That's why I've overcome it and can now just walk up and ask for double cheese burger with ease.:)..... Hey! he gave me the wrong change..... I don't mind. *walks off*~-~
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#10 foxhound_fox
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Yes, very much so. I am a self-diagnosed love-shy person with a touch of social anxiety.
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#11 SSJ2_Cloud
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communicate? no flirt mercilessly? yes I could never be a playa, I treat women too much like human beings
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#12 guthwulf_de
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Depends on how drunk I am.
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#13 LA_lakers_4life
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most of my friends are female......
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#14 badaboom187
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this thread is kinda ironic. there are so many threads about people having trouble talking to females, asking them or whatever and yet, here most people said they don't have difficulty talkin to the opposite gender.
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#15 guthwulf_de
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this thread is kinda ironic. there are so many threads about people having trouble talking to females, asking them or whatever and yet, here no one said they have difficulty talkin to the opposite gender. badaboom187
This site has a lot of members, you know.
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#16 wrlyy
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Nah, I used to but that was just me being a dumb kid.
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#17 proctorsurf
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You know its weird i want from being pretty popular a year back, and now I have been plaugend with social anxiety. Everytime i talk to my someone... even my family i over anaylze everything and just act wierd, not myself. Maybe its my hormones going crazy during puberty or something, but lately it has been really interfering with my life. I wish it would stop. I used to be so laid back, but now i literally shake whenever i talk to someone. Hmmmm I hate it!
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#18 proctorsurf
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sorry about the spelling im tired.... havent slept in 24 hours
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#19 Devosion
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No, but im sick and tired of being expected to be the first one to say something especially when I know a girl has been eyeing me or some other act that precludes communication. And the same applies for saying 'hi' or getting to know somebody, it seems like I always have to be the person to instigate conversation. It baffles me completely, maybe im somehow offputting in my demeanor, tone, attitude, or who knows what.
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#20 Hitman_KyeZ
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I love babes so it don't really happen because im always hanging around with them cos there hot
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#21 LA_lakers_4life
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I love babes so it don't really happen because im always hanging around with them cos there hot Hitman_KyeZ
how old are you?
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#22 AnubisCraig
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Since most of my friends are girls: No, I don't have trouble talking to them :P
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[QUOTE="Hitman_KyeZ"]I love babes so it don't really happen because im always hanging around with them cos there hot LA_lakers_4life
how old are you?

My guess is 13...
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#24 familyguy77
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Usually not, but there can be exceptions.
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#25 LA_lakers_4life
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[QUOTE="LA_lakers_4life"][QUOTE="Hitman_KyeZ"]I love babes so it don't really happen because im always hanging around with them cos there hot AnubisCraig
how old are you?

My guess is 13...

i would guess 11....
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#26 bluezy
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No, not at all. I talk with girls all the time.
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#27 Caffeine_Trip
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I'm scared of girls. I tend to avoid them.
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#28 Hitman_KyeZ
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[QUOTE="LA_lakers_4life"][QUOTE="Hitman_KyeZ"]I love babes so it don't really happen because im always hanging around with them cos there hot AnubisCraig
how old are you?

My guess is 13...

erm no im 18

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#29 SolidSnake35
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I don't have much of a problem, compared to some at least.
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#30 ayanami_rei
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No, not at all. I sometimes get shy and nervous though, O.o but that's just me. o.o I've always been shy and nervous, plus quiet.
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#31 Hitman_KyeZ
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No, not at all. I sometimes get shy and nervous though, O.o but that's just me. o.o I've always been shy and nervous, plus quiet.ayanami_rei

I used to be like that man, but after the first time i got laid then i was Mr cool dude and now it's awesome cos i can't enough of it

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#32 DanC1989
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No, I just don't want their cooties. :cry:
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#33 Def_Jef88
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No, I do it every day.  I just realy suck at it.  Every time i try to make conversation, I end up making myself look like an ass.
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#34 ayanami_rei
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[QUOTE="ayanami_rei"]No, not at all. I sometimes get shy and nervous though, O.o but that's just me. o.o I've always been shy and nervous, plus quiet.Hitman_KyeZ

I used to be like that man, but after the first time i got laid then i was Mr cool dude and now it's awesome cos i can't enough of it

:P Think I'm a man? Think again.
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#35 Articuno76
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If your hideous you can always console yourself with this: "They're more afraid of me than I am of them".
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#36 Achilles438
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no i am not.  Working at Walmart makes that part of the job.
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#37 nick3333
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No. Not even when I'm hitting on them (although I usually have alcohol helping me along with that).
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#38 Omni-Slash
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my wife would certainly be hapier if I was.....:lol:
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#39 Tentpole
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If I really like the person, I can get scared to talk to her because I might not be sure what to say. But rarely does it happen, I have a lot of friends that are girls.
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#40 LJS9502_basic
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Not really.....no.
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#41 xXBuffJeffXx
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I'd say I'm a little shy around some girls, but I'm certainly not scared of them. I can hold a good conversation with most girls, I just don't have much experience talking to them so that might be my problem.
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#42 heartcork
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Naw, I have an easier time communicating with my opposite gender.
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#43 Omni-Slash
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Naw, I have an easier time communicating with my opposite gender.heartcork
nu uhh...do not......
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#44 heartcork
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[QUOTE="heartcork"]Naw, I have an easier time communicating with my opposite gender.Omni-Slash
nu uhh...do not......

Yuh uh. So do.
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#45 Omni-Slash
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[QUOTE="heartcork"] Yuh uh. So do.

you're like sooo totally making stuff up....I'm telling mom.......
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#46 Sharvie
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Most of my friends are girls. ;)
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#47 heartcork
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[QUOTE="Omni-Slash"][QUOTE="heartcork"] Yuh uh. So do.

you're like sooo totally making stuff up....I'm telling mom.......

Mom likes me better anyways.
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#48 Omni-Slash
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[QUOTE="heartcork"] Mom likes me better anyways.

not after I tell her you were making out with your boyfriend on the couch last night.............*punches you in the arm and runs to tell mom*.....
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#49 heartcork
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[QUOTE="Omni-Slash"][QUOTE="heartcork"] Mom likes me better anyways.

not after I tell her you were making out with your boyfriend on the couch last night.............*punches you in the arm and runs to tell mom*.....

We werent just making out. ;)
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#50 Omni-Slash
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[QUOTE="heartcork"] We werent just making out. ;)

ewwwwwweee...that's gross....