Are you first to greet someone, or do you wait to be greeted yourself?

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#1 JustPlainLucas
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A lot of times, we pass people in our society and not say hi in the slightest. Maybe we force a smile, but even in our places of works, we may not say hello to people we pass within inches of each other. I've noticed this a lot and I think basically, it stems from most people usually waiting to be greeted first. I say hello to several strangers in a day, and I find it's usually returned with a friendly greeting, and sometimes, they might even be talkative. It just seems like waiting contest to be honest at times, or a blinking contest, like, who's going to blink first. So, do you initiate the greetings most of the time, or do you wait for someone else to do it?

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#2 Travo_basic
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I usually greet people first.
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#3 sammyjenkis898
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I'm usually the first. It really depends on the situation.
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#4 Pirate700
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Depends on the situation and my mood.

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#5 Teenaged
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It depends. I really dont like greeting people at all, but when I want to rid us of the awkwardness of the moment, I just greet just to get on with it. :P

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#6 jaredcsimpson
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I always greet first unless someone greets me first. But I'm not afraid to make the first stepo I generally do the greeting.

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#7 luisen123
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I actually don't like greeting people on the street, so I usually avoid them, if I am greeted I just say hello back and keep walking..
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#8 HitomiChan
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i always greet people i see. :D

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#9 pierst179
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When it is someone I know well I will usually be the first but if I don't talk to the person very often I wait sometimes.

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#10 Pirate700
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i always greet people i see. :D

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Hey. :D

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#11 The_Sand_Man
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It depends on my mood. Usually I am the first.
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#12 bobaban
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Nope, I'm such a coward.
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#13 HitomiChan
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[QUOTE="HitomiChan"]

i always greet people i see. :D

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Hey. :D

hi! :D.. goodmorning from RP. :P

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#14 JustPlainLucas
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i always greet people i see. :D

HitomiChan
I kinda figured you would. :P Need to bottle up your energy and sell it as an energy drinnk. :P
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#15 HitomiChan
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I kinda figured you would. :P Need to bottle up your energy and sell it as an energy drinnk. :PJustPlainLucas

i thought being energetic is great. :(..

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#16 lucky326
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I typically give people what is known as "the nod" when I walk past them.
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#17 Teenaged
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[QUOTE="JustPlainLucas"]I kinda figured you would. :P Need to bottle up your energy and sell it as an energy drinnk. :PHitomiChan

i thought being energetic is great. :(..

He actually meant that some people would be of need of your energetic character. :P As a good thing....

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#18 miinnx
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Depends on the situation, really.

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#19 darksword1123
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I'm usually the first to greet.
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#20 muffincakes87
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I try always try to make first greeting.

Place like school it's a good thing cause of good first impression.

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#21 Gaming-Planet
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I always greet people, either I'm joking around or I want to know them.

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#22 MistressMinako
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I will wait for someone to greet me first. When I used to greet people first, they will look at me weird, like I just insulted their mother or something.

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#23 ramboturd72
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Usually I wait for someone to greet me first. Unfortunately, if the other person expects me to say hello first and I don't, the situation gets really awkward. :?

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#24 makiveli100
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It just depends.

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#25 Mr_Leonis
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I tend not to. At first sight people may think i'm some sort of terrorist so if I do greet someone it turns into a quick akward situation that neither of us want to be in for too long. :?
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#26 Desulated
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I never greet anyone and I don't expect the same in return.

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#27 Niff_T
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I don't greet people cause I naturally assume that they don't want to talk to me.

I don't blame them...

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#28 freek666
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I don't really wait, most people just greet themselves first, but I do when its appropriate.

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#29 DiabeticDood
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depends on the situation.. But most of the time I wait for them.
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#30 StrawberryHill
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Depends on my mood, but I usually go out of my way to make eye contact and greet people with a "good morning" or "hello". Or, if I'm at a grocery store, I usually ask the clerk how their day is going.

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#31 rohver
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I am first usually.
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#32 -Wicked_Sick-
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I wait to be greeted.

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#33 MysteriousKori
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I initiate greetings most of the time, to be nice and sociable :).

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#34 michael_1234576
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I'm usually the one doing the greeting, although I enjoy being greeted by someone more.

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#35 deactivated-605ba7fd6332a
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I do not greet other people on account of the fact that they terrify me.

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#36 -Misanthropic-
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If on something like MSN I never greet first... but in person if I meet someone I know its seen as very rude if I don't aknowledge them when they do to me... so I do it then.

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#37 fastesttruck
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I don't provoke talking with others most of the time unless I know them really well
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#38 Tezcatlipoca666
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Depends. In most cases I will greet first :)

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#39 bluezy
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I tend to start things off.
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#40 Canuck3000
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I say it after they do most times.

I'm not really a people person

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Both.
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#42 name294
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i never greet people first, im too damn shy!
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#44 GAMECAMILLER
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I'm just about always the first one to greet. It's just my nature. :P
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#45 Morning_Revival
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Im a rather shy person so most of the time, I wait to be greeted.
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#46 kingdre
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I'm not usually very sociable especially around people I don't know. If I feel like it, I'll try to greet someone first; otherwise I wait to be greeted. :P