Are you good at giving advice?

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#1 mhh91
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So,are you?

me? I just love giving people advice about their lives :D

but it always gets misunderstood :?

until they find out the truth for themselves :P

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#2 kulmiye
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The only good advice I could give is to not follow my lead.
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#3 BiancaDK
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I guess. In some ways. Depends, really.
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#4 HitomiChan
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um.. well im usually pretty good at giving advices with relationships troubles.. i dont know if i can handle giving advice with other troubles tho but ill try. :P

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#5 Arctic_Grillz
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Yes...but I always laugh and joke around...so people dont reallytake my advice seriously LOL.
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#6 mhh91
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I guess. In some ways. Depends, really. BiancaDK
on what?

um.. well im usually pretty good at giving advices with relationships troubles.. i dont know if i can handle giving advice with other troubles tho but ill try. :P

HitomiChan
you do that :D
Yes...but I always laugh and joke around...so people dont reallytake my advice seriously LOL.Arctic_Grillz
I don't even take that as a serious answer :P
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#7 Wolls
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Well you would have to ask the people i give advice to :P

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#8 Bluestorm-Kalas
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I used to, but then people kept coming to me complaining about their boyfriend/girlfriend and I just stopped giving a rats ass. I hate dealing with my own problems, I don't feel like worrying about anyone else's anymore.

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#9 mhh91
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Well you would have to ask the people i give advice to :P

Wolls
Sometimes they thank you for it,that's when you know ur doing it right :P
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#10 Wolls
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[QUOTE="Wolls"]

Well you would have to ask the people i give advice to :P

mhh91
Sometimes they thank you for it,that's when you know ur doing it right :P

then i guess sometimes yea i am :)
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#11 mhh91
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I used to, but then people kept coming to me complaining about their boyfriend/girlfriend and I just stopped giving a rats ass. I hate dealing with my own problems, I don't feel like worrying about anyone else's anymore.

Bluestorm-Kalas

That's a rather dim view,don't you think ?

everybody has problems,and you have to deal with them,sooner or later

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#12 mhh91
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[QUOTE="mhh91"][QUOTE="Wolls"]

Well you would have to ask the people i give advice to :P

Wolls
Sometimes they thank you for it,that's when you know ur doing it right :P

then i guess sometimes yea i am :)

I don't think they mean it though :P
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#13 BiancaDK
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on what?mhh91

I´m good at giving advice, in the sense that my advice is usually sound, rational, tried-and-true.

I´m bad at giving advice, in the sense that people tend to dislike the advice offered to them by me.

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#14 mhh91
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[QUOTE="mhh91"]on what?BiancaDK

I´m good at giving advice, in the sense that my advice is usually sound, rational, tried-and-true.

I´m bad at giving advice, in the sense that people tend to dislike the advice offered to them by me.

Exactly ! that happens to me all the time :D the problem is that people don't wanna hear the truth,they just wanna hear something that makes them feel good,that's all
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#15 Wolls
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[QUOTE="mhh91"]on what?BiancaDK

I´m good at giving advice, in the sense that my advice is usually sound, rational, tried-and-true.

I´m bad at giving advice, in the sense that people tend to dislike the advice offered to them by me.

well ive always like the advice you have given me :)
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#16 BiancaDK
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the problem is that people don't wanna hear the truth,they just wanna hear something that makes them feel good,that's allmhh91
Yup. Good stuff, eh.
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#17 BiancaDK
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well ive always like the advice you have given me :)Wolls

´cos you´re not a kid, or completely infantile of mind.

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#18 mhh91
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[QUOTE="mhh91"]the problem is that people don't wanna hear the truth,they just wanna hear something that makes them feel good,that's allBiancaDK
Yup. Good stuff, eh.

Yea.

I guess we're all a kind of selfish sometimes

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#19 Wolls
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[QUOTE="Wolls"]well ive always like the advice you have given me :)BiancaDK

´cos you´re not a kid, or completely infantile of mind.

you know you give weird compliments :P
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#20 postbodetje
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can someone give me advice about this: my brothers like to touch me, what should i do?

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#21 BiancaDK
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can someone give me advice about this: my brothers like to touch me, what should i do?

postbodetje
stick to lurking
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#22 postbodetje
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[QUOTE="BiancaDK"][QUOTE="postbodetje"]

can someone give me advice about this: my brothers like to touch me, what should i do?

stick to lurking

yes sir
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#23 mhh91
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can someone give me advice about this: my brothers like to touch me, what should i do?

postbodetje
I'd say start hitting them :D most males back off when things get tough :)
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#24 Wolls
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[QUOTE="postbodetje"][QUOTE="BiancaDK"][QUOTE="postbodetje"]

can someone give me advice about this: my brothers like to touch me, what should i do?

stick to lurking

yes sir

also read peoples names
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#25 postbodetje
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[QUOTE="postbodetje"][QUOTE="BiancaDK"] also read peoples names Wolls
ok Mr Wolls [QUOTE="mhh91"][QUOTE="postbodetje"]

can someone give me advice about this: my brothers like to touch me, what should i do?

I'd say start hitting them :D most males back off when things get tough :)

im not a canadian
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#26 Zerocrossings
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I keep all the good advice for myself.

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#27 mhh91
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im not a canadian

what do you mean?

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#28 CyleM
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I was good at giving advice to women who I was interested in, but I just couldn't get them to like me back
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#29 mhh91
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I was good at giving advice to women who I was interested in, but I just couldn't get them to like me backCyleM
Just your luck :D
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#30 postbodetje
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what do you mean?

mhh91

Im not from Canada

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#31 mhh91
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[QUOTE="mhh91"]

what do you mean?

postbodetje

Im not from Canada

no,I understand that :D but how is that related to what I was saying??
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#32 postbodetje
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[QUOTE="mhh91"][QUOTE="postbodetje"]

[QUOTE="mhh91"]

what do you mean?

Im not from Canada

no,I understand that :D but how is that related to what I was saying??

i'm Dutch
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#33 deactivated-6016f2513d412
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Apparently I am because literally ALL of my friends and acquaintances come to me for advice on a very regular basis. I probably deal with my friends' problems more than I deal with my own, but I don't mind. That's how I like to do things.
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#34 mhh91
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[QUOTE="mhh91"][QUOTE="postbodetje"] no,I understand that :D but how is that related to what I was saying??postbodetje
i'm Dutch

Don't Dutch people hit people sometimes?
Apparently I am because literally ALL of my friends and acquaintances come to me for advice on a very regular basis. I probably deal with my friends' problems more than I deal with my own, but I don't mind. That's how I like to do things.t3hrubikscube
Everybody has his own way of dealing with things,that's what makes an individual unique :)
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#35 postbodetje
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[QUOTE="postbodetje"][QUOTE="mhh91"][QUOTE="postbodetje"] no,I understand that :D but how is that related to what I was saying??mhh91
i'm Dutch

Don't Dutch people hit people sometimes?

Nope, only in the supermarket
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#36 mhh91
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okay,take them there then :D
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#37 x3ni1992
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haha no, but apperantly I'm a "life critic".
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#38 courtneyygee
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I am good at it. One thing I have to do is...call it a "suggestion" not "advice". For some people if they hear "advice" they assume that the person thinks low of them or something like that. You need to word things carefully so they don't misunderstand.

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#39 lilasianwonder
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Yeah but do people take it? No so its funny to watch them crash and burn and then say I told you so.
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#40 curono
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People often consult me and tell me their problems. :)
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#41 CommanderShiro
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Depends on the situation.

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#42 tocklestein2005
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sometimes, maybe...um, I'm not sure...I can't help you.

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#43 elblanquito_81
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I think I'm better at giving than actually following my own advice.