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#101 comp_atkins
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next year...
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#102 Cloud_765
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#103 lowkey254
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By law, no.

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#104 tenaka2
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I wish I was married. I want to make babies with my lover. :oops:

Vancelvany

your sig indicates you would make kittens not babies.

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#105 BiancaDK
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I wish I was married. I want to make babies with my lover. :oops:

Vancelvany

you can make babies with your lover without being married tho, so get at it (:

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#106 foxhound_fox
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Essentially. The only thing that technically keeps my girlfriend and I from being married is the fact we don't have a certificate saying we are. I've been living with her for well over a year now, and despite the ups and downs, it has been a largely positive thing in my life.
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#107 Colin1192
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[QUOTE="Vancelvany"]

I wish I was married. I want to make babies with my lover. :oops:

BiancaDK

you can make babies with your lover without being married tho, so get at it (:

they dont even have to be your lover, so i dont know what is holding him back

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#108 LJS9502_basic
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Essentially. The only thing that technically keeps my girlfriend and I from being married is the fact we don't have a certificate saying we are. I've been living with her for well over a year now, and despite the ups and downs, it has been a largely positive thing in my life.foxhound_fox
Essentially though isn't that what marriage is? Are you planning on making it legal? Oddly the statistics tend to say that those that live together before marriage have a higher instance of divorce than those not doing so.
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#109 YellowOneKinobi
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[QUOTE="foxhound_fox"]Essentially. The only thing that technically keeps my girlfriend and I from being married is the fact we don't have a certificate saying we are. I've been living with her for well over a year now, and despite the ups and downs, it has been a largely positive thing in my life.LJS9502_basic
Essentially though isn't that what marriage is? Are you planning on making it legal? Oddly the statistics tend to say that those that live together before marriage have a higher instance of divorce than those not doing so.

I'd say one of the differences though is that when two unwed people are living together and split up, they can pretty much just walk away as opposed to being married therefore going through the courts (even if it's not a volatile split-up).

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#110 BiancaDK
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[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]

[QUOTE="Vancelvany"]

I wish I was married. I want to make babies with my lover. :oops:

Colin1192

you can make babies with your lover without being married tho, so get at it (:

they dont even have to be your lover, so i dont know what is holding him back

lack of non-digitalized lover i'm guessing
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#111 foxhound_fox
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Essentially though isn't that what marriage is? Are you planning on making it legal? Oddly the statistics tend to say that those that live together before marriage have a higher instance of divorce than those not doing so.LJS9502_basic
Marriage is a commitment shared between two partners and the combining of two households and the potential of having and supporting children. All the paper gives the couple is certain legal and financial benefits that help the children. You want to know why people who live together before getting married have a higher instance of splitting up? Because they have higher standards and don't force themselves into a relationship that isn't working solely to keep the marriage together. Leaving a bad relationship is a good thing. It benefits both partners and any children. I've found that living with my girlfriend has brought me back down to earth in terms of expectations in a relationship, and totally destroyed any kind of idealism I ever had about a relationship or marriage. It allows me to have reasonable expectations for my girlfriend and I hope the same for her of me. We do eventually plan on making it legal (probably going common law before the end of the year) but not for some time, and not until we have the financial means to not only pay for a good wedding, but be able to support children we would want as a result of that marriage.
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#112 Enid_Green
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I'm married and happy because he's pretty much the best friend I've ever had.

Some of my friends have been really really terrible relationships and gotten married just because they thought "it was time." You can date someone absolutely terrible for you for 20 years and it would still be a bad decision to marry.

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#113 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="foxhound_fox"]Essentially. The only thing that technically keeps my girlfriend and I from being married is the fact we don't have a certificate saying we are. I've been living with her for well over a year now, and despite the ups and downs, it has been a largely positive thing in my life.YellowOneKinobi

Essentially though isn't that what marriage is? Are you planning on making it legal? Oddly the statistics tend to say that those that live together before marriage have a higher instance of divorce than those not doing so.

I'd say one of the differences though is that when two unwed people are living together and split up, they can pretty much just walk away as opposed to being married therefore going through the courts (even if it's not a volatile split-up).

Well yes that's true. On the other hand there is some tax benefits etc to being married as opposed to not. For instance...health decisions as well.

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#114 Dracula68
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No comment! Find out for yourself if ya game enough.
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#115 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]Essentially though isn't that what marriage is? Are you planning on making it legal? Oddly the statistics tend to say that those that live together before marriage have a higher instance of divorce than those not doing so.foxhound_fox
Marriage is a commitment shared between two partners and the combining of two households and the potential of having and supporting children. All the paper gives the couple is certain legal and financial benefits that help the children. You want to know why people who live together before getting married have a higher instance of splitting up? Because they have higher standards and don't force themselves into a relationship that isn't working solely to keep the marriage together. Leaving a bad relationship is a good thing. It benefits both partners and any children. I've found that living with my girlfriend has brought me back down to earth in terms of expectations in a relationship, and totally destroyed any kind of idealism I ever had about a relationship or marriage. It allows me to have reasonable expectations for my girlfriend and I hope the same for her of me. We do eventually plan on making it legal (probably going common law before the end of the year) but not for some time, and not until we have the financial means to not only pay for a good wedding, but be able to support children we would want as a result of that marriage.

I wasn't asking why. And the fact of the matter is that the couple in question decides they want to make it legal since it's working out for them and they feel that person is who they want to spend time with. I'm not sure why you surmised they are forced to marry. Anyway I'd imagine the reason they end up divorced in a higher percentage than those not living together is the expectations of the relationship have changed. And since they've been living together for some time....they probably just do what they always did. And with the changed expectations that doesn't work anymore. It's harder to expect your partner to "act" a specific way when they're free and clear....but different when they've become a "unit".

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#116 tenaka2
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No comment! Find out for yourself if ya game enough.Dracula68

Obviously you are

bride

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#117 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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No comment! Find out for yourself if ya game enough.Dracula68
Are the undead allowed to marry?
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#118 deactivated-5c03000d4b1b4
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i wished
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#119 tenaka2
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[QUOTE="Dracula68"]No comment! Find out for yourself if ya game enough.sonicare
Are the undead allowed to marry?

Havn't you seen the bride of frankenstein?

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#120 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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[QUOTE="sonicare"][QUOTE="Dracula68"]No comment! Find out for yourself if ya game enough.tenaka2

Are the undead allowed to marry?

Havn't you seen the bride of frankenstein?

yes, but that was in a very liberal country. Not all countries have undead marriage yet.
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#121 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="Dracula68"]No comment! Find out for yourself if ya game enough.tenaka2

Obviously you are

Doesn't Dracula have a lot of brides?

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#122 tenaka2
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[QUOTE="tenaka2"]

[QUOTE="Dracula68"]No comment! Find out for yourself if ya game enough.LJS9502_basic

Obviously you are

Doesn't Dracula have a lot of brides?

Yep he's practically King Henry. But she was one of the first.

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#123 Allicrombie
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gosh no,
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#124 Dracula68
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[QUOTE="Dracula68"]No comment! Find out for yourself if ya game enough.sonicare
Are the undead allowed to marry?

Alright, should I have said no comment to the TC's question instead? I was only referring to his question.

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#125 Dracula68
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Doesn't Dracula have a lot of brides?

LJS9502_basic

Ohhhh polygamy, now there's an idea!

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#126 rawsavon
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raw and LJS, SHUT UP! Don't you see what's going on here? You are in love madly with each others. GazaAli
Love? ...it goes far beyond that. There are few users that me as many lulz as he does. He is a valued commodity
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#127 tenaka2
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

Doesn't Dracula have a lot of brides?

Dracula68

Ohhhh polygamy, now there's an idea!

Its just like monopoly but with more hotels and more going to jail.

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#128 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="Dracula68"]

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

Doesn't Dracula have a lot of brides?

tenaka2

Ohhhh polygamy, now there's an idea!

Its just like monopoly but with more hotels and more going to jail.

But less money....>__>
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#129 aaronmullan
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I'm married... to love.
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#130 weezyfb
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get back to me in a few years
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#131 Kats_RK
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I'm not married... thank god :P

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#132 ZEYAAM898
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Nope

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#133 PatchMaster
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I have no intention of getting married in my 20's. Can't see how people do it. Seems like you'd miss out on your own life going from living with you parents to living with a spouse and having kids in a matter of a few years.

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#134 Darkhell153
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

Doesn't Dracula have a lot of brides?

Dracula68

Ohhhh polygamy, now there's an idea!

Don't forget, the more wives you greater the chance that you'll be in trouble at any given point.
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#135 HerbieCucumber
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I'm engaged to be. Will become official in August.
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#136 Vancelvany
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[QUOTE="Vancelvany"]

I wish I was married. I want to make babies with my lover. :oops:

BiancaDK

you can make babies with your lover without being married tho, so get at it (:

Do you want to make babies with me?:P

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#137 Vancelvany
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[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]

[QUOTE="Vancelvany"]

I wish I was married. I want to make babies with my lover. :oops:

Colin1192

you can make babies with your lover without being married tho, so get at it (:

they dont even have to be your lover, so i dont know what is holding him back

Nah, not the type do that. :)

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#139 White_wolf_eye
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Can you get married at 15?

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#140 Vancelvany
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Can you get married at 15?

White_wolf_eye

I guess in India...but I'm not sure...:|

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#141 White_wolf_eye
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[QUOTE="White_wolf_eye"]

Can you get married at 15?

Vancelvany

I guess in India...but I'm not sure...:|

*packs suitcase, long coat, and lucky hat* Well guys, im heading to india.

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#142 Sagem28
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[QUOTE="Vancelvany"]

[QUOTE="White_wolf_eye"]

Can you get married at 15?

White_wolf_eye

I guess in India...but I'm not sure...:|

*packs suitcase, long coat, and lucky hat* Well guys, im heading to india.

Fifthy bucks says he's gonna wake up in a bathtub full of ice :P.

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#143 leeveeu
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Yes, I am, since 2008. Marriage didn't change anything for us but I guess it varies from couple to couple.
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#144 ChunkyTurtles
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Nah. Got a steady girl but Im in no hurry to make things real. Only 20, and I have enough to focus on now without dealing with that kind of **** Maybe after I get my degree.
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#145 ImaPirate0202
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Not really something I'm concerend with at the present.

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#146 TehFuneral
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I am in no way ready or even close to being ready to get married.

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#147 TehFuneral
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I'd have to meet someone capable of tolerating me, so far that hasn't happened. At this rate I'm doomed to be forever alone.Bloodaxe726

You and I friend, you and I.

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#148 Ratchet_Fan8
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on the interenet i have 3 wives. F yeah!
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#149 dracos9000
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Not married since marriage and celibacy probably wouldn't work out in the long run.

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#150 lensflare15
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At the moment, it's not something I'm interested in (I'm too young anyway). I like the thought of only having myself to worry about, and more money to myself. Maybe sometime down the road if I find the right girl, who knows though.