Are you still A Virgin?

Is virginity important to you?

Do you care about virginty before you getting married?

when do you like to loose your virginity?

I am not a virgin. I'm not married either. What are you going to do?Happy_Cloud

nothing what should i do its your will

and its your choice not mine

 we all know that this generations are more aggressive than before  and being curious about what is happening in their surrounding

but do you think its right?

why do you think its bad for people when they say your a virgin? because they will tease by their friends? 

do you think thats the reason of others?

I'm a virgin, and no I don't think virginity's important.  SimpJee

your a virgin right?

why do you say that its not important to you?

No I am not A virgin. I get the impression that a lot of people say they don't want to lose it until they get married because they can't get any. Hahahaha. Yeeeeaaah.dommeus

That's what i said until i got some. 

I did end up marrying the woman to whom i lost my virginity.  One good thing about that is you don't know what you aren't missing.  If you had one girl who was DYNAMITE in bed, but ended up marrying someone who wasn't quite as good, i'd imagine you'd yearn for that level of satisfaction.  If you stay with the first person with whom you've copulated, it will only get better with time. 

[QUOTE="dommeus"]No I am not A virgin. I get the impression that a lot of people say they don't want to lose it until they get married because they can't get any. Hahahaha. Yeeeeaaah.Poedon

That's what i said until i got some. 

I did end up marrying the woman to whom i lost my virginity.  One good thing about that is you don't know what you aren't missing.  If you had one girl who was DYNAMITE in bed, but ended up marrying someone who wasn't quite as good, i'd imagine you'd yearn for that level of satisfaction.  If you stay with the first person with whom you've copulated, it will only get better with time. 

well thats sounds good but have you ever imagine about making it with others or its not related to you?

[QUOTE="SimpJee"]I'm a virgin, and no I don't think virginity's important.  jomel666

your a virgin right?

why do you say that its not important to you?

I'm male, there's nothing physically changing after I've had sex.  So I just don't see it as a big change, when I do have sex.

[QUOTE="Poedon"]

[QUOTE="dommeus"]No I am not A virgin. I get the impression that a lot of people say they don't want to lose it until they get married because they can't get any. Hahahaha. Yeeeeaaah.jomel666

That's what i said until i got some. 

I did end up marrying the woman to whom i lost my virginity.  One good thing about that is you don't know what you aren't missing.  If you had one girl who was DYNAMITE in bed, but ended up marrying someone who wasn't quite as good, i'd imagine you'd yearn for that level of satisfaction.  If you stay with the first person with whom you've copulated, it will only get better with time. 

well thats sounds good but have you ever imagine about making it with others or its not related to you?

Unfortunately very much so,  i'm at that 7-year itch period. 

Do you think that your friends will tease you if they know that your still a virgin?jomel666

of course...in many cases. and some of those who tease will one day regret...some won't. that's how it is. placing the worth of that mockery is more importantly upon the mocked than those who mock.

i lost my virginty about 2 weeks ago lol

Cool thing is.........im 15

[QUOTE="jomel666"][QUOTE="Poedon"]

[QUOTE="dommeus"]No I am not A virgin. I get the impression that a lot of people say they don't want to lose it until they get married because they can't get any. Hahahaha. Yeeeeaaah.Poedon

That's what i said until i got some. 

I did end up marrying the woman to whom i lost my virginity.  One good thing about that is you don't know what you aren't missing.  If you had one girl who was DYNAMITE in bed, but ended up marrying someone who wasn't quite as good, i'd imagine you'd yearn for that level of satisfaction.  If you stay with the first person with whom you've copulated, it will only get better with time. 

well thats sounds good but have you ever imagine about making it with others or its not related to you?

Unfortunately very much so,  i'm at that 7-year itch period. 

Ah really well what do you if you tease by some one?

Do you think that your friends will tease you if they know that your still a virgin?jomel666

It's basically a pissing contest, I just don't buy into their logic that there's a noticeable difference between a virgin and someone who's had sex.

I think people have got the 'sex before marriage' thing a little twisted. Only a few decades ago there was no such thing as condoms or the pill, so you were pretty much guaranteed that she'll get pregnant. Thus you'd have a bastard child, shame, etc etc.

I think the whole principle behind it was that you couldn't just leave a woman if she got pregnant. So they enforced the rule that you should be married before having sex.

Now you can prevent the pregnancy. And therefore there is little risk in burdening the female with a child to care for.

I still hold the fundamental of that principle in mind, but only for having children. Nowdays we can enjoy each other's bodies without worrying about pregnancy.

[QUOTE="Poedon"][QUOTE="jomel666"][QUOTE="Poedon"]

[QUOTE="dommeus"]No I am not A virgin. I get the impression that a lot of people say they don't want to lose it until they get married because they can't get any. Hahahaha. Yeeeeaaah.jomel666

That's what i said until i got some. 

I did end up marrying the woman to whom i lost my virginity.  One good thing about that is you don't know what you aren't missing.  If you had one girl who was DYNAMITE in bed, but ended up marrying someone who wasn't quite as good, i'd imagine you'd yearn for that level of satisfaction.  If you stay with the first person with whom you've copulated, it will only get better with time. 

well thats sounds good but have you ever imagine about making it with others or its not related to you?

Unfortunately very much so,  i'm at that 7-year itch period. 

Ah really well what do you if you tease by some one?

i'm well out of high school, i don't get teased much anymore. I was a band dork in high school, so i wasn't teased about my virginity too much.

virginity is important, but tbh i believe that losing it should be meaningful rather than just a fling, or when ure drunk. so i don't believe the whole 'dont have sex before marraige' but i think there should be something there. trust me, it is much better than a fling

I think people have got the 'sex before marriage' thing a little twisted. Only a few decades ago there was no such thing as condoms or the pill, so you were pretty much guaranteed that she'll get pregnant. Thus you'd have a bastard child, shame, etc etc.

I think the whole principle behind it was that you couldn't just leave a woman if she got pregnant. So they enforced the rule that you should be married before having sex.

Now you can prevent the pregnancy. And therefore there is little risk in burdening the female with a child to care for.

 

I still hold the fundamental of that principle in mind, but only for having children. Nowdays we can enjoy each other's bodies without worrying about pregnancy.

selbie

so you mean to say that its ok for you to loose your virginity because you have this stuff to protect you?

As far as I'm concerned, from experience, I wouldn't want to have married the girl I lost my virginity to. At all. On some level, it is better to experience as much as you can BEFORE you get married because then you won't have any regrets. Also you won't always wonder what other girls/guys are like etc. I think exploration of sexual desire should be celebrated, not kept hidden.

I think that some peoples 'morals' on the subject are a little twisted. Many times I've seen topics here where someone has had a fling with a random person, and you get three or four people jumping up on their pedestal and saying that it is wrong. That's ridiculous. At least that person isn't supressing their feelings and urges for a cause based purely on faith and medieval ideology. PEOPLE. HAVE SEX. Thats what we were created to do, and judging by the population increase in the last few years, it's what we do best.

 PEOPLE. HAVE SEX. Thats what we were created to do, and judging by the population increase in the last few years, it's what we do best.

dommeus

Agreed.  And I'm not sure where you've been, but we're falling behind in the US!  WE MUST CATCH UP TO THE BIRTHRATE OF INDIA!  Go, people Go!  Right now!

Yah and proud of it. At first you think there's something wrong with you, but i've seen what my friends did in hs and i'm kinda proud, cause i didn't get a girl pregnant or end up with an STD. I won't wait until i'm married, but i'm glad i'm waiting for a special girl, not just giving it up to those sluts in hs.X360PS3AMD05

yah maybe your right just wait for the right time and the right person

As far as I'm concerned, from experience, I wouldn't want to have married the girl I lost my virginity to. At all. On some level, it is better to experience as much as you can BEFORE you get married because then you won't have any regrets. Also you won't always wonder what other girls/guys are like etc. I think exploration of sexual desire should be celebrated, not kept hidden.

I think that some peoples 'morals' on the subject are a little twisted. Many times I've seen topics here where someone has had a fling with a random person, and you get three or four people jumping up on their pedestal and saying that it is wrong. That's ridiculous. At least that person isn't supressing their feelings and urges for a cause based purely on faith and medieval ideology. PEOPLE. HAVE SEX. Thats what we were created to do, and judging by the population increase in the last few years, it's what we do best.

dommeus

for us guys its ok but how about the girls? they are the one who will get pregnant and suffer more than ours right?

[QUOTE="selbie"]

I think people have got the 'sex before marriage' thing a little twisted. Only a few decades ago there was no such thing as condoms or the pill, so you were pretty much guaranteed that she'll get pregnant. Thus you'd have a bastard child, shame, etc etc.

I think the whole principle behind it was that you couldn't just leave a woman if she got pregnant. So they enforced the rule that you should be married before having sex.

Now you can prevent the pregnancy. And therefore there is little risk in burdening the female with a child to care for.

 

I still hold the fundamental of that principle in mind, but only for having children. Nowdays we can enjoy each other's bodies without worrying about pregnancy.

jomel666

so you mean to say that its ok for you to loose your virginity because you have this stuff to protect you?

yes. intimate, meaningful sex is the perfect way to show your love for your partner. I certainly don't agree with screwing anybody for the sake of it though. This will only destroy your sex life in the future, and not doubt cause problems as well.

[QUOTE="dommeus"]

 PEOPLE. HAVE SEX. Thats what we were created to do, and judging by the population increase in the last few years, it's what we do best.

SimpJee

Agreed.  And I'm not sure where you've been, but we're falling behind in the US!  WE MUST CATCH UP TO THE BIRTHRATE OF INDIA!  Go, people Go!  Right now!

hehehe

yah right!!!

if thats your opinion

[QUOTE="jomel666"][QUOTE="selbie"]

I think people have got the 'sex before marriage' thing a little twisted. Only a few decades ago there was no such thing as condoms or the pill, so you were pretty much guaranteed that she'll get pregnant. Thus you'd have a bastard child, shame, etc etc.

I think the whole principle behind it was that you couldn't just leave a woman if she got pregnant. So they enforced the rule that you should be married before having sex.

Now you can prevent the pregnancy. And therefore there is little risk in burdening the female with a child to care for.

 

I still hold the fundamental of that principle in mind, but only for having children. Nowdays we can enjoy each other's bodies without worrying about pregnancy.

selbie

so you mean to say that its ok for you to loose your virginity because you have this stuff to protect you?

yes. intimate, meaningful sex is the perfect way to show your love for your partner. I certainly don't agree with screwing anybody for the sake of it though. This will only destroy your sex life in the future, and not doubt cause problems as well.

at certain point its ok to have protection and showing your love with your partner

but you should be careful on how to use your stuff

lol

no im not planning on loosing it until its legally allowed :l,infacvt this topic is highly inapropriate,which is why i clicked it XDalex1889

why do you say its inapropriate? just wondring the opinion of others

At some point when you hit a certian age where you no longer feel comfortable being a virgin...just pay for it. We all pay for it somehow...how many dinners do you have to buy her before she decieds to sleep with you? How many boring movies do you gotta watch? Guess what? your paying for all those dinners and movies for you and her. But it's looked down on if you pay a hooker $50 to blow you,but yet you buy spend $50 on dinner and a movie then she blows you,that's considered ok. Shu76

Are you trying to get us to buy youy a hooker?

[QUOTE="jomel666"]Do you think that your friends will tease you if they know that your still a virgin?NathanHawkins

of course...in many cases. and some of those who tease will one day regret...some won't. that's how it is. placing the worth of that mockery is more importantly upon the mocked than those who mock.

Nice quote!!! 

[QUOTE="SimpJee"][QUOTE="dommeus"]

 PEOPLE. HAVE SEX. Thats what we were created to do, and judging by the population increase in the last few years, it's what we do best.

jomel666

Agreed.  And I'm not sure where you've been, but we're falling behind in the US!  WE MUST CATCH UP TO THE BIRTHRATE OF INDIA!  Go, people Go!  Right now!

hehehe

yah right!!!

if thats your opinion

Are you talking back to me?  QUIT WASTING TIME, WE MUST CATCH UP!  Off with you, go make babies!

I don't believe marriage is anything more than a legal document. I don't think it makes you closer to your loved one.  No I'm not a virgin surprisingly, I havn't had sex in almost four years though and the wait may transform me into a rapist. All these damned girls tell me how funny and nice I am to be around but when I try and take it up a notch they back out. It sucks.