Are you still Virgin?

[QUOTE="-_Rain_-"]

[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]

Wait, you´re a virgin, yet you say sex is something you dont require much of.

BiancaDK

Well, he's a live, and types pretty well, and seems to be competent in areas of reading and writing, so I'd say he doesn't require sex.

Unless he's lying, and is in fact not a virgin.

Even if I did have sex with someone, I still wouldn't need it to function throught my life, its not a necessity of my lifestyle and mindset.

Thats all I am gonna say, I dont like arguing/debating.

[QUOTE="-_Rain_-"]I have never tried marijuana, poisonous blowfish, or erotic asphyxiation. I can say with definite certainty that not only do I not require them for basic functions, but I do not require them for any other aspect of my life, be it happiness or otherwise.

I see the point just fine. You do not. Sex isn't a movie that you have to experience to review. If you view sex as a requirement, you have a problem.BiancaDK

I love how i point out that your argumentation only works when viewn as an extreme, and then you continue to pursue it with more extreme argumentation.

And you entirely missed the point of my comment ^o^

Well, you haven't really demonstrated how sex is needed in moderate terms, and you have yet to clarify your point, seeing as I keep missing it.

I repeat: if you "need" sex, for anything beyond conceiving a child, you have a sex addiction, which is a problem. Nobody needs to have sex to understand this or criticise people with this problem.

Need is a subjective term BiancaDK

No it isn't. If you need something, you cannot function either in your work life or personal life without it. Some things are meant to be needed: food, sleep, etc. Sometimes things that are not meant to be needed become needed, and that's what we call an "addiction." Cigarette smokers need the nicotine for their brains to function correctly and to lower stress; sex addicts need sex for xyz reason. There's no subjectivity about it.

Oh gosh no! I got that monkey off my back about 20 years ago give or take. You always think it's going to be this big life changing event when in reality it's just another part of the relationship puzzle.

[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]Need is a subjective term -_Rain_-

No it isn't. If you need something, you cannot function either in your work life or personal life without it. Some things are meant to be needed: food, sleep, etc. Sometimes things that are not meant to be needed become needed, and that's what we call an "addiction." Cigarette smokers need the nicotine for their brains to function correctly and to lower stress; sex addicts need sex for xyz reason. There's no subjectivity about it.

Yes, it is. ^o^

"I need to call this guy", if you fail to call him -- it doesen´t necessarily mean you life will grind to a complete stop.

And that could be a need taking off-set from something that has nothing to do with any form of addiction. =]

Yeah i am. At my age i think it would be pretty stupid not to be though.

[QUOTE="-_Rain_-"]

[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]Need is a subjective term BiancaDK

No it isn't. If you need something, you cannot function either in your work life or personal life without it. Some things are meant to be needed: food, sleep, etc. Sometimes things that are not meant to be needed become needed, and that's what we call an "addiction." Cigarette smokers need the nicotine for their brains to function correctly and to lower stress; sex addicts need sex for xyz reason. There's no subjectivity about it.

Yes, it is. ^o^

"I need to call this guy", if you fail to call him -- it doesen´t necessarily mean you life will grind to a complete stop.

You understand that we use words outside of their meanings all the time, yes?

And, of course, I did say personal life; it's possible that if you don't call This Guy, then you'll lose a job, or a friend, or a life, or maybe you'll gain something you don't want. That is not subjective; that is a genuine need.

Yeah i am. At my age i think it would be pretty stupid not to be though.

Asneakyshoe

Your avatar and the topic's subject matter confuse me. I'd hope Elmo is a virgin.

...er. Yeah.

Lost it not too long after I turned 17. Funny enough eight and a half years later we're happily married.

You understand that we use words outside of their meanings all the time, yes?

And, of course, I did say personal life; it's possible that if you don't call This Guy, then you'll lose a job, or a friend, or a life, or maybe you'll gain something you don't want. That is not subjective; that is a genuine need.-_Rain_-

Since you seem to understand this basic notion of people using the word "need" outside of its "genuine" meaning, then maybe you could re-read my initial comment that sparked this debate with a fresh new mindset? =]

And "genuine" needs are really relative, there is no fixed common denominator regarding what constitutes a "genuine" need, as opposed to a need that is of less "genuine" nature, unless you insist on the idea of need´s only being applicable to life-or-death situations.

No, but I was all throughout high school.

Yep. I fail at relationships... Whatever, I'm content.

Yes, but it's purely because I lack the social skills. (I'm not going to bull **** you by saying I'm waiting until marriage or what not. :lol: )

dracula_16

Technically, no.

-_Rain_-

[QUOTE="-_Rain_-"]

Technically, no.

gamesock

[QUOTE="dracula_16"]

Yes, but it's purely because I lack the social skills. (I'm not going to bull **** you by saying I'm waiting until marriage or what not. :lol: )

Gallion-Beast

Thanks, mate.

Yes I'm still a virgin in the sense that I never had a girlfriend. I never had a girlfriend because the girls I was deeply attracted to live in a different country or are simply unavailable or not interested. And the bad thing is that the local girls who are available and who are interested in me I don't find attractive at all and I don't want to be with a woman I'm not attracted to. Some people told me that I'm shallow and that I never really loved anyone yet but I don't want to be with a woman if I'm not attracted to her face, eyes and body. My dream woman looks exactly like Carolina Patricinio.

So I guess I will stay alone forever.

yes i am. and i intend to stay that way.

nope, havent been for many of years. I kinda regret it tho, relationships come and go to fast.

Yes I'm still a virgin in the sense that I never had a girlfriend. I never had a girlfriend because the girls I was deeply attracted to live in a different country or are simply unavailable or not interested. And the bad thing is that the local girls who are available and who are interested in me I don't find attractive at all and I don't want to be with a woman I'm not attracted to. Some people told me that I'm shallow and that I never really loved anyone yet but I don't want to be with a woman if I'm not attracted to her face, eyes and body. My dream woman looks exactly like Carolina Patricinio.

So I guess I will stay alone forever.

X4D

Yes I am.

[QUOTE="Neon-Tiger"][QUOTE="-_Rain_-"]

Technically, no.

-_Rain_-

My dad sexually abused me when I was five. Being five and not yet knowing what sex is, I thought it was a weird game.

Yes I am

Because im 14 :D

VivaKatimari

Yep. lol... it's kinda sad, though, because a number of 14 year olds aren't virgins..

[QUOTE="-_Rain_-"]

[QUOTE="Neon-Tiger"] Do explain.Neon-Tiger

My dad sexually abused me when I was five. Being five and not yet knowing what sex is, I thought it was a weird game.

[QUOTE="VivaKatimari"]

Yes I am

Because im 14 :D

GodofBigMacs

Yep. lol... it's kinda sad, though, because a number of 14 year olds aren't virgins..

No, im not a virgin, but my Girlfriend now (of 3 years) was my first and im glad I waited. I was 19 when I met her.