Not really, nor breaking up over the phone or text. I'd prefer to do it in person though, it seems a bit wimpy not too, but then all the girls I've talked to haven't found using a message to be impersonal or anything like that, at least not to the same extent that a confrontation prone bloke might. I was actually quite surprised to learn that, but I guess women are weird...at the end of the day you should care about how she perceives the way you ask her out, not how big it makes you feel, and since women are pretty much non-plussed either way it doesn't matter. In person can potentially be better (or worse), but impersonal isn't rarely a bad sign in and of itself, quite neutral.
The most common method I have seen is to not ask them out in person at all, but just strike up conversation, get their number as you leave and then call them the next day and ask over the phone, that way you get the best of both worlds.
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