Being Hit On By The Same Sex? Does It Bother You?

I've been hit on by the same sex before. I was waiting for my friends at an amusement park and someone came up and said "you look good in those pants" and then started chatting me up. I thanked him for the compliment and then excused myself and went off to find my friends.

What gets me is that some people actually get UPSET when someone of the same sex hits on them, it's like "How DARE you think I'm attractive in some way!"

I don't get it

It's like the saying goes, "Even if you don't want to go to the party it's nice to be invited"

Most of the time, no.

i get hit on by guys quite a bit.

it doesn't bother me.

and i'm always flattered that they think i am attractive.

in fact, i usually compliment them back.

:)

I havn't been, but if I was I would probably be depressed that men are the only ones who ever hit on me :lol:.

Nope, not at all.

Not at all.

Any compliment is a good compliment as far as I am concerned.
Girls that I have been with tell me that more guys check me out than girls (I tend to be oblivious to anyone checking me out)

So the only thing that bothers me is the fact that I am better at attracting boys than girls

Only if they are uglyxaos

A compliment is a compliment and beggars can't be choosers.

Does it bother me? I WANT it to happen.

No its flattering :oops:

No its faltering :oops: Wolls

It's never happened to me but I would probably be flattered if it did.

I'm not a homophobe but yes it does bother me. I won't fault them for it but I will try and be very direct and say: "I'm not interested". I don't want to give them the wrong message and in fact I find it a bit disturbing.

I have before and I take it as a compliment.

I'm not a homophobe but yes it does bother me. I won't fault them for it but I will try and be very direct and say: "I'm not interested". I don't want to give them the wrong message and in fact I find it a bit disturbing.

ex-mortis

why?

No not really.

I'm not a homophobe...in fact I find it a bit disturbing.

ex-mortis

The two statements seem to be a little at odds with each other...

I'm not a homophobe but yes it does bother me. I won't fault them for it but I will try and be very direct and say: "I'm not interested". I don't want to give them the wrong message and in fact I find it a bit disturbing.

ex-mortis

Its never happened.Big_Bad_Sad

same with me

im fine wiffit. as long as they arent possessive, obsessive, or bossyxhellcatx

just my luck =D

[QUOTE="xhellcatx"]im fine wiffit. as long as they arent possessive, obsessive, or bossyBiancaDK

just my luck =D

well since I hit on others of my same sex I have to say no. lol

^_^ *gives Ms Bianca a cookie* ^_^... and ^_^ for good measurexhellcatx

I'm always such a sucker for cheap thrills. ;3 *eats cookie contently*

Nah...not really I can pitch in either the AL or the NLMerv_the_Perv

are you a switch hitter?

[QUOTE="Merv_the_Perv"]Nah...not really I can pitch in either the AL or the NLno_more_fayth

are you a switch hitter?

[QUOTE="no_more_fayth"]

[QUOTE="Merv_the_Perv"]Nah...not really I can pitch in either the AL or the NLMerv_the_Perv

are you a switch hitter?

i've been a pinch hitter.

[QUOTE="Merv_the_Perv"]Nah...not really I can pitch in either the AL or the NLKittenNipples

[QUOTE="no_more_fayth"]

[QUOTE="Merv_the_Perv"]Nah...not really I can pitch in either the AL or the NLMerv_the_Perv

are you a switch hitter?

[QUOTE="Merv_the_Perv"]

[QUOTE="no_more_fayth"]

are you a switch hitter?

no_more_fayth

i've been a pinch hitter.

[QUOTE="no_more_fayth"]

are you a switch hitter?