Being Hit On By The Same Sex? Does It Bother You?

Personally I'd find it flattering. Actually, this girl told me if she was a guy/or gay she would want to go out with me :P So yeah, its flattering. :)

If one did he would be hit on by my fists...

CHOASXIII

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If one did he would be hit on by my fists...

xaos

I am not homophobic nor do I think gays should be banned from marrying/serving in the military, but I do have a problem with being "hit on" by the same sex. As a straight man, I am not going to be looking for a relationship with another man, and will respectfully decline whomever tried to get with me. At the same time, there's no reason to yell ator "punch someone" in the face if they ask. It's not like they know if you're straight or not.

When I used to work in retail, I got hit on or "being flirted" by both the opposite & same sex almost every other day or at least once or twice a week. I hate to be rude so I just smile, have a casual conversation & somehow try & bring up my GF during said conversation (ie. Oh my GF loves this top or loves this bag or loves this cologne on me, etc). "Most of them" when they find out I have a GF, they stop pursuing. The very small percentage will keep on trying as if having a GF is nothing but an obstacle. Those are the ones that I find much more amusing.

If one did he would be hit on by my fists...

CHOASXIII

I knew you liked it rough.

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If one did he would be hit on by my fists...

I knew you liked it rough.

I just enjoy the attention, but I let them know I do not swing that way.

[QUOTE="voluptuoushrewd"]

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If one did he would be hit on by my fists...

Merv_the_Perv

I knew you liked it rough.

That's what she said he said.

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I knew you liked it rough.

That's what she said he said.

To be completely honest, the few times that it has happened, it made me feel uncomfortable.

It's never happened to me before, but I would probably enjoy it if it ever happens. I'd smile and thank him.

never happened but i would be bothered though

I'd be pretty bothered by it. Means that I let off a vibe I'm gay and this bothers me.

Absolutely! In fact, maybe I'll wear a lab coat while doing the whole thing. That way, I have an easy out if someone takes it the wrong way "don't worry, ma'am...this is for science"spazzx625

Awesome :D

I'm cool with it. It's nice to know that I'm attractive even to other guys. That said I've never been hit on by anyone, so...:cry:

Absolutely! In fact, maybe I'll wear a lab coat while doing the whole thing. That way, I have an easy out if someone takes it the wrong way "don't worry, ma'am...this is for science"spazzx625

You'd be surprised how often that works.

I've been hit on by the same sex before. I was waiting for my friends at an amusement park and someone came up and said "you look good in those pants" and then started chatting me up. I thanked him for the compliment and then excused myself and went off to find my friends.

What gets me is that some people actually get UPSET when someone of the same sex hits on them, it's like "How DARE you think I'm attractive in some way!"

I don't get it

It's like the saying goes, "Even if you don't want to go to the party it's nice to be invited"

[QUOTE="spazzx625"] Excellent...8)tofu-lion91

not to be rude...

but that's kinda slutty.

hahaha.

I am very much against gay stuff. If I have a friend that I know is straight standing close to me, I would push him away. If somebody is gay and standing close to me, I would kill them.

hisfamily

how very debonair.

:/

I am very much against gay stuff. If I have a friend that I know is straight standing close to me, I would push him away. If somebody is gay and standing close to me, I would kill them.

hisfamily

How civil of you.

I am very much against gay stuff. If I have a friend that I know is straight standing close to me, I would push him away. If somebody is gay and standing close to me, I would kill them.

hisfamily

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I am very much against gay stuff. If I have a friend that I know is straight standing close to me, I would push him away. If somebody is gay and standing close to me, I would kill them.

BiancaDK

Only if they are uglyxaos

[QUOTE="xaos"]Only if they are uglyTauruslink