Boyfriend

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If he is your BF and not just a FWB, then he needs to connect with you more, this includes during the day (does he work? go to school? where is this guy that he can't call or txt?) even if it's just electronically. You are right to feel it's a bit weird, because it is ...

Tell him exactly what you told all of us, if he pphhffts it off or get mad, try witholding nookie, I bet he'll come around real quick.

Can't you call him?Maqda7

[QUOTE="Maqda7"]Can't you call him?tepni

I just remembered, I can't call him anyway.

His phone was like this yesterday,

And last night it completely split in two and he can't make calls anymore...

So I guess only way of contacting him now is through facebook.

I'm like this with my girlfriend. To be 100% honest, it's because I'm a bit exhausted of hanging out with her. I might even go as far to say that I've stopped caring about her. Your boyfriend might feel differently, but just offering my experience.

Also, I'd like to add that the texting, Facebook, and calling to check up routine can get boring after a few months. How long have you two been together?

I had the exact same feeling with my girlfriend, but we eventually just broke up.

Just please please please don't nag the guy about it, that will only makes things go bad. Right now you're being a little bit clingy but that's okay, it's what a lot of girls do. Just be aware that guys don't think the same way as girls and a lack of communication doesn't amount to your bf not wanting or caring about you. If you want to feel wanted forcing the guy wont help you out so just let him show it in his own way, whatever that might be.domatron23

He doesn't sound that into you. But hey, what the hell do I know?megagene

[QUOTE="megagene"]He doesn't sound that into you. But hey, what the hell do I know?LJS9502_basic

The more pressure you put on him, the more he's going to resent it and turn away. Going quiet for a couple of days or acting mysteriously will probably have him wondering what's up and paying you more attention.jimmyjammer69

maybe he is one of those guy (like me) who just hates talking on the phone. I get that its inconvenient to talk face to face all the time, but I hate any phone conversation that lasts for 45 minutes or more.

maybe he is one of those guy (like me) who just hates talking on the phone. I get that its inconvenient to talk face to face all the time, but I hate any phone conversation that lasts for 45 minutes or more.

Serraph105

I'm just gonna avoid him for a while -.-

[QUOTE="Serraph105"]

maybe he is one of those guy (like me) who just hates talking on the phone. I get that its inconvenient to talk face to face all the time, but I hate any phone conversation that lasts for 45 minutes or more.

tepni

:o you should date me

[QUOTE="tepni"][QUOTE="Serraph105"]

maybe he is one of those guy (like me) who just hates talking on the phone. I get that its inconvenient to talk face to face all the time, but I hate any phone conversation that lasts for 45 minutes or more.

Serraph105

:o you should date me

Wow, he doesn't have to be with you 24/7. If you wanna do something call him up. Just because you have some stigma where you "don't call people" doesn't mean you absolutely can't call him for anything.

Eh, prolly not somthing to worry about.

A boy help thread in Gamespot.... Well that's new.Nerd_Man

Yeah, he doesn't like phone calls. Neither do I, really. tepni

:o you should date me

Ahh to all of you telling me to call him, haha he has no phone anymore!

Ahh to all of you telling me to call him, haha he has no phone anymore!

tepni

[QUOTE="tepni"]

Ahh to all of you telling me to call him, haha he has no phone anymore!

Serraph105

Ahh to all of you telling me to call him, haha he has no phone anymore!

[QUOTE="tepni"][QUOTE="Serraph105"] oh my bad. still email or something. RiseAgainst12

[QUOTE="RiseAgainst12"][QUOTE="tepni"] It's alright. But yeah I might send him a message..he's online right now and I know he sees me on but he's not sending me nothin'. I might just wait.tepni

The past week I've been the only one initiating any conversation. tepni

It sounds like something is up with him....

Personally I get that way too sometimes when I just don't feel too good about something, and then I would sulk around my wife. She knows me really well and usually knows how to make me feel better or force me to spill the beans. We are married though so our situation is a bit different I suppose...

Ahh to all of you telling me to call him, haha he has no phone anymore!

Does it mean anything if he never calls me during the day? Lately he only comes over for a couple hours at night. And we do have fun when he does come over. I love hanging out with him and he has fun too I'm sure. But we never make plans during the day anymore. Is it worth confronting him about? He always wakes up earlier than me, and once I wake up I check for any missed called or messages on facebook, and I always get super sad when there's zero. And on facebook he'll have some status that says he updated 3 or 4 hours ago from when I woke up, and I'm just wondering..is it so much to ask for? I just want to feel wanted :/ I don't want to feel extremely needy or anything, but I guess I am. I guess there's nothing I can do about it, is there. Am I just being paranoid?

tepni

[QUOTE="Maqda7"]Can't you call him?tepni

So maybe if you do, then he will realize that maybe he wants you to call more.

He's a vampire.DrSponge

Anyway I did ignore him for a while then he came over a couple hours ago and asked to hang out during the day more instead of always just at night :D:D:D