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#51 jimmyjammer69
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Anyway I did ignore him for a while then he came over a couple hours ago and asked to hang out during the day more instead of always just at night :D:D:D

tepni
Told you :P
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#52 DrSponge
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Anyway I did ignore him for a while then he came over a couple hours ago and asked to hang out during the day more instead of always just at night :D:D:D

tepni
Kinda weird he did exactly what you wanted :o Maybe he posts here...
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#53 tepni
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[QUOTE="tepni"]

Anyway I did ignore him for a while then he came over a couple hours ago and asked to hang out during the day more instead of always just at night :D:D:D

DrSponge
Kinda weird he did exactly what you wanted :o Maybe he posts here...

Haha..scary....
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#54 D0ub13_5c0r3
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Anyway I did ignore him for a while then he came over a couple hours ago and asked to hang out during the day more instead of always just at night :D:D:D

tepni
Thats good, but you should confront him about it sometime soon. Maybe you two should meet up at a place, have a ice-cream or coffe, and so on. Just have a good time together.
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#55 Sajedene
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This whole thing sounds quite rigged or he does post here / spy on your stuff online. It took one day for you ignoring him (how you did that when you guys dont even talk during the day as you mentioned is just surprising to say the least) I also dont get why you are complaining about something he doesn't do when you yourself don't do it. Regardless of whether he knows "its not your thing" if you care enough for the guy - you would have initiated stuff instead of having him do all the leg work. A relationship is a partnership. Not for one person to do all the work while the other one just goes along for the ride.
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#56 Oleg_Huzwog
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I felt suffocated just reading that.

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#57 muller39
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[QUOTE="Maqda7"]Can't you call him?tepni
I never call people :/ I'm pretty sure he knows that. I'm just so used to people calling me to make plans. I feel like if a person isn't busy, they'd call.

Well you cant expect the guy to call you and change the rountine especially since it sounds like he doesnt have a problem with it. If your not busy then why dont you call for a change.
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#58 tepni
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"]This whole thing sounds quite rigged or he does post here / spy on your stuff online. It took one day for you ignoring him (how you did that when you guys dont even talk during the day as you mentioned is just surprising to say the least) I also dont get why you are complaining about something he doesn't do when you yourself don't do it. Regardless of whether he knows "its not your thing" if you care enough for the guy - you would have initiated stuff instead of having him do all the leg work. A relationship is a partnership. Not for one person to do all the work while the other one just goes along for the ride.

Sorry :S But I myself do it, I do call him a lot and ask to hangout.
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#59 Gnomefan
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Does it mean anything if he never calls me during the day? Lately he only comes over for a couple hours at night. And we do have fun when he does come over. I love hanging out with him and he has fun too I'm sure. But we never make plans during the day anymore. Is it worth confronting him about? He always wakes up earlier than me, and once I wake up I check for any missed called or messages on facebook, and I always get super sad when there's zero. And on facebook he'll have some status that says he updated 3 or 4 hours ago from when I woke up, and I'm just wondering..is it so much to ask for? I just want to feel wanted :/ I don't want to feel extremely needy or anything, but I guess I am. I guess there's nothing I can do about it, is there. Am I just being paranoid?

tepni

are you sure you are his only girlfriend, or could you be his night time girlfriend?

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#60 L8erSquare
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IDK but it sounds like your a very needed person. :(

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#61 II_Seraphim_II
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Well, he's your boyfriend, so you shouldn't be afraid to confront him about anything that's bugging you. Don't really know the situation, so you might be clingy, or maybe he is just negligent. Either way, if you aren't happy with an aspect of your relationship, you should talk about it. After all, people go into relationships because they are enjoyable, the moment that stops being the case you should either try to fix it or move on. Relationships are a choice, no reason they should become a burden.

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#62 LJS9502_basic
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Well, he's your boyfriend, so you shouldn't be afraid to confront him about anything that's bugging you. Don't really know the situation, so you might be clingy, or maybe he is just negligent. Either way, if you aren't happy with an aspect of your relationship, you should talk about it. After all, people go into relationships because they are enjoyable, the moment that stops being the case you should either try to fix it or move on. Relationships are a choice, no reason they should become a burden.

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They ALL become a burden....>__>
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#63 II_Seraphim_II
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[QUOTE="II_Seraphim_II"]

Well, he's your boyfriend, so you shouldn't be afraid to confront him about anything that's bugging you. Don't really know the situation, so you might be clingy, or maybe he is just negligent. Either way, if you aren't happy with an aspect of your relationship, you should talk about it. After all, people go into relationships because they are enjoyable, the moment that stops being the case you should either try to fix it or move on. Relationships are a choice, no reason they should become a burden.

LJS9502_basic
They ALL become a burden....>__>

Whacha talking about Willis!? I pick my girls well...it's an art :P
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#64 UnamedThing
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[QUOTE="Serraph105"] seriously though you should call him up and plan something fun.domatron23
I wholly advocate this advice (apart from the bit where you use a phone). As a matter fact I'm going to get my arse up off of gamespot and go to the park right now to feed the ducks.

That's illegal now where I live. :( Poor ducks.
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#65 luke1889
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="II_Seraphim_II"]

Well, he's your boyfriend, so you shouldn't be afraid to confront him about anything that's bugging you. Don't really know the situation, so you might be clingy, or maybe he is just negligent. Either way, if you aren't happy with an aspect of your relationship, you should talk about it. After all, people go into relationships because they are enjoyable, the moment that stops being the case you should either try to fix it or move on. Relationships are a choice, no reason they should become a burden.

They ALL become a burden....>__>

I can only assume you're speaking from experience. :P
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#66 II_Seraphim_II
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[QUOTE="luke1889"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="II_Seraphim_II"]

Well, he's your boyfriend, so you shouldn't be afraid to confront him about anything that's bugging you. Don't really know the situation, so you might be clingy, or maybe he is just negligent. Either way, if you aren't happy with an aspect of your relationship, you should talk about it. After all, people go into relationships because they are enjoyable, the moment that stops being the case you should either try to fix it or move on. Relationships are a choice, no reason they should become a burden.

They ALL become a burden....>__>

I can only assume you're speaking from experience. :P

or lack there of! BURN!!!!! :P Anh but seriously, maybe he's just bad at reading people. You can tell if someone is sketchy right from the get-go.
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#67 freek666
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tepni

What is this I dont even

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tepni
lolwut? :?
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#69 ayanami_rei
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I'm going to assume that you have your questions answered and no longer need this to be opened, based on your edit, so I'm going to lock this.