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#201 Crimsader
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[QUOTE="da-big-girl007"]

Do you think its okay to breastfeed in public? Personally I don't care as long as their covering it up with a towel or something.

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I'm okay with it, so long as they're somebody 'm not related with.. It's nice to see titays in broad daylight ya know.

lol, hell yes
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#202 Barbariser
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Hell no. The sight of breastfeeding triggers an uncontrollable chemical reaction in the viewer's brain which eventually leads to the creation of necrotic viruses inside the viewer's body. Hence, breastfeeding poses a powerful and direct threat to human society - a threat which completely outweighs any health benefits conferred to a baby. Do you want people to get eaten alive by bacteria? Thought not.

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#203 MetalGear_Ninty
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[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="da-big-girl007"]

No offense but if you get any kind of sexualamusementwhile seeing a women breast feeding her child, you need help. Womens breasts are NOT sexual toys like many men see them as.

da-big-girl007

Many women seem to see them as such.

Yes and I feel sorry for those women.

I feel sorry for you.
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#204 Blue_Shield
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Two things I would like to observer:

1) At one time, many of us were that baby breast feeding in public

2) Most of the people responding to this are dudes

Personally, I'll admit it makes me comfortable, but I fully realize I am the one with the problem. I live in the society where a one-second shot of a boob forever scared the nation for life, but violent movies featuring injury and death are considered family entertainment (not that I am condemning violence in entertainment, because I am a regular consumer of the stuff).

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#205 YellowOneKinobi
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[QUOTE="JustPlainLucas"][QUOTE="Celldrax"] I know they're completely different things, but they're still things I think should be done in private. [QUOTE="YellowOneKinobi"]

Right, so it's decent to make someone (baby) eat in the bathroom? Don't get me wrong, I am NOT a fan of nursing mothers who seem to "get a kick" out of shoving it in peoples faces, but so long as it's done off to the side, what's the big deal?

For an example, lets say a family is waiting for a table at a restaurant because they want a booth off to one corner of the dining area, there is no reason the mom can't wait the five minutes to feed the baby at the table, where really nobody can see. However, there are some mothers who will just go ahead and start feeding right there at the entrance to the restaurant. So, in that sense I can agree with you that it's a little indecent to do that. If she wants to wait until they are seated and out of the way, then I don't see a problem with it.

jshaas

Well, like myself, I know others who are bothered by it in public. It conjures up mental images that shouldn't be there while you're working or trying to enjoy eating at a restaurant. Ok, if the family got a booth at the corner of the restaurant where no one could see them, cool. If there's a section cordoned off in the back of the library for breast feeding, cool. But to do that smack dab in the middle of a children's area, even with a towel over you, is where I draw the line. I think a lot of mothers feel that just because they have the right to, they have to do it anytime, anywhere, instead of thinking if it's really the right thing to do.

Do you have kids? If so, then you know that when they're hungry there's no waiting for the "right time and place." I assume you don't, given your post here.

Which one of us are you asking? Or both?

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#206 Harkat95
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[QUOTE="Wilfred_Owen"][QUOTE="da-big-girl007"]

[QUOTE="Pffrbt"]

I think that should stay in the bedroom.

Why?

Cause we're men. Menly men.

And we're on a drug called CHARLIE SHEEN!
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#207 ThePlothole
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Hell no. The sight of breastfeeding triggers an uncontrollable chemical reaction in the viewer's brain which eventually leads to the creation of necrotic viruses inside the viewer's body. Hence, breastfeeding poses a powerful and direct threat to human society - a threat which completely outweighs any health benefits conferred to a baby. Do you want people to get eaten alive by bacteria? Thought not.

Barbariser
Virus aren't bacteria.
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#208 theone86
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I'm all for it so long as they also allow foreplay in public. For too long have I had to restrict my lewd but not technically intercouse activities to the bedroom!

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#209 Barbariser
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[QUOTE="Barbariser"]

Hell no. The sight of breastfeeding triggers an uncontrollable chemical reaction in the viewer's brain which eventually leads to the creation of necrotic viruses inside the viewer's body. Hence, breastfeeding poses a powerful and direct threat to human society - a threat which completely outweighs any health benefits conferred to a baby. Do you want people to get eaten alive by bacteria? Thought not.

ThePlothole

Virus aren't bacteria.

Wasn't trying to make myself sound educated in a plausible manner.

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#210 jshaas
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@YellowOneKinobi... I was asking JPL specifically. I find it comical that anyone would be offended by this at all. I know most women that breast-feed don't want pervs staring at them, but they know it needs to be done. I also know most women won't just flash a breast to annoy people... at least all the women I know. New mothers don't always have time for pumping, or the money to buy a pump. The cheap ones are terrible and take a very long time to fill a bottle. I speak from experience as new father. Having a baby changes everything. Just being able to get everything together and get somewhere is an accomplishment in itself. If you're offended by it, then you need to rethink your priorities and look the other way.
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#211 Cloud_765
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[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="da-big-girl007"]

[QUOTE="TacticalDesire"]

Only if the women in question is under the age of 30 and has an amazing rack. Personally though, I'd ask your brother's opinion on the matter;)

No offense but if you get any kind of sexualamusementwhile seeing a women breast feeding her child, you need help. Womens breasts are NOT sexual toys like many men see them as.

Many women seem to see them as such.

Actually you have a point. Some women do indeed see their breasts as a form of tool or toy.
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#212 YellowOneKinobi
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@YellowOneKinobi... I was asking JPL specifically. I find it comical that anyone would be offended by this at all. I know most women that breast-feed don't want pervs staring at them, but they know it needs to be done. I also know most women won't just flash a breast to annoy people... at least all the women I know. New mothers don't always have time for pumping, or the money to buy a pump. The cheap ones are terrible and take a very long time to fill a bottle. I speak from experience as new father. Having a baby changes everything. Just being able to get everything together and get somewhere is an accomplishment in itself. If you're offended by it, then you need to rethink your priorities and look the other way.jshaas
Congrats!!! We're expecting our first this October, so I'll be in your boat soon enough. I agree that just from what I see in everyday life, it seems most women do try to keep it low profile, in part for their own privacy and in part to be respectful of others in a general sense (not that there is anything inherently wrong with feeding, of course). Once in every blue moon though, I see a woman just whip 'em out as if TRYING to get attention, but again, that's the rarity. Congrats again!!!
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#213 JustPlainLucas
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[QUOTE="jshaas"] Do you have kids? If so, then you know that when they're hungry there's no waiting for the "right time and place." I assume you don't, given your post here.

I don't have to have kids to know that. I, however, have a friend who's a mother who feels exactly like me. Thanks for assuming that just because I don't have children, I don't know what I'm talking about. [QUOTE="Deihjan"][ Get over your insecurities about female bodies, then. As long as she isn't changing nappies outside of the bathroom, her motherly duties are alright in public, as long as she doesn't flash her tit, purely to annoy people.

I would if I felt the need to, but I don't. It's just how I feel. I'm sorry you have a problem with it, but I'm not the only one that feels uncomfortable with it. I have co-workers at the library, both women and men, who feel the same way I do. Again, sorry your bothered by my stance.
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#214 JustPlainLucas
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[QUOTE="jshaas"]@YellowOneKinobi... I was asking JPL specifically. I find it comical that anyone would be offended by this at all. I know most women that breast-feed don't want pervs staring at them, but they know it needs to be done. I also know most women won't just flash a breast to annoy people... at least all the women I know. New mothers don't always have time for pumping, or the money to buy a pump. The cheap ones are terrible and take a very long time to fill a bottle. I speak from experience as new father. Having a baby changes everything. Just being able to get everything together and get somewhere is an accomplishment in itself. If you're offended by it, then you need to rethink your priorities and look the other way.

Or you could simply accept the fact that people think differently.
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#215 Cloud_765
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Honestly I have to agree with JPL that it should not be allowed in public, as it technically falls under public indecency.
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#216 frostybanana
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I'd rather they didn't do it public. It doesn't offend me, I just think it puts everyone in an awkward, uncomfortable spot. Whatever way you slice it, it's still a woman pulling out her breast in public. It's like if I was walking down the street and was like "whoa, I really have to pee right now" and I pulled on my weiner and started pissing on the street. I'm not doing it for sexual reasons, but people will be weirded out. Also, I'll probably go to jail.
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#217 Deihjan
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Honestly I have to agree with JPL that it should not be allowed in public, as it technically falls under public indecency. Cloud_765
H-how?! She's got a baby, baby needs food. Not all women are comfortable with breast pumps, and some women can't even use a breast pump, plus its much healthier for the kid and the mother to share the bond that is breastfeeding. Get over yourselves, really. Normally I'm all for different opinions, but saying something as natural as breastfeeding ones child is a public indecency..that's effed up, man. The society we live in suddenly decides that all natural functions are bad, which results in an awkward society with men and women being offended by the slightest sight of flesh that isn't their own. You people make me sick, and you should all be ashamed of yourselves, or go back to the zealous cult you grew up in.
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#218 frostybanana
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[QUOTE="Cloud_765"]Honestly I have to agree with JPL that it should not be allowed in public, as it technically falls under public indecency. Deihjan
H-how?! She's got a baby, baby needs food. Not all women are comfortable with breast pumps, and some women can't even use a breast pump, plus its much healthier for the kid and the mother to share the bond that is breastfeeding. Get over yourselves, really. Normally I'm all for different opinions, but saying something as natural as breastfeeding ones child is a public indecency..that's effed up, man. The society we live in suddenly decides that all natural functions are bad, which results in an awkward society with men and women being offended by the slightest sight of flesh that isn't their own. You people make me sick, and you should all be ashamed of yourselves, or go back to the zealous cult you grew up in.

Right, so by your logic I should be able to walk around in broad daylight without any pants on and that should be just OK. Whether you like it or not breasts are related to sex by human beings. That's the way modern society is. That's the reason a lot of women augment that part of their body, because of the sex appeal. Like I said, whether it's about feeding your baby or not, pulling out a breast in public will always net the same outcome. A bunch of people feeling really awkward and uncomfortable. No one said breastfeeding is bad. They're saying pulling out a breast in public in modern society is improper and quite frankly it is. Go ahead and breastfeed, just don't do it in a spot where everyone can see you.
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#219 Omni-Slash
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I'm not sure what I'm upset more by..the fact that women want to breastfeed in public..or all the guys in this board being upset that they may see a women's bewbs......:?
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#220 MAILER_DAEMON
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I'm not sure what I'm upset more by..the fact that women want to breastfeed in public..or all the guys in this board being upset that they may see a women's bewbs......:?Omni-Slash
The only time I would have a problem with it is if a woman was trying to be attention-grabbing about it, like leaving it hanging out while getting the baby ready, taking her shirt off completely, or walking around a crowded room while feeding. The act itself though is not in any way a problem... babies live on their own schedules, not anyone else's, so the mother has to be ready for anything. If the baby's gotta eat, it needs to eat, or else the crying is going to become a public nuisance... what then, if she's not allowed to feed? Public breastfeeding is something that should never be outlawed. It just shouldn't be done for the sake of attention, and if people want to think she's an attention whore simply for feeding her baby, that's their problem, not her's.
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#221 Omni-Slash
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sure it's one thing if she's flashing...(I'm not really bothered by that either....just being honest)....but how can anyone get upset by a woman feeding a baby?...I just don't get it....and I'm supposed to be the uptight repressed conservative type....:?
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#222 MAILER_DAEMON
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sure it's one thing if she's flashing...(I'm not really bothered by that either....just being honest)....but how can anyone get upset by a woman feeding a baby?...I just don't get it....and I'm supposed to be the uptight repressed conservative type....:?Omni-Slash
Because wimmens r ALIEN! That's all I can come up with...
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If the check is hot, then I don't have any problem with it. :P
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#224 Serraph105
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I'm pretty much for anything that gets me to see more breasts

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#226 MgamerBD
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if women can breast feed in public, why cant i receive oral sex from a girl in public? Whats the difference

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Your child's life doesn't depend on it that's the difference...
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#227 shinglemill
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just do it in private because that makes sense.

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Don't see the problem with it.
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[QUOTE="Deihjan"][QUOTE="Cloud_765"]Honestly I have to agree with JPL that it should not be allowed in public, as it technically falls under public indecency. frostybanana
H-how?! She's got a baby, baby needs food. Not all women are comfortable with breast pumps, and some women can't even use a breast pump, plus its much healthier for the kid and the mother to share the bond that is breastfeeding. Get over yourselves, really. Normally I'm all for different opinions, but saying something as natural as breastfeeding ones child is a public indecency..that's effed up, man. The society we live in suddenly decides that all natural functions are bad, which results in an awkward society with men and women being offended by the slightest sight of flesh that isn't their own. You people make me sick, and you should all be ashamed of yourselves, or go back to the zealous cult you grew up in.

Right, so by your logic I should be able to walk around in broad daylight without any pants on and that should be just OK. Whether you like it or not breasts are related to sex by human beings. That's the way modern society is. That's the reason a lot of women augment that part of their body, because of the sex appeal. Like I said, whether it's about feeding your baby or not, pulling out a breast in public will always net the same outcome. A bunch of people feeling really awkward and uncomfortable. No one said breastfeeding is bad. They're saying pulling out a breast in public in modern society is improper and quite frankly it is. Go ahead and breastfeed, just don't do it in a spot where everyone can see you.

In certain contexts, yes, breasts are sex-related (for lack of a better term.)

But I think we can al tell the difference between some one engaging in a sexual act and some one who needs to feed a baby.

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[QUOTE="da-big-girl007"]

[QUOTE="TacticalDesire"]

Only if the women in question is under the age of 30 and has an amazing rack. Personally though, I'd ask your brother's opinion on the matter;)

Agent-Zero

No offense but if you get any kind ofsexual amusementwhile seeing a women breast feeding her child, you need help. Womens breasts are NOT sexual toys like many men see them as.

Yes they are.

Yes they are.
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[QUOTE="Agent-Zero"][QUOTE="da-big-girl007"]No offense but if you get any kind ofsexual amusementwhile seeing a women breast feeding her child, you need help. Womens breasts are NOT sexual toys like many men see them as.GHlegend77
Yes they are.

Yes they are.

Yes they are.
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[QUOTE="Cloud_765"]Honestly I have to agree with JPL that it should not be allowed in public, as it technically falls under public indecency. Deihjan
H-how?! She's got a baby, baby needs food. Not all women are comfortable with breast pumps, and some women can't even use a breast pump, plus its much healthier for the kid and the mother to share the bond that is breastfeeding. Get over yourselves, really. Normally I'm all for different opinions, but saying something as natural as breastfeeding ones child is a public indecency..that's effed up, man. The society we live in suddenly decides that all natural functions are bad, which results in an awkward society with men and women being offended by the slightest sight of flesh that isn't their own. You people make me sick, and you should all be ashamed of yourselves, or go back to the zealous cult you grew up in.

Totally agree with you here Deih, this is the one thread in the history of my posting at OT where I have actually had to leave because I am so angry and ashamed of the attitudes and narrow-mindedness of the people posting. JPL I am especially disappointed in your opinion - when people here are saying mothers should find somewhere private to do it - and there you are denying them the right to do it in the CHILDREN'S AREA of the library?? Maybe the Denver (sorry if that's mis-remembered) libraries are different to the UK ones, but still I think you are saying that nursing mothers should be condemned to their homes for 2ish years just to preserve your own twisted sensibilities. F*** if they can't even do it in the library...

I recommend you let someone else without a twisted opinion shelve the books for that 10 minutes or so :roll:

Plus for you all who say that society has ALWAYS been against breast feeding in public just look what I happened to notice on the front of my book today having been drawn to the attention of this subject through this thread:

That was painted 200 years before the USA existed FFS!

This RIDICULOUS attitude is a product of the last century alone and you should all be ASHAMED that you can't think of others enough to get over your personal inhibitions when a little person's needs are at stake. I expect you'd all prefer the starving children of Africa to eat in private because their extended starving tummies offend you as well. B*****ds.

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#233 TehFuneral
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I wouldn't mind to breast feed from a woman, whether it be public or not.

[QUOTE="GHlegend77"][QUOTE="Agent-Zero"] Yes they are.TheArGaia
Yes they are.

Yes they are.

I can assure you, yes they are.

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#234 jshaas
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[QUOTE="jshaas"]@YellowOneKinobi... I was asking JPL specifically. I find it comical that anyone would be offended by this at all. I know most women that breast-feed don't want pervs staring at them, but they know it needs to be done. I also know most women won't just flash a breast to annoy people... at least all the women I know. New mothers don't always have time for pumping, or the money to buy a pump. The cheap ones are terrible and take a very long time to fill a bottle. I speak from experience as new father. Having a baby changes everything. Just being able to get everything together and get somewhere is an accomplishment in itself. If you're offended by it, then you need to rethink your priorities and look the other way.YellowOneKinobi
Congrats!!! We're expecting our first this October, so I'll be in your boat soon enough. I agree that just from what I see in everyday life, it seems most women do try to keep it low profile, in part for their own privacy and in part to be respectful of others in a general sense (not that there is anything inherently wrong with feeding, of course). Once in every blue moon though, I see a woman just whip 'em out as if TRYING to get attention, but again, that's the rarity. Congrats again!!!

Congrats to you as well! We're expecting our second in a few months... only 19 months apart;). If I can offer some advice, even though from your posts you seem pretty level headed. Don't completely change your life to suit the baby. Obviously, there will be some things that change in your daily routine. A good example of what I mean is... don't do everything at a low volume when you're putting him/her down for a nap. Babies will sleep through anything so keep going at your normal volume. I've noticed that doing the opposite makes a every little noise wake a baby because they get used to it. Anyway, good luck and God bless.
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#235 jshaas
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[QUOTE="jshaas"]I don't have to have kids to know that. I, however, have a friend who's a mother who feels exactly like me. Thanks for assuming that just because I don't have children, I don't know what I'm talking about. JustPlainLucas
Sorry for the assumption, but until you have your own child and your own experiences with said child... your opinion doesn't carry as much weight. I'm sure you know plenty about it though. [QUOTE="JustPlainLucas"][QUOTE="jshaas"]@YellowOneKinobi... I was asking JPL specifically. I find it comical that anyone would be offended by this at all. I know most women that breast-feed don't want pervs staring at them, but they know it needs to be done. I also know most women won't just flash a breast to annoy people... at least all the women I know. New mothers don't always have time for pumping, or the money to buy a pump. The cheap ones are terrible and take a very long time to fill a bottle. I speak from experience as new father. Having a baby changes everything. Just being able to get everything together and get somewhere is an accomplishment in itself. If you're offended by it, then you need to rethink your priorities and look the other way.

Or you could simply accept the fact that people think differently.

I do accept that other people think differently, and in this case I find it comical. I find skinny jeans offensive and unnecessary, but the masses keep on wearing them. My opinion there is in the minority (apparently), just as yours seems to be when it comes to breast-feeding. Funny how when I state my opinion on the subject I'm labeled as close-minded, or that I don't "accept the fact that other people think differently." But, isn't that what you're doing to me?
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Only if I can have some.

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#237 Meinhard1
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Sure, breastfeeding is a natural, healthy part of being a woman; to restrict them from doing it in private is sexist (it's also baby-ist). Also, what's more sexually provocative - a man walking around with his shirt off, woman walking around in a bikini top or a mother breastfeeding her child.
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#238 wslacker2
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Should always be done behind closed doors. All pro health bfing aside, when I am in public and I have to take a leak, it is behind closed doors. Same should be done for BFing. If I take out my wang and water the bushes, chances are I will be arrested. Same for feeding.

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#239 Animatronic64
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If I take out my wang and water the bushes, chances are I will be arrested. wslacker2
That's sig worthy.
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#240 coolbeans90
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[QUOTE="GHlegend77"][QUOTE="Agent-Zero"] Yes they are.TheArGaia
Yes they are.

Yes they are.

Yes, they are.

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#241 Fundai
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Long as shes being carful and decent about it, there is no problem in the world with women doing something that breasts were made for...

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#242 YellowOneKinobi
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[QUOTE="YellowOneKinobi"][QUOTE="jshaas"]@YellowOneKinobi... I was asking JPL specifically. I find it comical that anyone would be offended by this at all. I know most women that breast-feed don't want pervs staring at them, but they know it needs to be done. I also know most women won't just flash a breast to annoy people... at least all the women I know. New mothers don't always have time for pumping, or the money to buy a pump. The cheap ones are terrible and take a very long time to fill a bottle. I speak from experience as new father. Having a baby changes everything. Just being able to get everything together and get somewhere is an accomplishment in itself. If you're offended by it, then you need to rethink your priorities and look the other way.jshaas
Congrats!!! We're expecting our first this October, so I'll be in your boat soon enough. I agree that just from what I see in everyday life, it seems most women do try to keep it low profile, in part for their own privacy and in part to be respectful of others in a general sense (not that there is anything inherently wrong with feeding, of course). Once in every blue moon though, I see a woman just whip 'em out as if TRYING to get attention, but again, that's the rarity. Congrats again!!!

Congrats to you as well! We're expecting our second in a few months... only 19 months apart;). If I can offer some advice, even though from your posts you seem pretty level headed. Don't completely change your life to suit the baby. Obviously, there will be some things that change in your daily routine. A good example of what I mean is... don't do everything at a low volume when you're putting him/her down for a nap. Babies will sleep through anything so keep going at your normal volume. I've noticed that doing the opposite makes a every little noise wake a baby because they get used to it. Anyway, good luck and God bless.

That's great (about your 2nd child)!!! Double-congrats!!!

And thank you for the sound advice (no pun intended :)). I'm at the stage where I accept pretty much any/all advice. I've heard some wacky things, but for the most part people have been VERY helpful and insightful.

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#243 frostybanana
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[QUOTE="frostybanana"][QUOTE="Deihjan"] H-how?! She's got a baby, baby needs food. Not all women are comfortable with breast pumps, and some women can't even use a breast pump, plus its much healthier for the kid and the mother to share the bond that is breastfeeding. Get over yourselves, really. Normally I'm all for different opinions, but saying something as natural as breastfeeding ones child is a public indecency..that's effed up, man. The society we live in suddenly decides that all natural functions are bad, which results in an awkward society with men and women being offended by the slightest sight of flesh that isn't their own. You people make me sick, and you should all be ashamed of yourselves, or go back to the zealous cult you grew up in.BuryMe

Right, so by your logic I should be able to walk around in broad daylight without any pants on and that should be just OK. Whether you like it or not breasts are related to sex by human beings. That's the way modern society is. That's the reason a lot of women augment that part of their body, because of the sex appeal. Like I said, whether it's about feeding your baby or not, pulling out a breast in public will always net the same outcome. A bunch of people feeling really awkward and uncomfortable. No one said breastfeeding is bad. They're saying pulling out a breast in public in modern society is improper and quite frankly it is. Go ahead and breastfeed, just don't do it in a spot where everyone can see you.

In certain contexts, yes, breasts are sex-related (for lack of a better term.)

But I think we can al tell the difference between some one engaging in a sexual act and some one who needs to feed a baby.

Look, the point is you can't tell other people how to feel. I would personally like it if women did it in private because it does make me uncomfortable and that's not something I can control. Or anyone else for that matter. And I will not "just get over it", I'll probably just leave the area to avoid the situation. If it can't be helped, it can't be helped, but again, I would rather they do it somewhere private to avoid any unnecessary awkwardness. It's not their problem if I'm uncomfortable, no. But it's also not my problem when I'm talking obnoxiously loud into my cell phone in an elevator. I don't do that though, out of common courtesy for the people around me. So if you CAN do it in a private place, what's wrong with me preferring that.
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#244 Alter_Echo
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If everyone started walking around with no clothes on it would be entirely natural so i fail to see how I or anyone else should be offended by breast feeding in public.