Some women might want to change some men, and some men might let them :P I think a lot of couples, not change, but be a bit more flexible to suit their partner. There's nothing wrong with that :)
'Change' means completely different things to men and women... When a female agrees to pursue a relationship with a male, she's thinking from a perspective like this: 'well, he has a bad haircut... wears lousy shoes... is seriously lacking in the personal-hygiene arena and he looks like his mother still dresses him everyday... but, oh well, I can change all that...' Males, on the other hand, spend all of our time hoping that things never change - the, uh, 'intimacy', the ********, the *** *******, ********** and so forth, and so on... Ultimately, females have the upper hand because they regulate our accessibility to the *****... so yes, women absolutely CAN change men...
I know I have changed a bit since I attempted to get into a relationship with this girl I work with (We are just going to be friends for now). Her just being there for the taking helped me push myself beyond this mental barrier I had that prevented me from asking a girl out. Not only that, but I have learned a few things about myself.
Let's be realistic about this. If the relationship is sound, then both partners will listen. If a woman's suggestion is good, then I'll consider it. I fail to see why a man would disrespect his lady in the first place.
of course they can, have you ever seen a guy in a kashmire turtleneck? his girlfriend bought it, and he's wearing it . its called becoming " whipped" and it did change him since he wouldnt wear that otherwise.. friends change you, women change you, family changes you, your enviroment changes you. this is a silly question.
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