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#1 Blin220
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to be bi/gay? think its possible? convert might not be the word but do you think its possible for someone who is straight to have strong feelings for someone of the same sex? and they actually want to take a chance with them? or does that automatically just mean theyre gay/bi?
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#2 DeeJayInphinity
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I don't know. Why would you want to? Just let them do their thing and keep doing your own thing.
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#3 Blin220
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I don't know. Why would you want to? Just let them do their thing and keep doing your own thing.DeeJayInphinity

lol well thats the point i'm bi and i like someone who is straight...

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#4 duxup
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I think you either have those feelings or you don't. Some folks might be suppressing them but nobody is "converting" those folks.
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#5 YourOldFriend
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Idk, but we can never know anything for sure unless we experience it first-hand, and even then we must define our own reality. Ok, this question didn't ask for a existential rant, but it came upon me. Apologies to those I may have offended or hurt.
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#6 DeeJayInphinity
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[QUOTE="DeeJayInphinity"]I don't know. Why would you want to? Just let them do their thing and keep doing your own thing.Blin220

lol well thats the point i'm bi and i like someone who is straight...

AH.. I see.. well if that other person is straight then there's really nothing you can do about it, man. Focus on finding someone else who is attracted to you.
As duxup has said, some people suppress those kind of feelings but even if that is the case, they are not going to come out until they're ready. Just try to keep your relationship friendly and tell that person how you feel if you haven't already.
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#7 niptuckSean
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No...
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#8 Dariency
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Depends on whether you think being straight/gay/bi is mental or physical. If you think you're born with your sexual orientation (I don't) then it would be less possible. But if you think your sexual orientation comes from just liking someone or something related, then yes, it is possible to change their thought.

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#9 VanHelsingBoA64
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[QUOTE="DeeJayInphinity"]I don't know. Why would you want to? Just let them do their thing and keep doing your own thing.Blin220

lol well thats the point i'm bi and i like someone who is straight...

I do not like the way this thread is going.

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#10 C-Himura
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Have you ever heard of people coming out of the closet? There is a chance that he/she might be into the stuff.

But, if they are straight and are not interested in changing, then I don't think you can force anyone.

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#12 kittykatz5k
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Can I or anyone around us? Most likely not. Can they convert themselves to be as such? Yes. You can't just flash gay porn in frony of them until they accept it or anything.

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#13 MissRiotmaker
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Sexual orientation is a lifestyle choice. Anybody can willing change their sexuality. There is no conversion needed, this isn't religion.
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#14 rimnet00
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Sure. Since men can be sexually stimulated by anal penetration, I can see how some people who may be frustrated with female relationships, or for whatever other reason, may jump ship, and find a homosexual relationship to be more rewarding.
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#15 linkthewindow
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Theres a theory that everyone is born bisexual, and that society forces them to be heterosexual... Its an interesting idea, but I would not pin your hopes up on it
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#16 ElZilcho90
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The ability to "convert" would kinda throws a wrench in the whole gay from birth" theory, wouldn't it?
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#17 VacantPsalm
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Not if they aren't willing. If they want to switch over then they could work on it and change. it wouldn't be easy but it is possible. If he's unwilling then I'd move on.
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#18 niptuckSean
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If say, a man raped another man, the victim isn't gay Unless he enjoyed himself, that is.Bio_Spark

Wrong...someone could enjoy it and still be heterosexual.

Sexual orientation is a lifestyle choice. Anybody can willing change their sexuality. There is no conversion needed, this isn't religion.MissRiotmaker

Orly?

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#19 DeeJayInphinity
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Sexual orientation is a lifestyle choice. Anybody can willing change their sexuality. There is no conversion needed, this isn't religion.MissRiotmaker
So change yours.. just for a second.
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#20 xtn702
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I dont think so bub...
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#21 muthsera666
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[QUOTE="DeeJayInphinity"]I don't know. Why would you want to? Just let them do their thing and keep doing your own thing.Blin220

lol well thats the point i'm bi and i like someone who is straight...

And I'm assuming you two are the same gender...

You must not like the person too much if you want him/her to change to suit you...

Just be friends. It's not all about sex...

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#22 1stCommando
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Why would anyone want to do this? This seems like a pretty bad idea to me. It would ruin the person's life. They would be on the road to living a normal life, then you'd go and ruin it for them.
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#23 Fortier
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[QUOTE="DeeJayInphinity"]I don't know. Why would you want to? Just let them do their thing and keep doing your own thing.Blin220

lol well thats the point i'm bi and i like someone who is straight...

Find a new crush.

NOW.

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#24 1stCommando
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[QUOTE="Blin220"]

[QUOTE="DeeJayInphinity"]I don't know. Why would you want to? Just let them do their thing and keep doing your own thing.Fortier

lol well thats the point i'm bi and i like someone who is straight...

Find a new crush.

NOW.

Yeah, seriously. Just because you're like that doesn't mean everyone else wants to be.
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#25 ferrari2001
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I believe everone has those feeling at some points in their lives, some stronger that others and it's how you act on it. So technically you could but I don't think it would be wise to do so.
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#26 pridetwo
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see Jared Leto:

yes i would go gay for that.

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#27 RKfromDownunder
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Sexual orientation is a lifestyle choice. Anybody can willing change their sexuality. There is no conversion needed, this isn't religion.MissRiotmaker

Sexual orientation is not a lifestyle choice.

A lifestyle choice? Did my uncle CHOOSE to be gay No he freaking well didn't. Neither did his partner. Or any other gay for that matter. The only people who CHOOSE to be gay are bisexuals.

But you are right, there is no conversion, and it definitely isn't religion. Realising that your gay is not the same as realising you are a christian, one takes courage the other takes brainwashing...

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#28 Robertoey
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Yeah, it's not a choice. I think the current theory suggests that homosexuality is triggered by a hormone bath of the egg at the wrong stage in development. They think it may also be influenced by some genetic traits.
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#29 ferrari2001
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[QUOTE="MissRiotmaker"]Sexual orientation is a lifestyle choice. Anybody can willing change their sexuality. There is no conversion needed, this isn't religion.RKfromDownunder

Sexual orientation is not a lifestyle choice.

A lifestyle choice? Did my uncle CHOOSE to be gay No he freaking well didn't. Neither did his partner. Or any other gay for that matter. The only people who CHOOSE to be gay are bisexuals.

But you are right, there is no conversion, and it definitely isn't religion. Realising that your gay is not the same as realising you are a christian, one takes courage the other takes brainwashing...

actually in all essence they did choose to be gay Some point in their lives almost everyone feels the urge to be gay Whether when your young or older. So you have feelings to act one way or another. It's how you act on those feelings is what makes you gay People who are gay could easily find a woman and be perfectly if not more happy with her than a guy. It just takes them more will power to overcome the certain feelings they are having.

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#30 gummy_joe
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to convert them shout em a sex change, that should do the trick

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#31 TanKLoveR
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R u that kid from that thread a few days ago that was stalking a straight guy in the bathrooms?
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R u that kid from that thread a few days ago that was stalking a straight guy in the bathrooms?TanKLoveR

:lol: hahaha I think you've worked it out!

As for the topic.. Err no.. because if you converted someone who was straight then they wouldn't be straight in the first place.

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#33 linkthewindow
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R u that kid from that thread a few days ago that was stalking a straight guy in the bathrooms?TanKLoveR
:lol:.
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#34 Tolwan
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As far as i know, there is no proof that gay is not a choice. If there was, i'm sure people would be working a treatment. It's ok if it's a choice, it's not ok if people are doing it because of a hormonal imbalance. They deserve to choose.
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#35 GEARS_0f_war983
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gay people scare me, no offence
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#36 gobo212
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gay people scare me, no offenceGEARS_0f_war983

That is pretty offensive actually.

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#37 Food_Nipple
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Sure. It's basically the same as getting someone who likes fish but hates carrots, to like carrots and hate fish.
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#38 linkthewindow
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gay people scare me, no offenceGEARS_0f_war983
Way to generalize. Its like saying that all Australians are uneducated bogans when you have only spoken to bogans. (I'm Australian, so don't get annoyed at me)
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#39 Tolwan
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[QUOTE="GEARS_0f_war983"]gay people scare me, no offencelinkthewindow
Way to generalize. Its like saying that all Australians are uneducated bogans when you have only spoken to bogans. (I'm Australian, so don't get annoyed at me)

Alright, hate to sound like an idiot but....What the hell is a Bogan?

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#40 linkthewindow
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[QUOTE="linkthewindow"][QUOTE="GEARS_0f_war983"]gay people scare me, no offenceTolwan

Way to generalize. Its like saying that all Australians are uneducated bogans when you have only spoken to bogans. (I'm Australian, so don't get annoyed at me)

Alright, hate to sound like an idiot but....What the hell is a Bogan?

Don't worry, its an Australian thing. Wikipedia knows all :D
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#41 gobo212
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[QUOTE="Tolwan"]

[QUOTE="linkthewindow"][QUOTE="GEARS_0f_war983"]gay people scare me, no offencelinkthewindow

Way to generalize. Its like saying that all Australians are uneducated bogans when you have only spoken to bogans. (I'm Australian, so don't get annoyed at me)

Alright, hate to sound like an idiot but....What the hell is a Bogan?

Don't worry, its an Australian thing. Wikipedia knows all :D

You need to fix your link.

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#42 linkthewindow
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[QUOTE="linkthewindow"][QUOTE="Tolwan"]

[QUOTE="linkthewindow"][QUOTE="GEARS_0f_war983"]gay people scare me, no offencegobo212

Way to generalize. Its like saying that all Australians are uneducated bogans when you have only spoken to bogans. (I'm Australian, so don't get annoyed at me)

Alright, hate to sound like an idiot but....What the hell is a Bogan?

Don't worry, its an Australian thing. Wikipedia knows all :D

You need to fix your link.

Its been fixed Link Use that one, the one in your quote still has the bad code
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#43 LJS9502_basic
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No. Are you implying sexuality is a choice?
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#45 Blin220
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[QUOTE="Blin220"]

[QUOTE="DeeJayInphinity"]I don't know. Why would you want to? Just let them do their thing and keep doing your own thing.muthsera666

lol well thats the point i'm bi and i like someone who is straight...

And I'm assuming you two are the same gender...

You must not like the person too much if you want him/her to change to suit you...

Just be friends. It's not all about sex...

i dont mean to be rude but i never said it was about sex... its just that whenever i talk to him i often feel like he acts different around me then other guys and i thought it maybe meant something? i dont say anything to him that makes him act different, im entirely myself... kinda i mean im shy but its not to the point where its obvious i like him, it just seemed different to me which makes me wonder if i just kept being extremely nice to him i just thought it could maybe end up with him liking me...

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#46 Blin220
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they dont have to be gay if they can convert to being homosexual then im sure they can convert themselves to being straight again. like someone said it would be hard but it could be done. i dont like using the word convert but its the only word i can think of as of right now.
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#47 Blin220
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[QUOTE="TanKLoveR"]R u that kid from that thread a few days ago that was stalking a straight guy in the bathrooms?Rattlesnake_8

:lol: hahaha I think you've worked it out!

As for the topic.. Err no.. because if you converted someone who was straight then they wouldn't be straight in the first place.

lol im not the creepy

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#48 espoac
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I personally wish someone could convert me to asexuality. Life would be so much easier without worrying about sex and romance.
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#49 Blin220
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gay people scare me, no offenceGEARS_0f_war983

why does it scare you? when you say gay people" it implies that we are all the same or act the same, and i dont mean to boast but i am much different than what most people consider to be gay

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#50 LoG-Sacrament
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you cant just flip a switch. so you should respect their life style how it is. how can you expect anybody to respect your sexuality if you cant respect theirs?