can you convert heterosexual people

you cant just flip a switch. so you should respect their life style how it is. how can you expect anybody to respect your sexuality if you cant respect theirs?LoG-Sacrament

how am i disrespecting their sexuality? i'm not telling him to be gay or being gay/bi is better than being straight. I'm simply asking if its possible if someone who was straight could have FEELINGS for another person of the same sex. And i never ever said anywhere in this thread that being straight is bad. you all are completely blowing this out of porportion. This got way out of hand.

[QUOTE="Bio_Spark"]If say, a man raped another man, the victim isn't gay Unless he enjoyed himself, that is.niptuckSean

Wrong...someone could enjoy it and still be heterosexual.

Sexual orientation is a lifestyle choice. Anybody can willing change their sexuality. There is no conversion needed, this isn't religion.MissRiotmaker

Orly?

ya rly. i've got a lot of friends who were either strait/g4y had a boyfriend/girlfriend and then now some decided they don't have feelings for girls/boys anymore...

gay people scare me, no offenceGEARS_0f_war983

Ignorance scares me, no offence

[QUOTE="MissRiotmaker"]Sexual orientation is a lifestyle choice. Anybody can willing change their sexuality. There is no conversion needed, this isn't religion.RKfromDownunder

Sexual orientation is not a lifestyle choice.

A lifestyle choice? Did my uncle CHOOSE to be gay No he freaking well didn't. Neither did his partner. Or any other gay for that matter. The only people who CHOOSE to be gay are bisexuals.

But you are right, there is no conversion, and it definitely isn't religion. Realising that your gay is not the same as realising you are a christian, one takes courage the other takes brainwashing...

wow... way to stereotype there buddy...

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[QUOTE="DeeJayInphinity"]I don't know. Why would you want to? Just let them do their thing and keep doing your own thing.Blin220

lol well thats the point i'm bi and i like someone who is straight...

And I'm assuming you two are the same gender...

You must not like the person too much if you want him/her to change to suit you...

Just be friends. It's not all about sex...

i dont mean to be rude but i never said it was about sex... its just that whenever i talk to him i often feel like he acts different around me then other guys and i thought it maybe meant something? i dont say anything to him that makes him act different, im entirely myself... kinda i mean im shy but its not to the point where its obvious i like him, it just seemed different to me which makes me wonder if i just kept being extremely nice to him i just thought it could maybe end up with him liking me...

Whenever you are trying to convert another's sexuality, it is about sexual interest. Friendship exists regardless of gender.

Maybe he acts differently around you because he is afraid that you are interested in him.

I personally am very nervous around males interested in males because I don't want to be thought of as attractive to someone of that persuasion. It unnerves me. Note that I'm not saying it is wrong for them to be the way they are.

[QUOTE="LoG-Sacrament"]you cant just flip a switch. so you should respect their life style how it is. how can you expect anybody to respect your sexuality if you cant respect theirs?Blin220

how am i disrespecting their sexuality? i'm not telling him to be gay or being gay/bi is better than being straight. I'm simply asking if its possible if someone who was straight could have FEELINGS for another person of the same sex. And i never ever said anywhere in this thread that being straight is bad. you all are completely blowing this out of porportion. This got way out of hand.

you are disrespecting his sexuality by wanting to change it to suite your needs. its selfish. he has his own lifestyle that you need to respect.

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[QUOTE="LoG-Sacrament"]you cant just flip a switch. so you should respect their life style how it is. how can you expect anybody to respect your sexuality if you cant respect theirs?LoG-Sacrament

how am i disrespecting their sexuality? i'm not telling him to be gay or being gay/bi is better than being straight. I'm simply asking if its possible if someone who was straight could have FEELINGS for another person of the same sex. And i never ever said anywhere in this thread that being straight is bad. you all are completely blowing this out of porportion. This got way out of hand.

you are disrespecting his sexuality by wanting to change it to suite your needs. its selfish. he has his own lifestyle that you need to respect.

ok, but i didnt say he should be gay or bi. If he's straight that is fine by me.. but i still cant help that i like him. You must've never liked anyone in your life before because it's not like you can wave a wand and magically stop liking someone. I think you are being ignorant and rude. You don't know what it's like because im going to guess you are straight and probably have never experience the situation that i am in. I'm going to repeat myself again and say i never told him to be gay or bi, never. I'm asking if its POSSIBLE for someone straight to like someone of the sex... and if the answer is no then so be it and thank you for answering my question. there is no need to be a jackass about it

[QUOTE="DeeJayInphinity"]I don't know. Why would you want to? Just let them do their thing and keep doing your own thing.Blin220

lol well thats the point i'm bi and i like someone who is straight...

A woman I imagine would convert easily, a guy not so much.

I dont hate gays, but being hetero is part of a male's "integrity". Thats why so many guys get offended when a gay guy hits on them.

So no...youre better off not trying to convert a straight guy. Frankly I would be flattered albeit alienated if some gay guy was like "hey want to go out with me?" but most guys would just kick the gay guy's ass

[QUOTE="LoG-Sacrament"][QUOTE="Blin220"]

[QUOTE="LoG-Sacrament"]you cant just flip a switch. so you should respect their life style how it is. how can you expect anybody to respect your sexuality if you cant respect theirs?Blin220

how am i disrespecting their sexuality? i'm not telling him to be gay or being gay/bi is better than being straight. I'm simply asking if its possible if someone who was straight could have FEELINGS for another person of the same sex. And i never ever said anywhere in this thread that being straight is bad. you all are completely blowing this out of porportion. This got way out of hand.

you are disrespecting his sexuality by wanting to change it to suite your needs. its selfish. he has his own lifestyle that you need to respect.

ok, but i didnt say he should be gay or bi. If he's straight that is fine by me.. but i still cant help that i like him. You must've never liked anyone in your life before because it's not like you can wave a wand and magically stop liking someone. I think you are being ignorant and rude. You don't know what it's like because im going to guess you are straight and probably have never experience the situation that i am in. I'm going to repeat myself again and say i never told him to be gay or bi, never. I'm asking if its POSSIBLE for someone straight to like someone of the sex... and if the answer is no then so be it and thank you for answering my question. there is no need to be a jackass about it

i was giving a direct answer and telling you why you shouldnt pursue your crush. if you didnt want a direct answer, then you shouldnt have asked the question.

and now youre playing the sole victim? sexual orientation isnt the only barrier to a relationship. every person that was turned down wasnt homosexual.

good luck finding anybody.

no just like you cant convert gay peopleclock_of_omens

Its ironic you say that because upwards of 20% of homesexuals do convert. Their homesexuality stems from insecurity or worse social disorders. Most of these homosexuals that "convert" often occur between high school and college; kids are unsure about their social environment, start to question themselves, etc..

Sexual orientation is a lifestyle choice. Anybody can willing change their sexuality. There is no conversion needed, this isn't religion.MissRiotmaker

What?

[QUOTE="MissRiotmaker"]Sexual orientation is a lifestyle choice. Anybody can willing change their sexuality. There is no conversion needed, this isn't religion.master-dude

What?

I am pretty sure nobody chooses to be gay Thats what five gay people I know have told me.

Thats like saying I chose to be straight...I didn't chose to like boobs and vaj, I just do, y'know?

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[QUOTE="MissRiotmaker"]Sexual orientation is a lifestyle choice. Anybody can willing change their sexuality. There is no conversion needed, this isn't religion.mrbojangles25

What?

I am pretty sure nobody chooses to be gay Thats what five gay people I know have told me.

Thats like saying I chose to be straight...I didn't chose to like boobs and vaj, I just do, y'know?

That's what I was saying. A lot of gay people I've met have said they don't really want or choose to be gay They're just naturally attracted to men.

Why the heck do you try to turn a fine straight guy into a bi-gay.

ANd don't say: "I don't want him to be gay I just want him to like me",

Keep your sexuality for yourself and for the ones of your kind and be happy.

[QUOTE="LoG-Sacrament"][QUOTE="Blin220"]

[QUOTE="LoG-Sacrament"]you cant just flip a switch. so you should respect their life style how it is. how can you expect anybody to respect your sexuality if you cant respect theirs?Blin220

how am i disrespecting their sexuality? i'm not telling him to be gay or being gay/bi is better than being straight. I'm simply asking if its possible if someone who was straight could have FEELINGS for another person of the same sex. And i never ever said anywhere in this thread that being straight is bad. you all are completely blowing this out of porportion. This got way out of hand.

you are disrespecting his sexuality by wanting to change it to suite your needs. its selfish. he has his own lifestyle that you need to respect.

ok, but i didnt say he should be gay or bi. If he's straight that is fine by me.. but i still cant help that i like him. You must've never liked anyone in your life before because it's not like you can wave a wand and magically stop liking someone. I think you are being ignorant and rude. You don't know what it's like because im going to guess you are straight and probably have never experience the situation that i am in. I'm going to repeat myself again and say i never told him to be gay or bi, never. I'm asking if its POSSIBLE for someone straight to like someone of the sex... and if the answer is no then so be it and thank you for answering my question. there is no need to be a jackass about it

You can change whether you like someone. I've done it several times.

And you said in the title about convert someone in terms of their sexuality. This implies someone actively pursuing the change.

Yes, with George Clooney.supercubedude64

Best answer I've seen yet!

[QUOTE="DeeJayInphinity"]I don't know. Why would you want to? Just let them do their thing and keep doing your own thing.Blin220

lol well thats the point i'm bi and i like someone who is straight...

No, I like being straight. Geez, give it up and stop asking, I won't date you.