My friend was talking to me about how someone if taken enough pain suicide is a viable option. Me i think it's a coward way out of life.
Just cause you get a couple strikes doesn't mean you leave the game.
So what do you think?
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My friend was talking to me about how someone if taken enough pain suicide is a viable option. Me i think it's a coward way out of life.
Just cause you get a couple strikes doesn't mean you leave the game.
So what do you think?
I don't think it's a good solution, but in the end it's up to each person to decide over his/her life.
Listen to me, sometimes people end up in situations where they are TRULY suffering a whole bunch.
And I think that if before you go around calling them cowards you need to be in their shoes. There are a bunch of whiny emo kids that talk about suicide but they're all about the attention. Some people end up in terrible situations, situations that would make the majority of these people saying that people who commit suicide are weaklings comtemplate doing it themselves.
So you would label someone with a terminal illness in tremendous pain a coward if they end their life?spazzx625I understand with a terminal illness But im talking about like. Being abused a lot and having no one to love you. That is tough but you gotta keep on trucking An illness is understandable
whoa, another emo topic! anyways, if a person is enough pain, then yes its viable. get out of here with that coward's way out nonsense. a person's life is more than a game.
edit: im not talking about depression or self agony, i'm talking about actualy physical pain, like a terminal illness.
[QUOTE="spazzx625"]So you would label someone with a terminal illness in tremendous pain a coward if they end their life?BioDogshockI understand with a terminal illness But im talking about like. Being abused a lot and having no one to love you. That is tough but you gotta keep on trucking An illness is understandableSo I guess I just won the question "can you justify suicide?"?
Yeah if it physical pain from a disease i can understand...but anything else noMy friend was talking to me about how someone if taken enough pain suicide is a viable option. Me i think it's a coward way out of life.
Just cause you get a couple strikes doesn't mean you leave the game.
So what do you think?
BioDogshock
[QUOTE="spazzx625"]So you would label someone with a terminal illness in tremendous pain a coward if they end their life?BioDogshockI understand with a terminal illness But im talking about like. Being abused a lot and having no one to love you. That is tough but you gotta keep on trucking An illness is understandable
Well that I can definitely agree with. But some people are not all mentally there, unfortunately. And that can be a cause of it as well. Not everybody can think as clearly as the rest of us. Sometimes it isn't a matter of weakness, but instead being insane.
Yes, I'm sure someone dying of uncurable cancer is a coward. For people with psychological problems, it's not cowardice either; it's complicated but you definitely do not want to know how it feels to be depressed to that extent.MochycWell i didn't mean like if you have a disease then your a coward. I ment non-disease situations. But yeah i can understand the psychological problem. Some people have emotional break downs that isn't their fault.
[QUOTE="spazzx625"]So you would label someone with a terminal illness in tremendous pain a coward if they end their life?BioDogshockI understand with a terminal illness But im talking about like. Being abused a lot and having no one to love you. That is tough but you gotta keep on trucking An illness is understandable What if someone cannot experience happiness anymore?
[QUOTE="BioDogshock"][QUOTE="spazzx625"]So you would label someone with a terminal illness in tremendous pain a coward if they end their life?spazzx625I understand with a terminal illness But im talking about like. Being abused a lot and having no one to love you. That is tough but you gotta keep on trucking An illness is understandableSo I guess I just won the question "can you justify suicide?"? You can justify it if you have an illness. What i want to know is if you can justify it in any other situations.
In very few cases. A minority of actual suicides would fall into that. People obviously should be able to control their own life and death, but justifying it in terms of the family and friends you leave behind is a different matter.Bourbons3
and according to my mother its a illegal in the US
[QUOTE="spazzx625"]So you would label someone with a terminal illness in tremendous pain a coward if they end their life?BioDogshockI understand with a terminal illness But im talking about like. Being abused a lot and having no one to love you. That is tough but you gotta keep on trucking An illness is understandable You don't "gotta' keep on trucking", why would you wanna' keep on trucking thru a tough loveless life while suffering thru abuse? =P
[QUOTE="BioDogshock"][QUOTE="spazzx625"]So you would label someone with a terminal illness in tremendous pain a coward if they end their life?MochycI understand with a terminal illness But im talking about like. Being abused a lot and having no one to love you. That is tough but you gotta keep on trucking An illness is understandable What if someone cannot experience happiness anymore? Life isn't always going to be down. You just gotta chug through that moment in life and make it through the other side.
[QUOTE="BioDogshock"]
My friend was talking to me about how someone if taken enough pain suicide is a viable option. Me i think it's a coward way out of life.
Just cause you get a couple strikes doesn't mean you leave the game.
So what do you think?
Yeah if it physical pain from a disease i can understand...but anything else no Mental illness (if you want to call it that) can be just as bad.It's more selfish to force someone to say alive when they don't want to "imo".
Yangire
This is what I've been thinking about this issue for a while now.
People say that the ones who commit suicide are the selfish ones. But what if somebody is really suffering a whole bunch (like from a really bad disease. Not talking about little things here). Who really is the selfish one for making that person stay alive?
If the person wants to end their life it is their choice. That's all I have to say about that. It's not my body, it's theirs, they can do what they want with it. I'm not going to judge...
[QUOTE="BioDogshock"][QUOTE="spazzx625"]So you would label someone with a terminal illness in tremendous pain a coward if they end their life?BiancaDKI understand with a terminal illness But im talking about like. Being abused a lot and having no one to love you. That is tough but you gotta keep on trucking An illness is understandable You don't "gotta' keep on trucking", why would you wanna' keep on trucking thru a tough loveless life while suffering thru abuse? =P Because you have to have faith that there is light on the other side of that tunnel. Your not always going to be abused. You have to have something to keep your spirits up. The person that can do that is a truly strong person.
There are plenty of people who have been through a hell of a life and have not commited suicide.Its easy to look from the outside in and call them weak. Until you get in that situation its not right to call them weak.
Ravirr
Because you have to have faith that there is light on the other side of that tunnel. Your not always going to be abused. You have to have something to keep your spirits up. The person that can do that is a truly strong person.BioDogshockSo it's not justifiable because it fails to live to your standards of what a truly strong person would do, kk.
[QUOTE="BioDogshock"]Because you have to have faith that there is light on the other side of that tunnel. Your not always going to be abused. You have to have something to keep your spirits up. The person that can do that is a truly strong person.BiancaDKSo it's not justifiable because it fails to live to your standards of what a truly strong person would do, kk. Im saying if you compare people who have commited suicide and those who have not and lets say they have had an equally hard life. If person A commits suicide and Person B does not then there must be some reason why. It is because person b was able to handle the situation and person A could not.
[QUOTE="Mochyc"][QUOTE="BioDogshock"] I understand with a terminal illness But im talking about like. Being abused a lot and having no one to love you. That is tough but you gotta keep on trucking An illness is understandableBioDogshockWhat if someone cannot experience happiness anymore? Life isn't always going to be down. You just gotta chug through that moment in life and make it through the other side.
Your assuming they are going through the same problems that everyone goes through. If someone is abused, raped, tortured, homeless/very poor, or just has a horrible life I think it's understandable if they kill themselves.
Is it so much justifying the act of suicide, rather than the freedom over your own body to do anything you want with it? Its easy to say how wrong is that unless you yourself have a reason.
[QUOTE="Yangire"]
It's more selfish to force someone to say alive when they don't want to "imo".
MarioFan264
This is what I've been thinking about this issue for a while now.
People say that the ones who commit suicide are the selfish ones. But what if somebody is really suffering a whole bunch (like from a really bad disease. Not talking about little things here). Who really is the selfish one for making that person stay alive?
Yeah, it's crazy thinking you shouldn't kill yourself to keep the people around you happy. Can't really explain what I mean, obviously killing yourself will greatly hurt the ones around you but if anything it's selfish of the ones around you if you don't want to kill yourself because it'll hurt them, this is presuming you're in a terrible position in life with no other option. Staying alive so you don't hurt your family is what I'm talking about.[QUOTE="Ravirr"]There are plenty of people who have been through a hell of a life and have not commited suicide.Its easy to look from the outside in and call them weak. Until you get in that situation its not right to call them weak.
BioDogshock
For some things it takes incredible strength to live through.
Just because one person can not does not neccessarily make them weak.
Ravirr is 100% right, though. I still think that if faced with one of these horrible situations, many of the people who call the one's who commit suicide "weak", might just end up doing it themselves. Life can get really bad. And quite simply there isn't always a bright light at the end of the tunnel. Some situations are just that bad.
They are extremely rare, but they exist. Personally I never be too happy with somebody commiting suicide that didn't really have to go through much, but I also agree that it is their life and body, as long as they don't take anybody else with them it is their right. Just a lot of these times these people do have a chance to make their lifes better, but they don't, and that's one thing that bothers me.
[QUOTE="BiancaDK"][QUOTE="BioDogshock"]Because you have to have faith that there is light on the other side of that tunnel. Your not always going to be abused. You have to have something to keep your spirits up. The person that can do that is a truly strong person.BioDogshockSo it's not justifiable because it fails to live to your standards of what a truly strong person would do, kk. Im saying if you compare people who have commited suicide and those who have not and lets say they have had an equally hard life. If person A commits suicide and Person B does not then there must be some reason why. It is because person b was able to handle the situation and person A could not. Because people are different. People live different lives, people experience different things, and in the end, certain events will cause more or less damage depending on the person.
Life isn't always going to be down. You just gotta chug through that moment in life and make it through the other side.[QUOTE="BioDogshock"][QUOTE="Mochyc"] What if someone cannot experience happiness anymore?Yangire
Your assuming they are going through the same problems that everyone goes through. If someone is abused, raped, tortured, homeless/very poor, or just has a horrible life I think it's understandable if they kill themselves.
But there are people who have had that happen to them and they have not killed themselves. Why should other people be excused when others have handled the situation.[QUOTE="spazzx625"]So you would label someone with a terminal illness in tremendous pain a coward if they end their life?BioDogshockI understand with a terminal illness But im talking about like. Being abused a lot and having no one to love you. That is tough but you gotta keep on trucking An illness is understandable
I don't think anyone should decide whether suicide is justifiable. Abuse (especially sexual) can have a highly damaging effect on a person's mental well-being. It can (and does) completely destroy people.
Until you have been in a situation where you have realised that all the "pain" would go away if you ended your life - you can't possibly sustain judgement.
[QUOTE="raven_squad"]Terminal illness is the only instance I find it acceptable really. Most other problems that people commit suicide for are temporary things. BiancaDKIsn't pretty much everything in this world and our lives, including our lives, temporary? :P Yeah but suicide is not the natural order of life. The natural order of life is to die naturally or of a cause that was out of your control (example somebody shoots you) You are 100% in control of suicide. It is your choice when you have the knife/gun/ pills in your hand
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