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#1 Wolfetan
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Why do people dislike cats, personally I love cats. Would love to see some opinions on why. I've told people that I would love to get a cat and they all scoff at me, thinking I'm an idiot. I ask why, they say there gross, ask why there gross and they have no reasons. Anyone have this happen to them/ have a reason for disliking cats?

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Plenty of people like cats. It's mainly dog people who don't like cats and don't know how to deal and approach them. I love dogs i think they make great companions but i also love my cat who i have to work for it's attention much more than my dog.
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Why does anyone dislike anything? I love cats but that doesn't mean they're for everyone. I think some people that don't like them based on ignorance of them though.

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Plenty of people like cats. It's mainly dog people who don't like cats and don't know how to deal and approach them. I love dogs i think they make great companions but i also love my cat who i have to work for it's attention much more than my dog. walkingdream
Well if you're getting a cat for attention you're getting a cat for the wrong reasons. Dogs are pack animals, they're naturally going to form an attachment to their owners. But cats are for the most part solitary. They don't want friends, they don't want companions. I don't think there's anything wrong with that, and it's actually why I prefer cats over dogs. But just...people should think of what they want in a pet and then choose the appropriate pet. Picking a pet and then trying to make it something it's not is sort of backwards.
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I am terrified of Suzy and Dyst
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i want a cat.

but they really mess with my already bad allergies.

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[QUOTE="walkingdream"]Plenty of people like cats. It's mainly dog people who don't like cats and don't know how to deal and approach them. I love dogs i think they make great companions but i also love my cat who i have to work for it's attention much more than my dog. MrGeezer
Well if you're getting a cat for attention you're getting a cat for the wrong reasons. Dogs are pack animals, they're naturally going to form an attachment to their owners. But cats are for the most part solitary. They don't want friends, they don't want companions

This is such bologna. People that say cats don't give attention or are solitery either haven't owned cats or raised them poorly. They don't jump all over you every time you get up to go to the bathroom like dogs but that's a good thing. My cats follow me all over the house, wait for me by the door when I get home, sleep with me, etc.

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I tink its cause they never had a nice mewmew of their own
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This is such bologna. People that say cats don't give attention or are solitery either haven't owned cats or raised them poorly. They don't jump all over you every time you get up to go to the bathroom like dogs but that's a good thing. My cats follow me all over the house, wait for me by the door when I get home, sleep with me, etc. Pirate700
No, it's fact. Cats are for the most part solitary creatures, end of story. And the attention that they do give for the most part has absolutely nothing to do with affection.
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[QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="walkingdream"]Plenty of people like cats. It's mainly dog people who don't like cats and don't know how to deal and approach them. I love dogs i think they make great companions but i also love my cat who i have to work for it's attention much more than my dog. Pirate700

Well if you're getting a cat for attention you're getting a cat for the wrong reasons. Dogs are pack animals, they're naturally going to form an attachment to their owners. But cats are for the most part solitary. They don't want friends, they don't want companions

This is such bologna. People that say cats don't give attention or are solitery either haven't owned cats or raised them poorly. They don't jump all over you every time you get up to go to the bathroom like dogs but that's a good thing. My cats follow me all over the house, wait for me by the door when I get home, sleep with me, etc.

Maybe you're part cat. *sanitized for new new tou
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[QUOTE="Pirate700"]This is such bologna. People that say cats don't give attention or are solitery either haven't owned cats or raised them poorly. They don't jump all over you every time you get up to go to the bathroom like dogs but that's a good thing. My cats follow me all over the house, wait for me by the door when I get home, sleep with me, etc. MrGeezer
No, it's fact. Cats are for the most part solitary creatures, end of story. And the attention that they do give for the most part has absolutely nothing to do with affection.

This is such shlt. I've had cats for 27 years and know how they behaive. Maybe the cats you've had don't like you but every cat I've owned has aways wanted to be where the people are, wait for me to get home from wherever I am, play fetch like a dog, etc. And you can tell when a cat is giving you attention out of love. You've either never owned cats are were a shltty owner. End of story.

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[QUOTE="Pirate700"]This is such bologna. People that say cats don't give attention or are solitery either haven't owned cats or raised them poorly. They don't jump all over you every time you get up to go to the bathroom like dogs but that's a good thing. My cats follow me all over the house, wait for me by the door when I get home, sleep with me, etc. MrGeezer
No, it's fact. Cats are for the most part solitary creatures, end of story. And the attention that they do give for the most part has absolutely nothing to do with affection.

it's the old nature vs nurture argument.  In the wild you may be right, but in domestic situations it often tends not to be the case.

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I have a cat,he roams all over the neighborhood
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[QUOTE="dave123321"] Maybe you're part cat.

More likely it's just anthropomorphism. People's kitty comes up and licks them and people think "my kitty loves me." And...no, your kitty is trying to clean you off because it sees you as property and it thinks you stink.
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[QUOTE="dave123321"] Maybe you're part cat.MrGeezer
More likely it's just anthropomorphism. People's kitty comes up and licks them and people think "my kitty loves me." And...no, your kitty is trying to clean you off because it sees you as property and it thinks you stink.

You can't really be this ignorant. Good lord. You're usually a great poster, but what you're posting about cats in here is some of the dumbest crap I've ever heard. :lol:

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Cats are disliked because they are awful creatures.

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Geezer just mad cats don't like him. I've had a couple cats and their affection has almost always been incredibly genuine.
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I have when cats doing "Taylor Swifting" on my carpet and rug
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This is such shlt. I've had cats for 27 years and know how they behaive. Maybe the cats you've had don't like you but every cat I've owned has aways wanted to be where the people are, wait for me to get home from wherever I am, play fetch like a dog, etc. And you can tell when a cat is giving you attention out of love. You've either never owned cats are were a shltty owner. End of story.

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I've had cats for 33 years, I've dealt with LARGE numbers of both domestic and feral cats. If we're going by personal experience, chances are that I understand cats far better than you do. And the fact is that usually behaviors that appear to be signs of affection are nothing of the sort.
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Geezer just mad cats don't like him. I've had a couple cats and their affection has almost always been incredibly genuine. SaintLeonidas
How could you tell that their affection was genuine? It may have been genuine, but there's no way for you to know.
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[QUOTE="Pirate700"]

This is such shlt. I've had cats for 27 years and know how they behaive. Maybe the cats you've had don't like you but every cat I've owned has aways wanted to be where the people are, wait for me to get home from wherever I am, play fetch like a dog, etc. And you can tell when a cat is giving you attention out of love. You've either never owned cats are were a shltty owner. End of story.

MrGeezer

I've had cats for 33 years, I've dealt with LARGE numbers of both domestic and feral cats. If we're going by personal experience, chances are that I understand cats far better than you do. And the fact is that usually behaviors that appear to be signs of affection are nothing of the sort.

Again, this sounds like a personal problem. When a cat is sleeping on you, purring, that's genuine affection. When a cat is waiting by the door for you to get him so it can hang out with you as soon as you sit down, that's genuine affection. Don't label your bad experiences with cats as the way they behave.

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You can't really be this ignorant. Good lord. You're usually a great poster, but what you're posting about cats in here is some of the dumbest crap I've ever heard. :lol:Pirate700
And yet you've done nothing to refute it.
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[QUOTE="Pirate700"]You can't really be this ignorant. Good lord. You're usually a great poster, but what you're posting about cats in here is some of the dumbest crap I've ever heard. :lol:MrGeezer
And yet you've done nothing to refute it.

There's nothing to refute. I don't have the lousy experiences with them that you apparently do.

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[QUOTE="SaintLeonidas"]Geezer just mad cats don't like him. I've had a couple cats and their affection has almost always been incredibly genuine. MrGeezer
How could you tell that their affection was genuine? It may have been genuine, but there's no way for you to know.

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[QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="SaintLeonidas"]Geezer just mad cats don't like him. I've had a couple cats and their affection has almost always been incredibly genuine. SaintLeonidas

How could you tell that their affection was genuine? It may have been genuine, but there's no way for you to know.

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:lol: This fits perfectly. 

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[QUOTE="Pirate700"]This is such bologna. People that say cats don't give attention or are solitery either haven't owned cats or raised them poorly. They don't jump all over you every time you get up to go to the bathroom like dogs but that's a good thing. My cats follow me all over the house, wait for me by the door when I get home, sleep with me, etc. MrGeezer
No, it's fact. Cats are for the most part solitary creatures, end of story. And the attention that they do give for the most part has absolutely nothing to do with affection.

 

This is a common misconception.  Cats are surprisingly social.  They hunt alone, but that's because they go after smaller prey, and there's no need for a pack.

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Again, this sounds like a personal problem. When a cat is sleeping on you, purring, that's genuine affection. When a cat is waiting by the door for you to get him so it can hang out with you as soon as you sit down, that's genuine affection. Don't label your bad experiences with cats as the way they behave. Pirate700
http://www.scientificamerican.com/article.cfm?id=why-do-cats-purr Again, I'm not saying that cats NEVER display ANY genuine affection. But the majority of signs of affection are anything but. People look at cats and assign human motivations, but it's not fair to do that because cats don't think like people.
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Maybe the cats remember when their brothers and sisters were tricked and trapped by geezer
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[QUOTE="walkingdream"]Plenty of people like cats. It's mainly dog people who don't like cats and don't know how to deal and approach them. I love dogs i think they make great companions but i also love my cat who i have to work for it's attention much more than my dog. MrGeezer
Well if you're getting a cat for attention you're getting a cat for the wrong reasons. Dogs are pack animals, they're naturally going to form an attachment to their owners. But cats are for the most part solitary. They don't want friends, they don't want companions. I don't think there's anything wrong with that, and it's actually why I prefer cats over dogs. But just...people should think of what they want in a pet and then choose the appropriate pet. Picking a pet and then trying to make it something it's not is sort of backwards.

Bullsh*t.

Cats can be just as affectionate as any animal. My cats won't leave me alone. One of them won't get away from my computer as I type this.

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From my experience, cats love their owners and can be just as friendly as dogs, and they don't mellow out with age. I had a 10 year old cat that died recently that slept at the foot of my bed every night and constantly tried to lay on my lap when I was doing schoolwork, playing games, watching TV, etc. I have 2 outdoor cats that follow me around and rub at my legs when I sit on my patio. They normally fall aseep at my feet. It all depends on whether or not you return that affection to the animal.

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Bullsh*t.

Cats can be just as affectionate as any animal. My cats won't leave me alone. One of them won't get away from my computer as I type this.

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From my experience, cats love their owners and can be just as friendly as dogs, and they don't mellow out with age. I had a 10 year old cat that died recently that slept at the foot of my bed every night and constantly tried to lay on my lap when I was doing schoolwork, playing games, watching TV, etc. It all depends on whether or not you return that affection to the animal.

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Again, anthropomorphism. You're looking at a nonhuman animal and assigning human motivations to its behavior. Your cat being near you doesn't in any mean it's affectionate towards you.
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[QUOTE="WiiCubeM1"]

Bullsh*t.

Cats can be just as affectionate as any animal. My cats won't leave me alone. One of them won't get away from my computer as I type this.

YynfUrK.jpg

From my experience, cats love their owners and can be just as friendly as dogs, and they don't mellow out with age. I had a 10 year old cat that died recently that slept at the foot of my bed every night and constantly tried to lay on my lap when I was doing schoolwork, playing games, watching TV, etc. It all depends on whether or not you return that affection to the animal.

MrGeezer

Again, anthropomorphism. You're looking at a nonhuman animal and assigning human motivations to its behavior. Your cat being near you doesn't in any mean it's affectionate towards you.

Dude, stop passing your issues with cats onto others. There ARE ways to tell when cats are genuinly excited to be with you. Read any book on house cats. When every person in here is telling you that you don't know what you're talking about, it may be you.

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[QUOTE="WiiCubeM1"]

Bullsh*t.

Cats can be just as affectionate as any animal. My cats won't leave me alone. One of them won't get away from my computer as I type this.

YynfUrK.jpg

From my experience, cats love their owners and can be just as friendly as dogs, and they don't mellow out with age. I had a 10 year old cat that died recently that slept at the foot of my bed every night and constantly tried to lay on my lap when I was doing schoolwork, playing games, watching TV, etc. It all depends on whether or not you return that affection to the animal.

MrGeezer

Again, anthropomorphism. You're looking at a nonhuman animal and assigning human motivations to its behavior. Your cat being near you doesn't in any mean it's affectionate towards you.

By that logic, a dog isn't affectionate either.

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[QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="dave123321"] Maybe you're part cat.

More likely it's just anthropomorphism. People's kitty comes up and licks them and people think "my kitty loves me." And...no, your kitty is trying to clean you off because it sees you as property and it thinks you stink.

People see what they want to see. See this often
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Dude, stop passing your issues with cats onto others. There ARE ways to tell when cats are genuinly excited to be with you. Read any book on house cats. When every person in here is telling you that you don't know what you're talking about, it may be you. Pirate700
Funny, I'm the only one here who provided a link from Scientific American written by an expert on veterinary sciences.
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[QUOTE="Pirate700"]Dude, stop passing your issues with cats onto others. There ARE ways to tell when cats are genuinly excited to be with you. Read any book on house cats. When every person in here is telling you that you don't know what you're talking about, it may be you. MrGeezer
Funny, I'm the only one here who provided a link from Scientific American written by an expert on veterinary sciences.

If you want to look stuff up, look up cat's "sprizzling" or shaking their tales when they see you. That means they're excited to see you. I shouldn't have to tell you about purring or strafing but you can check that out too.

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[QUOTE="Pirate700"]Dude, stop passing your issues with cats onto others. There ARE ways to tell when cats are genuinly excited to be with you. Read any book on house cats. When every person in here is telling you that you don't know what you're talking about, it may be you. MrGeezer
Funny, I'm the only one here who provided a link from Scientific American written by an expert on veterinary sciences.

I was a biology major in college. One of the things I studied in my free time was the examination of dependency and acceptance of domesticated animals to humans, cats included. Your link describes the physiological reasonings for purring, an evolutionary trait cats created to allow a cat to deal with stress, not a list of reasons why a cat can't be affectionate or a study into the psychological aspects humans personify onto lesser neural systems.

There is a reason I didn't include purring in my reasons why I believe cats are affectionate. There are many other signs of affection a cat can show, such as kneading or the showing of their stomachs, among others, but a purr isn't a faithful marker for the attachment. Just because you linked to an article to Scientific American (without fully comprehending it's full reasoning, meaning you are using an article that goes into the physiological processes that cause a purr to explain the emotional attachements of a cat to a human) doesn't mean you have a full grasp of the situation.

Plus, that particular article is over 10 years old. The information it pertains to may not even be accurate anymore.

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I was a biology major in college. One of the things I studied in my free time was the examination of dependency and acceptance of domesticated animals to humans, cats included. Your link describes the physiological reasonings for purring, an evolutionary trait cats created to allow a cat to deal with stress, not a list of reasons why a cat can't be affectionate or a study into the psychological aspects humans personify onto lesser neural systems.

There is a reason I didn't include purring in my reasons why I believe cats are affectionate. There are many other signs of affection a cat can show, such as kneading or the showing of their stomachs, among others, but a purr isn't a faithful marker for the attachment. Just because you linked to an article to Scientific American (without fully comprehending it's full reasoning, meaning you are using an article that goes into the physiological processes that cause a purr to explain the emotional attachements of a cat to a human) doesn't mean you have a full grasp of the situation.

Plus, that particular article is over 10 years old. The information it pertains to may not even be accurate anymore.

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And I wasn';t talking to you, I was talking to Pirate. He claimed that when a cat is sleeping on you and purring, that's affection. The link debunks that. The fact that there ARE unemotional physiological reasons for such behavior DOES mean that you can't look at that behavior and take it as a sign of affection. At that point it has nothing to do with whether or not there IS affection, it's that you can't tell if there's affection by looking at those particular behaviors.
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I was a biology major in college. One of the things I studied in my free time was the examination of dependency and acceptance of domesticated animals to humans, cats included. Your link describes the physiological reasonings for purring, an evolutionary trait cats created to allow a cat to deal with stress, not a list of reasons why a cat can't be affectionate or a study into the psychological aspects humans personify onto lesser neural systems.

There is a reason I didn't include purring in my reasons why I believe cats are affectionate. There are many other signs of affection a cat can show, such as kneading or the showing of their stomachs, among others, but a purr isn't a faithful marker for the attachment. Just because you linked to an article to Scientific American (without fully comprehending it's full reasoning, meaning you are using an article that goes into the physiological processes that cause a purr to explain the emotional attachements of a cat to a human) doesn't mean you have a full grasp of the situation.

Plus, that particular article is over 10 years old. The information it pertains to may not even be accurate anymore.

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And I wasn';t talking to you, I was talking to Pirate. He claimed that when a cat is sleeping on you and purring, that's affection. The link debunks that. The fact that there ARE unemotional physiological reasons for such behavior DOES mean that you can't look at that behavior and take it as a sign of affection. At that point it has nothing to do with whether or not there IS affection, it's that you can't tell if there's affection by looking at those particular behaviors.

I understand you weren't talking to me, but I chime in when I see an argument I have some credence in. Pirate's reasoning have been mostly correct thus far, though his purring argument is incorrect. So far you have been resigning yourself to disproving everyone's different reasons to thinking a cat can be affectionate and, as a blunt approximation of your posts, claiming cats don't want to be affectionate and that nearly everything they do has nothing to do with affection. That's just simply an overexageration

I understand your posts about cats being solitary creatures and some of their actions are just a result of their nature, not affection, but cats can be, and are very often, very affectionate to their owners and some of these actions are the result of those feelings of their affections, such as, to put it simply, "acting cozy" to their owners. Purring is not a good marker, but following their owners, constantly rubbing against them, batting their eyes slowly, showing their stomachs, and kneading are. Basically, your argument that cats purring and a few other actions are not signs of affection is correct, but your attempts to disprove most of the reasons given to you in this thread so far has been wrong, and your "anthropomorphism" theory for my judgments doesn't apply to the signs I recognize from my cats: their tendency to follow me around everyehere and constantly knead me, among others.

In short, I'm simply pointing out you are using the purring argument to apply to most situations, which is just simply untrue.

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I love dogs and cats. I would rather have a dog, you know for that whole loyal buddy experience, but Cats are so easy. Dogs are like a human life. You have to attend to them like you have to attend and care of a child or and old person. Cats are whatever, you dont have to see your cat for days and you'll know that he/she is fine.
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well I was bitten by one today, so I think that's a solid reason to dislike them.

nice cats are pretty awesome though

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you dont have to see your cat for days and you'll know that he/she is fine. Nengo_Flow
:lol: What? I assume this is for an outdoor cat. 

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I never liked cats until I found mine as a stray. He was a little kitten wondering the soybean field adjacent to my house so I started feeding him and now I love him to bits. His personality isn't like most cats I've encountered though which I think is the problem cat dislikers have with cats: their independent nature.
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Cats are great pets and they do obviously show affection for their owners, anyone who's actually had them and cared for them correctly knows this. My cat always wants to sit by me on the couch or bed, I have a huge backyard and she can go anywhere she wants yet she always chooses to lie next to me when I sit outside. She always meows for a long time if I leave the house (she's an old cat and spends more time inside) and she always likes to sit/lie next to any human rather than be on her own, ok sometimes she's just hungry sure but usually she just wants companionship.

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I understand you weren't talking to me, but I chime in when I see an argument I have some credence in. Pirate's reasoning have been mostly correct thus far, though his purring argument is incorrect. So far you have been resigning yourself to disproving everyone's different reasons to thinking a cat can be affectionate and, as a blunt approximation of your posts, claiming cats don't want to be affectionate and that nearly everything they do has nothing to do with affection. That's just simply an overexageration

I understand your posts about cats being solitary creatures and some of their actions are just a result of their nature, not affection, but cats can be, and are very often, very affectionate to their owners and some of these actions are the result of those feelings of their affections, such as, to put it simply, "acting cozy" to their owners. Purring is not a good marker, but following their owners, constantly rubbing against them, batting their eyes slowly, showing their stomachs, and kneading are. Basically, your argument that cats purring and a few other actions are not signs of affection is correct, but your attempts to disprove most of the reasons given to you in this thread so far has been wrong, and your "anthropomorphism" theory for my judgments doesn't apply to the signs I recognize from my cats: their tendency to follow me around everyehere and constantly knead me, among others.

In short, I'm simply pointing out you are using the purring argument to apply to most situations, which is just simply untrue.

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Firstly, I never said that a cat can't be affectionate. My point is that most of cat behavior has explanations that do not necessarily point to affection and that therefore affection is often an unfounded conclusion. Rubbing against people is another example. That doesn't preclude affection, but assuming that it's due to affection is a big stretch. Cats also do that simply to mark territory. If I recall correctly, kneading releases endorphins and usually indicates contentment. However, cats also knead inanimate objects and do so without being stimulated by humans (or other animals), so I'd be curious to see the scientific basis for it indicating affection. There are all sorts of behaviors which are the exact same way, and I'm not going to go through every single one. I never said that cats can't be affectionate, but the point is...if you want affection then get a dog. Their nature guarantees affection. By contrast, you can't make a cat affectionate to you. Personality plays a role as well. I've had LOTS of cats over the years and I've had regular contact with lots of strays and while many of them acted affectionate (whether it was REAL affection is another issue), there were a lot that just plain didn't. That's their personality, they want to be left alone, and there's nothing that's gonna change that. Whether cat affection is real or not, there absolutely are many cats that just plain want to be left alone and don't want to be bothered, and any time you get a cat there's a very real chance that that's precisely the kind of cat you're gonna end up with. If that's a problem for you, then don't get a cat.
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[QUOTE="Nengo_Flow"]you dont have to see your cat for days and you'll know that he/she is fine. Pirate700

:lol: What? I assume this is for an outdoor cat. 

And that's one of the things that pisses me off, people who get cats and then let them run around outside. For starters, that cat had better be spayed/neutered, because uncontrolled breeding is a big problem. But even if the cat is neutered or spayed, cats still have a devastating effect on wildlife. And I'm not even talking about feral cats, I'm talking about peoples' pets. Thirdly as an owner it's one's responsibility to care for one's pets. And in most places, there's so much horrible stuff that can happen to outside cats that I consider it grossly negligent to let them run around outside. Anyone who can't keep their cat indoors is someone who has no business owning a cat.
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#48 Nengo_Flow
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[QUOTE="Pirate700"]

[QUOTE="Nengo_Flow"]you dont have to see your cat for days and you'll know that he/she is fine. MrGeezer

:lol: What? I assume this is for an outdoor cat. 

And that's one of the things that pisses me off, people who get cats and then let them run around outside. For starters, that cat had better be spayed/neutered, because uncontrolled breeding is a big problem. But even if the cat is neutered or spayed, cats still have a devastating effect on wildlife. And I'm not even talking about feral cats, I'm talking about peoples' pets. Thirdly as an owner it's one's responsibility to care for one's pets. And in most places, there's so much horrible stuff that can happen to outside cats that I consider it grossly negligent to let them run around outside. Anyone who can't keep their cat indoors is someone who has no business owning a cat.

umad bro? anyaways my cat sleeps all day long, and she goes outside often, but she barely does anything when shes out. She will just sit some where and stare at stuff, then get into fights with other cats. Cats should be able to go out side, its unhealthy for them to live indoors all their lives. Where I live is pretty quite and nothing every happens, plus my house is in a dead end.
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last time I checked, everyone loves cats because of the internet...cat haters are a minority now.
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[QUOTE="Nengo_Flow"] umad bro? anyaways my cat sleeps all day long, and she goes outside often, but she barely does anything when shes out. She will just sit some where and stare at stuff, then get into fights with other cats. Cats should be able to go out side, its unhealthy for them to live indoors all their lives. Where I live is pretty quite and nothing every happens, plus my house is in a dead end.

Thanks for proving my point. Being outside is dangerous as hell for cats. There's one cat in my neighborhood that has suffered horrible injuries within the last year. In all likelihood, these injuries were probably caused by other cats. In addition to losing an entire eye, this cat has also received numerous injuries including a huge deep gaping wound right across the throat. And I don't want to hear any excuses about how cats shouldn't spend their lives indoors. If your home isn't large enough or stimulating enough to be a suitable lifelong home for a cat, then you have no business owning cats. Don't talk to me about living indoors being "unhealthy" when your cat is outside getting into fights.