A lot of kids I see these days change themselves into emos, gangstas etc to fit in. Changing yourslef to be cool is dumb and shallow. Pretty much doing anything to be popular whether it be fashion or anything else. There have been kids at my school who pretend to be somebody they are not, its not cool or hip, its dumb.
Most Fashion Senses are stupid, and take out the middlemen/women who don't want to follow, be themselves, or are just poor, so yeah, I hate fads, though fads on the SSBB Boards can be entertaining if implemented well, but that's another story. :)
Kids at that age haven't really found their identity. It's normally that they change to fit in. Nobody wants to be an outsider. It is important that you know who you are later in your life.
I used to just keep to myself and not talk to people much but I usually slowly gravitate to people siomilar to me but nobody was "the same" but now I met a girl and she is Alot like me, but not evil :oops:
Kids at that age haven't really found their identity. It's normally that they change to fit in. Nobody wants to be an outsider. It is important that you know who you are later in your life.guthwulf_de
Kids at that age haven't really found their identity. It's normally that they change to fit in. Nobody wants to be an outsider. It is important that you know who you are later in your life.guthwulf_de
I was always happy just being myself and socializing with anyone, I don't mind being alone, so if people didn't like me for certain reasons it never bothered me much:)
This might sound weird but there's this place I go, they're loads of people, all different kinds of things (goths, emos, chavs, skaters, gimps, punks etc.) and nobody judges anybody there. No matter how u look, any mental disabilities, how old or young u r, ur never judged. I luv that place but I'm grounded :(
This might sound weird but there's this place I go, they're loads of people, all different kinds of things (goths, emos, chavs, skaters, gimps, punks etc.) and nobody judges anybody there. No matter how u look, any mental disabilities, how old or young u r, ur never judged. I luv that place but I'm grounded :(the_tomboy
[QUOTE="the_tomboy"]This might sound weird but there's this place I go, they're loads of people, all different kinds of things (goths, emos, chavs, skaters, gimps, punks etc.) and nobody judges anybody there. No matter how u look, any mental disabilities, how old or young u r, ur never judged. I luv that place but I'm grounded :(-Karayan-
Just place a piece of foam beneath your feet. u hate me don't you???
I know so many people that have gone to emo, just because its now become a fashion. I like to be myself i will tell people, i play loads of games, but i also like to socialise, and just have a good time. Being me has made me popular and changing who you are to fit in, will make you look insecure.Â
[QUOTE="guthwulf_de"]Kids at that age haven't really found their identity. It's normally that they change to fit in. Nobody wants to be an outsider. It is important that you know who you are later in your life.double_decker
I was always happy just being myself and socializing with anyone, I don't mind being alone, so if people didn't like me for certain reasons it never bothered me much:)
Well, it's absolutely positive if you don't feel like you have to fit in. What I wanted to say is that I can understand how those kids act, I don't think it's a very bad thing to do.
[QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="the_tomboy"]This might sound weird but there's this place I go, they're loads of people, all different kinds of things (goths, emos, chavs, skaters, gimps, punks etc.) and nobody judges anybody there. No matter how u look, any mental disabilities, how old or young u r, ur never judged. I luv that place but I'm grounded :(the_tomboy
Just place a piece of foam beneath your feet. u hate me don't you??? Why do you say that?
[QUOTE="the_tomboy"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="the_tomboy"]This might sound weird but there's this place I go, they're loads of people, all different kinds of things (goths, emos, chavs, skaters, gimps, punks etc.) and nobody judges anybody there. No matter how u look, any mental disabilities, how old or young u r, ur never judged. I luv that place but I'm grounded :(-Karayan-
Just place a piece of foam beneath your feet. u hate me don't you??? Why do you say that? I dunno, i get the idea that you do... WTF??? I JUST JUDGED SOMEONE!!! *screams and jumps off a cliff*
Kids at that age haven't really found their identity. It's normally that they change to fit in. Nobody wants to be an outsider. It is important that you know who you are later in your life.guthwulf_de
So trying to "fit in" by changing who you really are is going to help you know who you are later in life!?
[QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="the_tomboy"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="the_tomboy"]This might sound weird but there's this place I go, they're loads of people, all different kinds of things (goths, emos, chavs, skaters, gimps, punks etc.) and nobody judges anybody there. No matter how u look, any mental disabilities, how old or young u r, ur never judged. I luv that place but I'm grounded :(the_tomboy
Just place a piece of foam beneath your feet. u hate me don't you??? Why do you say that? I dunno, i get the idea that you do... WTF??? I JUST JUDGED SOMEONE!!! *screams and jumps off a cliff* You never did anything to me. :/
[QUOTE="guthwulf_de"]Kids at that age haven't really found their identity. It's normally that they change to fit in. Nobody wants to be an outsider. It is important that you know who you are later in your life.FireXero
So trying to "fit in" by changing who you really are is going to help you know who you are later in life!?
Scanning for logic.... Logic not found. You obviously haven't understood what I said.
Well, it's absolutely positive if you don't feel like you have to fit in. What I wanted to say is that I can understand how those kids act, I don't think it's a very bad thing to do.guthwulf_de
Yeah, I don't think it's bad that they do either, but I think it's dumb when they only talk to people from thier "click" and ignore everyone else
[QUOTE="the_tomboy"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="the_tomboy"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="the_tomboy"]This might sound weird but there's this place I go, they're loads of people, all different kinds of things (goths, emos, chavs, skaters, gimps, punks etc.) and nobody judges anybody there. No matter how u look, any mental disabilities, how old or young u r, ur never judged. I luv that place but I'm grounded :(-Karayan-
Just place a piece of foam beneath your feet. u hate me don't you??? Why do you say that? I dunno, i get the idea that you do... WTF??? I JUST JUDGED SOMEONE!!! *screams and jumps off a cliff* You never did anything to me. :/ I knows, I tend to get a cold shoulder in life... u kinda remind me of my X-Dad... that's all :( sorry
Well, it's absolutely positive if you don't feel like you have to fit in. What I wanted to say is that I can understand how those kids act, I don't think it's a very bad thing to do.double_decker
Yeah, I don't think it's bad that they do either, but I think it's dumb when they only talk to people from thier "click" and ignore everyone else
They feel more comfortable with their friends.........plus, individuals usually don't seek out more friends when they have enough already.
[QUOTE="FireXero"][QUOTE="guthwulf_de"]Kids at that age haven't really found their identity. It's normally that they change to fit in. Nobody wants to be an outsider. It is important that you know who you are later in your life.guthwulf_de
So trying to "fit in" by changing who you really are is going to help you know who you are later in life!?
Scanning for logic.... Logic not found. You obviously haven't understood what I said.
[QUOTE="guthwulf_de"][QUOTE="FireXero"][QUOTE="guthwulf_de"]Kids at that age haven't really found their identity. It's normally that they change to fit in. Nobody wants to be an outsider. It is important that you know who you are later in your life.FireXero
So trying to "fit in" by changing who you really are is going to help you know who you are later in life!?
Scanning for logic.... Logic not found. You obviously haven't understood what I said.
Maybe you should try explaining yourself better? I understood him perfectly........and he was correct.
[QUOTE="guthwulf_de"][QUOTE="FireXero"][QUOTE="guthwulf_de"]Kids at that age haven't really found their identity. It's normally that they change to fit in. Nobody wants to be an outsider. It is important that you know who you are later in your life.FireXero
So trying to "fit in" by changing who you really are is going to help you know who you are later in life!?
Scanning for logic.... Logic not found. You obviously haven't understood what I said.
Maybe you should try explaining yourself better? That's pretty easy. You can't betray your identity if you haven't found it. That's a part of growing up.
[QUOTE="FireXero"][QUOTE="guthwulf_de"][QUOTE="FireXero"][QUOTE="guthwulf_de"]Kids at that age haven't really found their identity. It's normally that they change to fit in. Nobody wants to be an outsider. It is important that you know who you are later in your life.guthwulf_de
So trying to "fit in" by changing who you really are is going to help you know who you are later in life!?
Scanning for logic.... Logic not found. You obviously haven't understood what I said.
Maybe you should try explaining yourself better? That's pretty easy. You can't betray your identity if you haven't found it. That's a part of growing up.
I get it now, but i dont agree. You find out who you are by just living life, the people around you and the things you do are what form you, you dont find out your identity by dressing up like a goth and trying to fit in.
[QUOTE="guthwulf_de"][QUOTE="FireXero"][QUOTE="guthwulf_de"][QUOTE="FireXero"][QUOTE="guthwulf_de"]Kids at that age haven't really found their identity. It's normally that they change to fit in. Nobody wants to be an outsider. It is important that you know who you are later in your life.FireXero
So trying to "fit in" by changing who you really are is going to help you know who you are later in life!?
Scanning for logic.... Logic not found. You obviously haven't understood what I said.
Maybe you should try explaining yourself better? That's pretty easy. You can't betray your identity if you haven't found it. That's a part of growing up.
I get it now, but i dont agree. You find out who you are by just living life, the people around you and the things you do are what form you, you dont find out your identity by dressing up like a goth and trying to fit in. You contradict yourself... The people around you do form you to some extent that is true. And if the people around you are goths, you may dress like one for a period of time. Later on you may find out that it's not the right thing for you, and you change. That's exactly what I initially said.
They feel more comfortable with their friends.........plus, individuals usually don't seek out more friends when they have enough already. LJS9502_basic
I can understand that, I was referring to the ones who outright ignore and refuse to even acknowledge others besides thier own group and the ones that are mean to people just because they are a part of certain "click"
They feel more comfortable with their friends.........plus, individuals usually don't seek out more friends when they have enough already. double_decker
I can understand that, I was referring to the ones who outright ignore and refuse to even acknowledge others besides thier own group and the ones that are mean to people just because they are a part of certain "click"
Unfortunatley...kids are nasty little creatures when in a pack.
[QUOTE="FireXero"][QUOTE="guthwulf_de"][QUOTE="FireXero"][QUOTE="guthwulf_de"][QUOTE="FireXero"][QUOTE="guthwulf_de"]Kids at that age haven't really found their identity. It's normally that they change to fit in. Nobody wants to be an outsider. It is important that you know who you are later in your life.guthwulf_de
So trying to "fit in" by changing who you really are is going to help you know who you are later in life!?
Scanning for logic.... Logic not found. You obviously haven't understood what I said.
Maybe you should try explaining yourself better? That's pretty easy. You can't betray your identity if you haven't found it. That's a part of growing up.
I get it now, but i dont agree. You find out who you are by just living life, the people around you and the things you do are what form you, you dont find out your identity by dressing up like a goth and trying to fit in. You contradict yourself... The people around you do form you to some extent that is true. And if the people around you are goths, you may dress like one for a period of time. Later on you may find out that it's not the right thing for you, and you change. That's exactly what I initially said.
......... Yo mamma is so hairy she got afro hair cuts in her nipples........
Im sorry but i just couldn't think of anything to say, i agree with what you said before but im always fighting people even when i agree with them, its no fun if everyone thinks the same way ;P
......... Yo mamma is so hairy she got afro hair cuts in her nipples........
Im sorry but i just couldn't think of anything to say, i agree with what you said before but im always fighting people even when i agree with them, its no fun if everyone thinks the same way ;P FireXero
Playing the devil's advocate, eh? Whatever floats your boat. :)
Ever since I was little I saw no point in following trends. Fashion is just another word for conformism.
Kids at that age haven't really found their identity. It's normally that they change to fit in. Nobody wants to be an outsider. It is important that you know who you are later in your life.guthwulf_de
A lot of kids I see these days change themselves into emos, gangstas etc to fit in. Changing yourslef to be cool is dumb and shallow. Pretty much doing anything to be popular whether it be fashion or anything else. There have been kids at my school who pretend to be somebody they are not, its not cool or hip, its dumb.Film-Guy
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I agree. You should just be yourself, forget all the popular kids, most of them are just immature idiots.
[QUOTE="Film-Guy"]A lot of kids I see these days change themselves into emos, gangstas etc to fit in. Changing yourslef to be cool is dumb and shallow. Pretty much doing anything to be popular whether it be fashion or anything else. There have been kids at my school who pretend to be somebody they are not, its not cool or hip, its dumb.CansOfPLEASURE
I agree. You should just be yourself, forget all the popular kids, most of them are just immature idiots.
The most popular guy in my school is also the smartest and nicest person in school O_o
A lot of kids I see these days change themselves into emos, gangstas etc to fit in. Changing yourslef to be cool is dumb and shallow. Pretty much doing anything to be popular whether it be fashion or anything else. There have been kids at my school who pretend to be somebody they are not, its not cool or hip, its dumb.Film-Guy
Everyone changes in order to fit in. The people who don't try to fit in tend to be the people that the rest of us call "crazy".
[QUOTE="guthwulf_de"]Kids at that age haven't really found their identity. It's normally that they change to fit in. Nobody wants to be an outsider. It is important that you know who you are later in your life.double_decker
I was always happy just being myself and socializing with anyone, I don't mind being alone, so if people didn't like me for certain reasons it never bothered me much:)
See, the thing is that you probably weren't ALWAYS alone. I'll bet you already had friends, and hence didn't need to try to fit in.
[QUOTE="Film-Guy"]A lot of kids I see these days change themselves into emos, gangstas etc to fit in. Changing yourslef to be cool is dumb and shallow. Pretty much doing anything to be popular whether it be fashion or anything else. There have been kids at my school who pretend to be somebody they are not, its not cool or hip, its dumb.MrGeezer
Everyone changes in order to fit in. The people who don't try to fit in tend to be the people that the rest of us call "crazy".
Hmmm.... that sound a lot like me, ya know? youre only wrong on the "crazy" part.
[QUOTE="Film-Guy"]A lot of kids I see these days change themselves into emos, gangstas etc to fit in. Changing yourslef to be cool is dumb and shallow. Pretty much doing anything to be popular whether it be fashion or anything else. There have been kids at my school who pretend to be somebody they are not, its not cool or hip, its dumb.MrGeezer
Everyone changes in order to fit in. The people who don't try to fit in tend to be the people that the rest of us call "crazy". You think they're crazy just because they value their individuality and identity more than a false sense of acceptance?
There are some people, that no matter how much they change, no matter what "click" they try to enter, will never be able to fit in because socity just doenst accept them as a human being.
[QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="Film-Guy"]A lot of kids I see these days change themselves into emos, gangstas etc to fit in. Changing yourslef to be cool is dumb and shallow. Pretty much doing anything to be popular whether it be fashion or anything else. There have been kids at my school who pretend to be somebody they are not, its not cool or hip, its dumb.FireXero
Everyone changes in order to fit in. The people who don't try to fit in tend to be the people that the rest of us call "crazy".
Hmmm.... that sound a lot like me, ya know? youre only wrong on the "crazy" part.
No, you THINK that you're a nonconformist. But it's no coincidence that you seem relatively "normal".
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