Cheating

I just want to know cause I was flirting with this chick a while ago and my girl got mad.I couldn't fit Boyfriend into the question but that count's too.Mine would be kissing another guy because I'm alone with girls all the time but I wont say what I do with them.:P

I don't mind if my girlfriend started to hug other guys and such, especially if they're friends. If she starts making out with them when I'm not looking, however, then we'll have a problem.-Jiggles-

Ditto. I'd have a problem with them holding hands, particularly if I get the feeling there's a vibe between them.

Flirting in and of itself is nothing.....unless those flirting mean more. Holding hands is a no go...friends don't usually do that. Hugs for friends are okay...being alone same. Not friends they are both an issue. Making out is definitely crossing the line.LJS9502_basic

Yeah... that pretty much sums it up.:P

Definitely "sexual intercourse/oral sex". I personally enjoy making out with numerous people as a hobby--I just don't see it as cheating. It's just having fun to me--but im a big time party girl, so I guess I wouldn't even dream of taking something such as "making out" all that serious enough to call it cheating.TecmoGirl

You'd make out with other people even if your boyfriend was around?

[QUOTE="TecmoGirl"]Definitely "sexual intercourse/oral sex". I personally enjoy making out with numerous people as a hobby--I just don't see it as cheating. It's just having fun to me--but im a big time party girl, so I guess I wouldn't even dream of taking something such as "making out" all that serious enough to call it cheating.-Jiggles-

You'd make out with other people even if your boyfriend was around?

Damn right I would. He could do it too, so it's not any one sidedness going on or anything like that.

But I won't go out of my way to do it or anything though. I do feel that if he's my boyfriend, then believe me--he already would have a strong idea of how I am beforehand. If he is so insecure about our relationship, that he would get so jealous and mad at me for having fun and being myself, to tell me im cheating--then I'd simply dump him.

Afterall, he knows how I was before he got with me, so why get mad about anything and especially mad enough to classify it as cheating? That's just kinda stupid to me.

[QUOTE="-Jiggles-"]

[QUOTE="TecmoGirl"]Definitely "sexual intercourse/oral sex". I personally enjoy making out with numerous people as a hobby--I just don't see it as cheating. It's just having fun to me--but im a big time party girl, so I guess I wouldn't even dream of taking something such as "making out" all that serious enough to call it cheating.TecmoGirl

You'd make out with other people even if your boyfriend was around?

Damn right I would. He could do it too, so it's not any one sidedness going on or anything like that.

But I won't go out of my way to do it or anything though. I do feel that if he's my boyfriend, then believe me--he already would have a strong idea of how I am beforehand. If he is so insecure about our relationship, that he would get so jealous and mad at me for having fun and being myself, to tell me im cheating--then I'd simply dump him.

Afterall, he knows how I was before he got with me, so why get mad about anything and especially mad enough to classify it as cheating? That's just kinda stupid to me.

Eh, although I disagree with your logic, you bring up some good points. I won't argue.

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]Flirting in and of itself is nothing.....unless those flirting mean more. Holding hands is a no go...friends don't usually do that. Hugs for friends are okay...being alone same. Not friends they are both an issue. Making out is definitely crossing the line.crazy-player

Yeah... that pretty much sums it up.:P

yup.

[QUOTE="-Jiggles-"]

[QUOTE="TecmoGirl"]Definitely "sexual intercourse/oral sex". I personally enjoy making out with numerous people as a hobby--I just don't see it as cheating. It's just having fun to me--but im a big time party girl, so I guess I wouldn't even dream of taking something such as "making out" all that serious enough to call it cheating.TecmoGirl

You'd make out with other people even if your boyfriend was around?

Damn right I would. He could do it too, so it's not any one sidedness going on or anything like that.

But I won't go out of my way to do it or anything though. I do feel that if he's my boyfriend, then believe me--he already would have a strong idea of how I am beforehand. If he is so insecure about our relationship, that he would get so jealous and mad at me for having fun and being myself, to tell me im cheating--then I'd simply dump him.

Afterall, he knows how I was before he got with me, so why get mad about anything and especially mad enough to classify it as cheating? That's just kinda stupid to me.

[QUOTE="-Jiggles-"]

[QUOTE="TecmoGirl"]Definitely "sexual intercourse/oral sex". I personally enjoy making out with numerous people as a hobby--I just don't see it as cheating. It's just having fun to me--but im a big time party girl, so I guess I wouldn't even dream of taking something such as "making out" all that serious enough to call it cheating.TecmoGirl

You'd make out with other people even if your boyfriend was around?

Damn right I would. He could do it too, so it's not any one sidedness going on or anything like that.

But I won't go out of my way to do it or anything though. I do feel that if he's my boyfriend, then believe me--he already would have a strong idea of how I am beforehand. If he is so insecure about our relationship, that he would get so jealous and mad at me for having fun and being myself, to tell me im cheating--then I'd simply dump him.

Afterall, he knows how I was before he got with me, so why get mad about anything and especially mad enough to classify it as cheating? That's just kinda stupid to me.

We should talk sometime.gamergeek545

I don't think you want a girl that will be with a different dude or girl every night. :P

Get someone that you can trust. ;)

[QUOTE="gamergeek545"]We should talk sometime.xSIZEMATTER

I don't think you want a girl that will be with a different dude or girl every night. :P

Get someone that you can trust. ;)

hey, everyone needs a practice girl, right? just watch out for "cold sores".

[QUOTE="-Jiggles-"]

[QUOTE="TecmoGirl"]Definitely "sexual intercourse/oral sex". I personally enjoy making out with numerous people as a hobby--I just don't see it as cheating. It's just having fun to me--but im a big time party girl, so I guess I wouldn't even dream of taking something such as "making out" all that serious enough to call it cheating.TecmoGirl

You'd make out with other people even if your boyfriend was around?

Damn right I would. He could do it too, so it's not any one sidedness going on or anything like that.

But I won't go out of my way to do it or anything though. I do feel that if he's my boyfriend, then believe me--he already would have a strong idea of how I am beforehand. If he is so insecure about our relationship, that he would get so jealous and mad at me for having fun and being myself, to tell me im cheating--then I'd simply dump him.

Afterall, he knows how I was before he got with me, so why get mad about anything and especially mad enough to classify it as cheating? That's just kinda stupid to me.

hey, everyone needs a practice girl, right? just watch out for "cold sores".

-starman-

We should talk sometime.

lol! You couldn't afford me anyway sweetie--let alone my time.

I just really don't like easy girls. I really hate them them. Nothing more unattractive than an easy girl. Have some damn respect for themselves for crying out loud. I rather just see them not alive.

That's kind of a mean thing to say SM. But it does remind me that I never really understood how being easy meant you lacked self-respect though--I personally love myself, probably abit to much. But it is obvious how alot of guys act towards me afterwards sometimes, I just shrug it off and think it's just ignorant for them to assume that I guess. Besides, the guy involved wouldn't really be any different if that did hold ground right ?

[QUOTE="-Jiggles-"]

[QUOTE="TecmoGirl"]Definitely "sexual intercourse/oral sex". I personally enjoy making out with numerous people as a hobby--I just don't see it as cheating. It's just having fun to me--but im a big time party girl, so I guess I wouldn't even dream of taking something such as "making out" all that serious enough to call it cheating.TecmoGirl

You'd make out with other people even if your boyfriend was around?

Damn right I would. He could do it too, so it's not any one sidedness going on or anything like that.

But I won't go out of my way to do it or anything though. I do feel that if he's my boyfriend, then believe me--he already would have a strong idea of how I am beforehand. If he is so insecure about our relationship, that he would get so jealous and mad at me for having fun and being myself, to tell me im cheating--then I'd simply dump him.

Afterall, he knows how I was before he got with me, so why get mad about anything and especially mad enough to classify it as cheating? That's just kinda stupid to me.

:lol: And girls like you wonder why they cant keep a man...im getting a good laugh over this:P

[QUOTE="-starman-"]

hey, everyone needs a practice girl, right? just watch out for "cold sores".

xSIZEMATTER

[QUOTE="TecmoGirl"][QUOTE="-Jiggles-"]

[QUOTE="TecmoGirl"]Definitely "sexual intercourse/oral sex". I personally enjoy making out with numerous people as a hobby--I just don't see it as cheating. It's just having fun to me--but im a big time party girl, so I guess I wouldn't even dream of taking something such as "making out" all that serious enough to call it cheating.Caramel_Fantasy

You'd make out with other people even if your boyfriend was around?

Damn right I would. He could do it too, so it's not any one sidedness going on or anything like that.

But I won't go out of my way to do it or anything though. I do feel that if he's my boyfriend, then believe me--he already would have a strong idea of how I am beforehand. If he is so insecure about our relationship, that he would get so jealous and mad at me for having fun and being myself, to tell me im cheating--then I'd simply dump him.

Afterall, he knows how I was before he got with me, so why get mad about anything and especially mad enough to classify it as cheating? That's just kinda stupid to me.

:lol: And girls like you wonder why they cant keep a man...im getting a good laugh over this:P

[QUOTE="TecmoGirl"][QUOTE="-Jiggles-"]

[QUOTE="TecmoGirl"]Definitely "sexual intercourse/oral sex". I personally enjoy making out with numerous people as a hobby--I just don't see it as cheating. It's just having fun to me--but im a big time party girl, so I guess I wouldn't even dream of taking something such as "making out" all that serious enough to call it cheating.Caramel_Fantasy

You'd make out with other people even if your boyfriend was around?

Damn right I would. He could do it too, so it's not any one sidedness going on or anything like that.

But I won't go out of my way to do it or anything though. I do feel that if he's my boyfriend, then believe me--he already would have a strong idea of how I am beforehand. If he is so insecure about our relationship, that he would get so jealous and mad at me for having fun and being myself, to tell me im cheating--then I'd simply dump him.

Afterall, he knows how I was before he got with me, so why get mad about anything and especially mad enough to classify it as cheating? That's just kinda stupid to me.

:lol: And girls like you wonder why they cant keep a man...im getting a good laugh over this:P

[QUOTE="Caramel_Fantasy"][QUOTE="TecmoGirl"][QUOTE="-Jiggles-"]

[QUOTE="TecmoGirl"]Definitely "sexual intercourse/oral sex". I personally enjoy making out with numerous people as a hobby--I just don't see it as cheating. It's just having fun to me--but im a big time party girl, so I guess I wouldn't even dream of taking something such as "making out" all that serious enough to call it cheating.cowboymonkey21

You'd make out with other people even if your boyfriend was around?

Damn right I would. He could do it too, so it's not any one sidedness going on or anything like that.

But I won't go out of my way to do it or anything though. I do feel that if he's my boyfriend, then believe me--he already would have a strong idea of how I am beforehand. If he is so insecure about our relationship, that he would get so jealous and mad at me for having fun and being myself, to tell me im cheating--then I'd simply dump him.

Afterall, he knows how I was before he got with me, so why get mad about anything and especially mad enough to classify it as cheating? That's just kinda stupid to me.

:lol: And girls like you wonder why they cant keep a man...im getting a good laugh over this:P

My thoughts exactly!

That's kind of a mean thing to say SM. But it does remind me that I never really understood how being easy meant you lacked self-respect though--I personally love myself, probably abit to much. But it is obvious how alot of guys act towards me afterwards sometimes, I just shrug it off and think it's just ignorant for them to assume that I guess. Besides, the guy involved wouldn't really be any different if that did hold ground right ?

TecmoGirl

I was talking about easy girls. So you responded to me. and this "lol! You couldn't afford me anyway sweetie--let alone my time." (I mean this is no disrespectful way mods) Does that mean you admit to being easy?

When I was around 14, 16, I liked slutty girls, but when I found my girlfriend, and got to know her, I really got to hate sluts.

[QUOTE="xSIZEMATTER"]

[QUOTE="-starman-"]

hey, everyone needs a practice girl, right? just watch out for "cold sores".

cowboymonkey21

I just really don't like easy girls. I really hate them. Nothing more unattractive than an easy girl. Have some damn respect for themselves for crying out loud. I rather just see them not alive. :)

No, I think I was too nice. I just have no respect for sluts. ;)

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lol! You couldn't afford me anyway sweetie--let alone my time.

TecmoGirl

I'd draw the line at eye contact.SolidSnake35

We can learn from this great man.

I was talking about easy girls. So you responded to me. and this "lol! You couldn't afford me anyway sweetie--let alone my time." (I mean this is no disrespectful way mods) Does that mean you admit to being easy?

Well I do come across that way if I want too--but im mostly just "extremely flirty" and I fully undersand the better result of being challenging and giving off a self-decency vibe. It just depends on my mood and needs, so I can't really answer that with a solid "yes" or "no" I suppose, but alright.

What's your going rate then!?

I have a special going on--taxicab fair and a box of pizza for the first 24-hours is a full exception. I just need something to get home and something to eat when I get there. Anything beyond that day begins with a consistent flat rate of atleast $300 a day. You know what they say--good things, cost good money. You can email me for further details... lol!

Hopefully people realize I wasn't serious with any of that just now. A good sense of humor is hard to find these days.

I was talking about easy girls. So you responded to me. and this "lol! You couldn't afford me anyway sweetie--let alone my time." (I mean this is no disrespectful way mods) Does that mean you admit to being easy?TecmoGirl

Well I do come across that way if I want too

Why would you want to come off as being easy? :|

I thought women wanted to be respected and treated nice. How the hell can a honest man be that way to some women that act that way? :?

Touching the shoulder. :| Worse than Sexual Intercourse in my book.Hoobinator

Flirting in and of itself is nothing.....unless those flirting mean more. Holding hands is a no go...friends don't usually do that. Hugs for friends are okay...being alone same. Not friends they are both an issue. Making out is definitely crossing the line.LJS9502_basic

I feel exactly the same way.

A good sense of humor is hard to find these days.

TecmoGirl

Out of all the stuff you've said, I have to say I agree with this. Now don't get me wrong... I see no problem with making out with someone that you aren't dating, IF you don't have a boyfriend/girlfriend, if you do... I think it's a little different. I mean... to me it has nothing to do with respect for yourself, for God's sake, what about some respect for your girlfriend/boyfriend, I mean why even call them that, if you don't plan on exclusively being with them? I would imagine the whole idea of dating is to find someone you are compatible enough with to spend the rest of your life with... maybe I'm wrong... but that's how I feel. I mean... that's how I feel with my girlfriend. If you are just in it for the FUN, I would call that friends with benefits or something....

I think it all comes down to the intent, flirting, holding hands, hugging etc. is fine so long as there is no actual desire for the other person, even kissing (no full on tongue and feel ups though) so long as it's just platonic, as soon as desire and romantic/sexual attraction comes in it becomes cheating, this does not include things like thinking "damn she's hot" or whatever.