Cheating

I voted holding hands, because I personnally have not held hands with a lot of people... to me, whenever I grab a girl's hand, it means I want to go further.

On the other hand, I think being alone with somebody else is not necessarly bad, if it's a friend... and my girlfriend (if I had one) would probably know beforehand I'm planning on spending some time with the girl in question, so she wouldn't "find" me alone with her...

If I DID find my girlfriend alone with another guy, I wouldn't jump to conclusions, but I sure as hell would ask who he is and why she's there... holding hands or making out I'd just dump the b**** right there.

[QUOTE="TecmoGirl"]

I was talking about easy girls. So you responded to me. and this "lol! You couldn't afford me anyway sweetie--let alone my time." (I mean this is no disrespectful way mods) Does that mean you admit to being easy?xSIZEMATTER

Well I do come across that way if I want too

Why would you want to come off as being easy? :|

I thought women wanted to be respected and treated nice. How the hell can a honest man be that way to some women that act that way? :?

We do. Not all women act that way, just like with guys there are nice girls out there too.

In terms of a boyfriend.....I'd get uneasy at holding hands. Maybe at flirting too, but everyone likes to flirt, so I wouldn't say anything or make a big deal out of it :P.

I think being in a room alone, flirting and holding hands are okay but aslong as there not holding hands every freaking time..

but yeah anything beyond that is too far and needs to be dealt with.

[QUOTE="TecmoGirl"][QUOTE="-Jiggles-"]

[QUOTE="TecmoGirl"]Definitely "sexual intercourse/oral sex". I personally enjoy making out with numerous people as a hobby--I just don't see it as cheating. It's just having fun to me--but im a big time party girl, so I guess I wouldn't even dream of taking something such as "making out" all that serious enough to call it cheating.gamergeek545

You'd make out with other people even if your boyfriend was around?

Damn right I would. He could do it too, so it's not any one sidedness going on or anything like that.

But I won't go out of my way to do it or anything though. I do feel that if he's my boyfriend, then believe me--he already would have a strong idea of how I am beforehand. If he is so insecure about our relationship, that he would get so jealous and mad at me for having fun and being myself, to tell me im cheating--then I'd simply dump him.

Afterall, he knows how I was before he got with me, so why get mad about anything and especially mad enough to classify it as cheating? That's just kinda stupid to me.

Do you even have long time relationships cause I mighself dont conider mmyself that jealous type but that would be to much to take for me!! Anyway cant you have fun making out with your boyfriend!!??

General rule to go by is...If you're doing anything with another person that you wouldn't want your girlfriend or boyfriend to find out about- It's cheating.

I was talking about easy girls. So you responded to me. and this "lol! You couldn't afford me anyway sweetie--let alone my time." (I mean this is no disrespectful way mods) Does that mean you admit to being easy?TecmoGirl

Well I do come across that way if I want too--but im mostly just "extremely flirty" and I fully undersand the better result of being challenging and giving off a self-decency vibe. It just depends on my mood and needs, so I can't really answer that with a solid "yes" or "no" I suppose, but alright.

What's your going rate then!?

I have a special going on--taxicab fair and a box of pizza for the first 24-hours is a full exception. I just need something to get home and something to eat when I get there. Anything beyond that day begins with a consistent flat rate of atleast $300 a day. You know what they say--good things, cost good money. You can email me for further details... lol!

Hopefully people realize I wasn't serious with any of that just now. A good sense of humor is hard to find these days.

You realise it is illegal I presume?

Why would your gf want to hold another bloke's hand, doesn't make sense to me, she should be loyal to one pair of hands only;)odyssey_divine

This is what I was thinking.

Holding hands should be below being alone with another guy/girl methinks.

Anywho, holding hands would get me mighty suspicious and making out = me walking out.

Aye guys don't get all shocked by TecmoGirl's perspective. She's just having fun in this thread lol.FrozenLiquid

I thought she was just messing with us...

Aye guys don't get all shocked by TecmoGirl's perspective. She's just having fun in this thread lol.FrozenLiquid

so shes a liar? :?

Do you even have long time relationships cause I mighself dont conider mmyself that jealous type but that would be to much to take for me!! Anyway cant you have fun making out with your boyfriend!!??

Rarely do I ever have long term relationships, but that would be pretty obvious I guess--the highest I ever had was about six months. That was on and off at that--and of course I can have fun making out with my boyfriend. I just don't personally choose to be boring and do it exclusively with him. That's all im getting at.

[Quote=Franklinstein]Out of all the stuff you've said, I have to say I agree with this. Now don't get me wrong... I see no problem with making out with someone that you aren't dating, IF you don't have a boyfriend/girlfriend, if you do... I think it's a little different. I mean... to me it has nothing to do with respect for yourself, for God's sake, what about some respect for your girlfriend/boyfriend, I mean why even call them that, if you don't plan on exclusively being with them?

I can't argue that--you have a point. But I don't see it as being disrespectful to your boyfriend/girlfriend though if he or she knows what to expect in the relationship beforehand. As I said before, that's just as stupid on his or her part, in my opinion. People just need to be real about what type of girl/woman or man/boy they want and not be surprised when he or she acts accordingly.

[Quote=Lansdowne5]You realise it is illegal I presume?

Which one--prostitution or a sense of humor? lol!

so shes a liar?

Where did he say that at? He was just saying don't be surprised of my perspective and personal experience on all of this. And that I was having fun posting in this thread, which I am to be honest and it shows since I am messing around with a little humor here in there and im not taking anything offensive. Im not being uptight or forcing my veiws on people or anything of that nature--nothing I said regarding me and my perspective, ways and desires was a lie in the slightest sweetie.

Rarely do I ever have long term relationships, but that would be pretty obvious I guess--the highest I ever had was about six months. That was on and off at that--and of course I can have fun making out with my boyfriend. I just don't personally choose to be boring and do it exclusively with him. That's all im getting at.

TecmoGirl

:|....You might just be the most interesting girl i ever seen... :lol: You add that with the fact you like video games and its just something special there.. its hard to explain really 8)