Could you live happily without a love relationship?

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#51 quiglythegreat
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[QUOTE="quiglythegreat"]Absolutely. Eventually being in a relationship doesn't make life any better.DoctorFunk

Emo.

I kid, I keed.

That's Buddhist, not emo. But close enough sometimes. How you feel about something is not the result of that something but of you. That makes a lot of sense to me.
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#52 DoctorFunk
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I tend to find that people let me down all the time, why devote myself to someone what will inevitably let me down.

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True. I don't dislike people, but I find 99,9% of people to be average by my standards.
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#53 DoHo
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I tend to find that people let me down all the time, why devote myself to someone what will inevitably let me down.

I've lived 19 years without a significant other, i could live 19 more.

blooddemon666
And if you had someone that didn't let you down you wouldn't be able to imagine how you'd live life without them.
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#54 MidnightSasha
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[QUOTE="DoctorFunk"]

[QUOTE="quiglythegreat"]Absolutely. Eventually being in a relationship doesn't make life any better.quiglythegreat

Emo.

I kid, I keed.

That's Buddhist, not emo. But close enough sometimes. How you feel about something is not the result of that something but of you. That makes a lot of sense to me.

Well, the human race is supposed to mate, its one of the most important thing we can do. IMO

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#55 foxhound_fox
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Well, the human race is supposed to mate, its one of the most important thing we can do. IMOMidnightSasha

mating =/= pleasure

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#56 quiglythegreat
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[QUOTE="blooddemon666"]

I tend to find that people let me down all the time, why devote myself to someone what will inevitably let me down.

DoctorFunk
True. I don't dislike people, but I find 99,9% of people to be average by my standards.

Honestly, I think you can kind of devote yourself to anyone. The issue with love is just refusing to let certain things leave an impact. That's how I see it anyway. When you love someone, you think of them as perfect. You might superficially recognize faults of theirs, but really, you can't help but think of that person as flawless. And obviously they're not, but that's your state of mind.
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#57 MidnightSasha
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[QUOTE="blooddemon666"]

I tend to find that people let me down all the time, why devote myself to someone what will inevitably let me down.

I've lived 19 years without a significant other, i could live 19 more.

DoHo

And if you had someone that didn't let you down you wouldn't be able to imagine how you'd live life without them.

I agree with you DoHo.

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#58 quiglythegreat
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Well, the human race is supposed to mate, its one of the most important thing we can do. IMO

MidnightSasha
Well, I agree and I'd like to have kids and everything, but you don't need them and you don't need to be in love with someone in order to be happy or for someone to be in love with you. And say you did, well, then that's to say that those who are in love and in a relationship  and not happy simply cannot be happy, and I don't think that's true either.
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#59 quiglythegreat
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[QUOTE="blooddemon666"]

I tend to find that people let me down all the time, why devote myself to someone what will inevitably let me down.

I've lived 19 years without a significant other, i could live 19 more.

DoHo
And if you had someone that didn't let you down you wouldn't be able to imagine how you'd live life without them.

It's terrible at first and then it fades and you learn to live with it.
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#60 blooddemon666
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And if you had someone that didn't let you down you wouldn't be able to imagine how you'd live life without them.DoHo
I could, easily.
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#61 dreadlord12345
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drugs can help
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#62 megagene
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Yeah, probably...
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#63 jacintos09
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I guess I could, but I don't think I'd ever be as happy as I could be if I had somebody I loved to shared my life with
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#64 DoctorFunk
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After giving it some serious thought, I'd say no.

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#65 LJS9502_basic
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I'd rather not....
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#66 The_PirateKing
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~-~Nope, kind of down about not having one now.>.>...~-~
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#67 DoctorFunk
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~-~Nope, kind of down about not having one now.>.>...~-~The_PirateKing
*hugs you*
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#68 joey101010
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I guess... I can't speak for my own future... Alot seems to change all of the sudden in my life so.BraindeadRacr
Sums it up.
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#69 maheo30
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A human relationship yes. It would only get in the way. But I am in a love relationship. Christ loved me even when I was dead in sins(Ephesians 2:4-5). He showed me mercy when I deserved hell. Charles Haddon Spurgeon stated, "Oh, to be beloved of God! Had you the hatred of all mankind, this honey would turn their gall into sweetness." That's why I don't need a gf or wife. You are never alone when loved by Christ!
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#70 aaaaarrrrggggg
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Depends on how much happier they make you......I wouldn't know:cry:
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#71 RagedRaldo54
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Thats the way I live and the way I plan on keeping it for the rest of my life.
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#72 FireXero
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I definetly could, i dont feel the need to be in a relationship... or maybe im scared of being hurt... or maybe i hate women because i hate my sister... or maybe i hate myself and dont think im worthy of someones love!! :shock:

...... i need a shrink 

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#73 KrayzieJ
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depends on what you do.Hewkii
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#74 Raged-wolverine
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et i'd become a sex maniac after awhile!!
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#75 The_PirateKing
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[QUOTE="The_PirateKing"]~-~Nope, kind of down about not having one now.>.>...~-~DoctorFunk
*hugs you*

~-~*pushes away* No.~-~
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#76 MidnightSasha
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A human relationship yes. It would only get in the way. But I am in a love relationship. Christ loved me even when I was dead in sins(Ephesians 2:4-5). He showed me mercy when I deserved hell. Charles Haddon Spurgeon stated, "Oh, to be beloved of God! Had you the hatred of all mankind, this honey would turn their gall into sweetness." That's why I don't need a gf or wife. You are never alone when loved by Christ!
maheo30

Ya but christ isn't a real person, so that dosen't count...

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#77 maheo30
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Spoken truly by someone who has never known Him. Christ said in John 11, "I am THE Resurrection, and THE Life: He who believes in Me, though he were dead , yet shall he live." You have never been alive unless you have been made alive IN Christ. Pray He opens your eyes.
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#78 Hellraiser3899
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Hard to imagine, for me anyway.
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#79 SolidSnake35
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It wouldn't be a happy life that I'd lead.
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#80 Nisstyre_56
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nooooo way
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#81 LJS9502_basic
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Ya but christ isn't a real person, so that dosen't count...

MidnightSasha

Is there a particular reason you had to state that?:roll:

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#82 Kratos_Aurion56
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Thats probably how I'll end up anyway:P
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#83 maheo30
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Thanks LJS9502_basic, I appreciate that! I was wondering the same thing. If one doesn't agree fine, but why say something like that?
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#84 helium_flash
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I could easily.  But i would much rather have someone to love and care about more than the world to be with me than be alone.
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#85 jim_shorts
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It's probably the only way I could live happily.