Do girls really like g@y guys more?

[QUOTE="mexicangordo"]

Its a stereotype and usually stereotypes are "wrong" but many of them hold some truth behind it such as this one.

magnax1

If you think most stereotypes are usually wrong, then where do you think they came from? I mean there are some obvious racist ones that are like jews are cheap and black people are dumb and athletic, but most of them come from at minimum a grain of truth.

He said that. Apparently, you didn't even read his words, only the first half of his sentence.

[QUOTE="BiancaDK"][QUOTE="magnax1"]It just the truth, its not like some guy got bored and started making stereotypes. The perfect example is, every single gay guy I know acts exactly like the stereotypical gay guy. Acts rather girly and are more fashiony, but I only know four gay guys. Its not like im trying to insult people its just the truth.magnax1

Lol, okay whatever I'm not saying stereo types are true for every person, but the majority it is. I do know a bisexual guy who doesn't act fruity, but i didn't know if he would go under the category gay man. Hes not normal in any way though.

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

Allow me to go over the things I have been asked to do (and in a few rare cases, have done) by women in the four short years that I have been openly gay:

"Hey, do my boobs look fake to you? They're not, but dumb***** from three doors down has been saying they are."

"Hey, does this underwear go good with the color of my ****?"

"Could you help me with my bra?"

"Could you wear these old panties for a while to stretch them out a bit?"

"Did I cover my butt with enough sunscreen?"

Either they think gay people are girlfriends or they really, really like gay guys.

I also remember this one woman; major crazy *****. She obsessed over me. Had to get her nearly arrested to get her away.

effena

The other stuff, while I bet is annoying, it's understandable. But THAT one...wow

I think it's because some girls might fantasize about actually doing that kind of stuff with a guy, but since he's gay it makes it easier to make that fantasy come true a bit. Like, since the dude is gay the girl can get away with it.

As a gay person I find this utterly annoying. My taste in clothing is below average at best, I don't enjoy doing women activities, and I hate it when girls flip over me "omg you're gay that's sooooo cute."

And it gets even more annoying when your female friends have a crush on you (happened to me more than once). It makes an awkward situation.

My best friend (who is a girl) is thankfully NOT like that.

yazter

Thanks for the insight.

I actually know some gay dudes who relate more masculinly, and then there are some who relate more femininly.

[QUOTE="effena"]

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

Allow me to go over the things I have been asked to do (and in a few rare cases, have done) by women in the four short years that I have been openly gay:

"Hey, do my boobs look fake to you? They're not, but dumb***** from three doors down has been saying they are."

"Hey, does this underwear go good with the color of my ****?"

"Could you help me with my bra?"

"Could you wear these old panties for a while to stretch them out a bit?"

"Did I cover my butt with enough sunscreen?"

Either they think gay people are girlfriends or they really, really like gay guys.

I also remember this one woman; major crazy *****. She obsessed over me. Had to get her nearly arrested to get her away.

cu_be_cie

The other stuff, while I bet is annoying, it's understandable. But THAT one...wow

I think it's because some girls might fantasize about actually doing that kind of stuff with a guy, but since he's gay it makes it easier to make that fantasy come true a bit. Like, since the dude is gay the girl can get away with it.

"Could you wear these old panties for a while to stretch them out a bit?"

Theokhoth

Holy **** that's hilarious.

I think they like them better as friends.

[QUOTE="cu_be_cie"]

I think it's because some girls might fantasize about actually doing that kind of stuff with a guy, but since he's gay it makes it easier to make that fantasy come true a bit. Like, since the dude is gay the girl can get away with it.

Maddy_K

He could have a point. There is some women out there who find cross dressing attractive.

Well there's some truth about that I suppose.

I'm a gay guy and I usually get a lot of attention from girls. Probably because they don't see me as a 'threat', because the only intentions that I have is to have a fun night with them without ending up in a bed. Not that all straight guys have those intentions, but girls are always aware that there might be something more to it than just being nice. Also I'm not afraid to dance, I see so many straight guys in the clubs and they're just standing there, pretending to be too manly to dance. But they end up with no girl in the end. Then I think, come on man, move that ass haha! Also, it's really fun to spot hot guys with the girls haha queer laugh*

[QUOTE="Maddy_K"][QUOTE="cu_be_cie"]

I think it's because some girls might fantasize about actually doing that kind of stuff with a guy, but since he's gay it makes it easier to make that fantasy come true a bit. Like, since the dude is gay the girl can get away with it.

effena

He could have a point. There is some women out there who find cross dressing attractive.

Allow me to go over the things I have been asked to do (and in a few rare cases, have done) by women in the four short years that I have been openly gay:

"Hey, do my boobs look fake to you? They're not, but dumb***** from three doors down has been saying they are."

"Hey, does this underwear go good with the color of my ****?"

"Could you help me with my bra?"

"Could you wear these old panties for a while to stretch them out a bit?"

"Did I cover my butt with enough sunscreen?"

Either they think gay people are girlfriends or they really, really like gay guys.

I also remember this one woman; major crazy *****. She obsessed over me. Had to get her nearly arrested to get her away.

Theokhoth

Dude, that's so true! Those things have happened to me lots of times! Things that involve me checking or touching their boobs for instance :? But I don't reallly feel comfortable with a woman's body haha.

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

Allow me to go over the things I have been asked to do (and in a few rare cases, have done) by women in the four short years that I have been openly gay:

"Hey, do my boobs look fake to you? They're not, but dumb***** from three doors down has been saying they are."

"Hey, does this underwear go good with the color of my ****?"

"Could you help me with my bra?"

"Could you wear these old panties for a while to stretch them out a bit?"

"Did I cover my butt with enough sunscreen?"

Either they think gay people are girlfriends or they really, really like gay guys.

I also remember this one woman; major crazy *****. She obsessed over me. Had to get her nearly arrested to get her away.

TheFlush

Dude, that's so true! Those things have happened to me lots of times! Things that involve me checking or touching their boobs for instance :? But I don't reallly feel comfortable with a woman's body haha.

Yeah, I never get to check a girl's boobs because they know I'm straight, and to the girl, that would be showing yourself to a 'guy,' wheras when a girl shows her boobs to a gay guy, it's just showing herself to 'another girl' if you get what I'm saying. Sorry if I sounded offensive at all, I wasn't trying to.

Cross dressing isn't the point. The point is thinking that girls use gay guys as some sort of pseudo-male personal toy.Maddy_K

He wasn't refering to ALL women...

I love drawing, and I often draw abstract but where it looks very dark and intense and ethereal and haunting, think of cold wind blowing over a windswept plain under a cloudy night sky kinda thing.

And I'll show this drawing to a girl, and by girl, I mean one very cute and sweet, and she'll love it, because the drawing is very dark and powerful.

Sometimes, cute girls like bad dudes. That stereotype might have a grain of truth behind it too.

As a gay person I find this utterly annoying. My taste in clothing is below average at best, I don't enjoy doing women activities, and I hate it when girls flip over me "omg you're gay that's sooooo cute."

And it gets even more annoying when your female friends have a crush on you (happened to me more than once). It makes an awkward situation.

My best friend (who is a girl) is thankfully NOT like that.

yazter

[QUOTE="Maddy_K"]Cross dressing isn't the point. The point is thinking that girls use gay guys as some sort of pseudo-male personal toy.effena

He wasn't refering to ALL women...

[QUOTE="effena"]

[QUOTE="Maddy_K"]Cross dressing isn't the point. The point is thinking that girls use gay guys as some sort of pseudo-male personal toy.Maddy_K

He wasn't refering to ALL women...

There has been a few g@y threads like this lately..ZippySlappy

To tell you the truth, there's quite a few gay people in OT, and a lot of people have questions =p

Yeah, it really sucks that shows like Will & Grace have trained a whole generation of women to think of gay men as fashion accessories :( I was out drinking in a gay bar yesterday and there was a bachelorette party there; I mean, seriously..?xaos

Yeah, true. But Will & Grace is still hilarious. :D Jack is the best.

[QUOTE="xaos"]Yeah, it really sucks that shows like Will & Grace have trained a whole generation of women to think of gay men as fashion accessories :( I was out drinking in a gay bar yesterday and there was a bachelorette party there; I mean, seriously..?Dark_Knight6

Yeah, true. But Will & Grace is still hilarious. :D Jack is the best.

I was never able to make it through more than 5 minutes of the show, but I generally don't like sitcoms at all anywayxaos

:o Gay guy fail. :P

That's understandable. Will & Grace is actually one of the very few sitcoms I ever enjoy.

Jeez, why do people have such big problems with stereotypes?

[QUOTE="effena"]

[QUOTE="Maddy_K"]Cross dressing isn't the point. The point is thinking that girls use gay guys as some sort of pseudo-male personal toy.Maddy_K

He wasn't refering to ALL women...

So, since I'm a straight dude, I can't use my 'imagination' and 'intuition' to try and figure out something that may not necessarily be put in front of me on my plate, or in other words, 'obvious to me?'

And I may not necessarily be right either, I said it 'might' be that way, not 'is' that way.

Stereotypical thread is stereotypical.Bourbons3

The title was meant to be a thought that a straight guy dude may have.

[QUOTE="Bourbons3"]Stereotypical thread is stereotypical.cu_be_cie

The title was meant to be a thought that a straight guy dude may have.

Girls make great friends for us g@y guys. We give advice to each other.

But I have run into some women that were attracted to me before they knew i was gay.

no it depends on the girls "type" but ive known girls who have liked me and i had a stalker once too she was hot but then i was like "i dont like girls" then she stopped staring at me in class

Why on earth would you ask Gamespot about this? Do you really have nobody better in your life to ask?

Why do girls like gay guys more? If I were gay would girls like me more? But then if I was gay I couldn't get the girl anyway.

No.

Girls are not attracted to gay guys.

The kind of attention that a gay guy gets from a girl is not the type of attention that a straight guy wants to get from a girl.

To a girl, a gay guy is pretty much 'another girl.' If you are a straight guy, you DO NOT want to be thought of in this way.

Sure, it may look like gay guys are getting more attention, but it is better to get less attention for appearing 'straight' than getting a lot of the type of attention that a gay guy may get, granted that you are a straight guy and you want a girl.

This isn't meant to offend anyone, sorry if it did.

cu_be_cie

I have a friend who's gay and he always gets girls to have sex with him, good friends too, but he's not exactly conservative anywaysMGSFan92

Maybe as friends or shopping buddies or something.

needled24-7

[QUOTE="Baconbits2004"]Could the same be said for (no offense to anyone. >_< ) butchy lesbians?tofu-lion91

[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"]

[QUOTE="Baconbits2004"]Could the same be said for (no offense to anyone. >_< ) butchy lesbians?Jaguar_Shade

They aren't "another girl," but they generally tend to be different from other guys, especially the more "flamboyant" ones. In general they are more affirming and positive... I could be having a day where I think I look terrible and I'll see one of my gay friends and the first thing they will say is "hey, beautiful!" It's just encouraging. :P They also tend to be more open to physical touch but it's less awkward than with straight guys because their are no expectations, so they can be convenient when you just need a cuddle. ;) Those descriptors fit to the more stereotypical gay guy, but not always to others. SkylinePigeon

But see, the problem there is that if say a straight guy were to say"Hey, Beautiful!!"to a girlthat was his friend, even if he meant good by it most would take it as hes suddenly hitting on her, than its akward for the girl if she takes it that way instead of being encouraged. We dont all have expectations like that, or maybe its just me, or possibly i dont understand,but ifthere was agirl who was a close friend and she said she wanted to cuddle.. well thats that, theres really not much else to it. What expectations are supposed to have beenhad?MuddVader

[QUOTE="MuddVader"]But see, the problem there is that if say a straight guy were to say"Hey, Beautiful!!"to a girlthat was his friend, even if he meant good by it most would take it as hes suddenly hitting on her, than its akward for the girl if she takes it that way instead of being encouraged. We dont all have expectations like that, or maybe its just me, or possibly i dont understand,but ifthere was agirl who was a close friend and she said she wanted to cuddle.. well thats that, theres really not much else to it. What expectations are supposed to have beenhad?SkylinePigeon

[QUOTE="MGSFan92"]I have a friend who's gay and he always gets girls to have sex with him, good friends too, but he's not exactly conservative anywaysxaos

only as better friendsawesomeray