my ability to speak with strangers
not so much because I am really good at it (cuz I am lol), but because of how far I have come.
Before high school, my mom thought I was actually mentally handicapped or had a social disorder. In high school, I just stopped caring (lost my self conciousness) but lacked the skills. In college, I eventually got a bit better.
But after school, and after getting a job requiring me to talk to people, I have come a loooong ways.
mrbojangles25
I can relate to that.
Being an immigrant myself there was quite a few hurdles I had to overcome just to be able to live what other would consider a normal life. And being a natural introvert really doesn't help my cause much either. I remember as a teen I was a very moody kid and didn't know how to help myself while always envying how "good" other people have it, and secretly hating my life and always thought why I had to endure such a harsh life.
Eventually, I learned that if I was to improve my situation, I will need to go out and make that happen... no ones going to give me happiness, it is something I have to go out and "earn" it, so to speak. It really wasn't easy, besides being good at school I literally got nothing else going on. I pretty much force myself to learn English and speak to people. Quite amazingly though, once I started to do those things and did them well, good things started to happen... not saving I have it good now, but have definitely came a long way since then.
If there's one thing I can be proud of, its that no matter how many times I get knock down, I'll always get back up. Those harsh and awkward teenage years really set a good foundation for me
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