Do you ever still think about your first love?

LOL i have its been a year since i saw her and out of the blue i started thinking about her, wondering if you guys do?

*sigh* Yeah... 3 years, 2 months, 11 days, and 7 hours since she deflated. :(SaugaGames

This really made me lol. No I don't I don't even realise why I even liked her in the first place when I could of gotten with another girl who looked better and actually really liked me.... shame maybe I just don't like the easy ones.

what is love?

inb4 haddaway

No because she is a self-centered ****.

Sorry bout that.

Nope haven't had any.

However, the one girl I went on a few dates with messaged me on FaceBook out of the blue this summer. But the fact that she now has a kid (obviously not mine and I haven't talked to her for three years) kind of scared me off.

I never did find out what she wanted, she never returned my calls.

Almost every day. Haven't had contact with her in years since we broke up. I'm still in love with her.dracula_16

yeah i do. But it not that downtrotten what could have been thing. Its more of a "hey i remember that" sort of thing. Some people get like that and all i have to say is that there are better things in life than to remember what could have been.gp556by45

your sig is priceless:lol:

Yes, I've been infactuated with her for almost a year. I haven't even said a word to her. She doesn't even now I exist. How sad is that. Plus she is waaayyyy out of my leagues.

Not my first love but the girl I last fell in love with yes.

It's not healthy especially under my circumstances.

Yes, I've been infactuated with her for almost a year. I haven't even said a word to her. She doesn't even now I exist. How sad is that. Plus she is waaayyyy out of my leagues.

bird-man

thats not love thats lust :| its people like you who claim that she wanted it after she takes you to court for rape

Almost daily, she's the only girl I loved but she didn't know I loved her at least I don't think...I gave her lots of hints, but she never responded in any fashion. We were extremely good friends at work, she would always come to the booth I worked at the zoo when she was on her break, but then when I quit she stopped talking to me and lost interest in me...I guess, maybe she found a better guy when she went back to college hours away.

Edit: The bad thing is that although I've met a lot of girls that I may think look better physically none of them make me feel the way she did. We just had so much in common, our sense of dry sarcastic humor, our music tastes, and our love for ECW back in the day. Where else am I going to find a girl who loved ECW as much as I use did?:cry: (I really am, I tried to make a joke of it, but I reallly am rather sad right now).

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Yes, I've been infactuated with her for almost a year. I haven't even said a word to her. She doesn't even now I exist. How sad is that. Plus she is waaayyyy out of my leagues.

FUBAR24

thats not love thats lust :| its people like you who claim that she wanted it after she takes you to court for rape

Whoa. Whoa. Slow down there. I agree that infatuation is a manifestation of mere lust and does not represent true attraction and love.

But to liken infatuation to rape is a severe and unnecessary analysis. Even if your position had a modicrum of a solid foundation, the bare fact that he stated she didn't know of him would reduce the possibility that he would claim she wanted the sex in any such rape accusation.

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Yes, I've been infactuated with her for almost a year. I haven't even said a word to her. She doesn't even now I exist. How sad is that. Plus she is waaayyyy out of my leagues.

muthsera666

thats not love thats lust :| its people like you who claim that she wanted it after she takes you to court for rape

Whoa. Whoa. Slow down there. I agree that infatuation is a manifestation of mere lust and does not represent true attraction and love.

But to liken infatuation to rape is a severe and unnecessary analysis. Even if your position had a modicrum of a solid foundation, the bare fact that he stated she didn't know of him would reduce the possibility that he would claim she wanted the sex in any such rape accusation.

idk my my english teacher said that when you have someone that is so infatuated with a person i can lead down a very bad road

I think about her many times throughout the day, everyday. I was saving to buy her an engagement ring before she broke up with me... fun times, fun times... :cry:

It's been 6 months now... I'm improving though slowly. :D

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Yes, I've been infactuated with her for almost a year. I haven't even said a word to her. She doesn't even now I exist. How sad is that. Plus she is waaayyyy out of my leagues.

FUBAR24

thats not love thats lust :| its people like you who claim that she wanted it after she takes you to court for rape

Whoa. Whoa. Slow down there. I agree that infatuation is a manifestation of mere lust and does not represent true attraction and love.

But to liken infatuation to rape is a severe and unnecessary analysis. Even if your position had a modicrum of a solid foundation, the bare fact that he stated she didn't know of him would reduce the possibility that he would claim she wanted the sex in any such rape accusation.

idk my my english teacher said that when you have someone that is so infatuated with a person i can lead down a very bad road

So can love. Some husbands kill their wives because they are afraid that someone else might come in on her, and they love her to the degree that they cannot bear the thought of her being with anyone else.

Any position taken to an extreme can have a negative impact, but infatuation can be managed and eventually reduced to a negligible factor. Speaking from experience.

[QUOTE="FUBAR24"][QUOTE="muthsera666"][QUOTE="FUBAR24"][QUOTE="bird-man"]

Yes, I've been infactuated with her for almost a year. I haven't even said a word to her. She doesn't even now I exist. How sad is that. Plus she is waaayyyy out of my leagues.

muthsera666

thats not love thats lust :| its people like you who claim that she wanted it after she takes you to court for rape

Whoa. Whoa. Slow down there. I agree that infatuation is a manifestation of mere lust and does not represent true attraction and love.

But to liken infatuation to rape is a severe and unnecessary analysis. Even if your position had a modicrum of a solid foundation, the bare fact that he stated she didn't know of him would reduce the possibility that he would claim she wanted the sex in any such rape accusation.

idk my my english teacher said that when you have someone that is so infatuated with a person i can lead down a very bad road

So can love. Some husbands kill their wives because they are afraid that someone else might come in on her, and they love her to the degree that they cannot bear the thought of her being with anyone else.

Any position taken to an extreme can have a negative impact, but infatuation can be managed and eventually reduced to a negligible factor. Speaking from existence.

ok i see your point

we are still together, so yeah, i think about her non stop

A first kiss is really something special :oops:

Even though we grew apart I still think about her from time to time.

I have never had a love to begin with. No crushes either. Am I missing out?

what is love?

DJ_Novakain

Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more.....

Sorry I had to include that cheesy song in here, but i couldn't resist.....

I have never had a love to begin with. No crushed either. Am I missing out?

The_Ish

I have never had a love to begin with. No crushes either. Am I missing out?

The_Ish

Not really. If you don't wait for the right one then dating/relationships can cause more harm than good.

I am still in love with my first actual "love." Random thoughts pop into my head about those in the past of whom I've had crushes on but nothing beyond how I should have talked to them about how I felt. As for my first actual "love" however, even if we end up going our separate ways I doubt I will ever forget her or even stop loving her. She stole my heart and nothing could stop me from loving her, even if I am forced to find someone else, there will always be a place in my heart for her and I will never forget the impact she has had on my life.foxhound_fox

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I have never had a love to begin with. No crushed either. Am I missing out?

MoldOnHold

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I have never had a love to begin with. No crushed either. Am I missing out?

MoldOnHold

Pfft, I haven't seen it benefit you. :P

I have never had a love to begin with. No crushes either. Am I missing out?

The_Ish

Not really.

[QUOTE="MoldOnHold"][QUOTE="The_Ish"]

I have never had a love to begin with. No crushed either. Am I missing out?

mindstorm

[QUOTE="mindstorm"][QUOTE="MoldOnHold"][QUOTE="The_Ish"]

I have never had a love to begin with. No crushed either. Am I missing out?

MLGTalent

I have never had a love to begin with. No crushes either. Am I missing out?

The_Ish