Do you feel like a failure to yourself?

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#1 EagleEyedOne
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Think about what you thought you would be at the age you are 10 years ago. What did you want to be and where you now? When you think about this do you feel like a failure or do you think you just went a different direction?

I have failed myself. Fvck high school. Still have time to make it where I ultimately wanted to be.

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#2 Canuck3000
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I expected to be father ahead in life, but I don't think I'm a failure
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#3 Kevlar101
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Ya. Just tonight, I pushed away all 3 of my best friends. I fvcked up. So ya, i'm a shitball. So sue me.
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#4 thriteenthmonke
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I'm not a god yet, so yeah I guess so.
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#5 LZ71
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Not particularly, no. I'm not saying that I'm exactly where I'd like to be in life, but I don't feel like I've failed some future I set up for myself some time ago.
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#6 Wolfetan
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Not particularly, no. I'm not saying that I'm exactly where I'd like to be in life, but I don't feel like I've failed some future I set up for myself some time ago. LZ71
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#7 EagleEyedOne
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Not particularly, no. I'm not saying that I'm exactly where I'd like to be in life, but I don't feel like I've failed some future I set up for myself some time ago. LZ71
That's true. Where I am now is not a failed point within a future I set up for myself some time ago. It is just a result of my stupid attitude years ago.

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#8 Ugalde-
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Perfect thread. Im drunk and miserable. I just got back from the bar and cant seem to get over my fear of talking to girls. Makes me absolutely miserable.
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#9 zenogandia
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I thought I was going to be a superheroe 10 years ago, so yes. I feel like a failure. 

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#10 quadraleap
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After the crazy teen and 20's era, I put more focus on this eventually in the 30's. For awhile I was behind (or keeping my nose above water), but allot of the puzzle pieces finally started coming together around the 40's in regards to almost everything. (Of course there are always some things to work on) My biggest disappointments lately are not quitting smoking and perhaps drinking. Doing so would propel me to not only better health but to better pastimes, perhaps eventually leading to meeting someone worthy of a relationship.
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#11 EagleEyedOne
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Perfect thread. Im drunk and miserable. I just got back from the bar and cant seem to get over my fear of talking to girls. Makes me absolutely miserable.Ugalde-
I'm pretty drunk too. Feeling miserable as well in that I didn't make it to Yale or Stanford after high school. Not even UCSD with my 3.8GPA and 1900 SAT score. (I was completely baked when I took my SATs. Took like 5 bong loads.)
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#12 Chris_Williams
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all the time

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#13 FelipeInside
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Perfect thread. Im drunk and miserable. I just got back from the bar and cant seem to get over my fear of talking to girls. Makes me absolutely miserable.Ugalde-
Why are so many men afraid to talk to girls? Don't you interact with females at work or something?
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#14 Ugalde-
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[QUOTE="Ugalde-"]Perfect thread. Im drunk and miserable. I just got back from the bar and cant seem to get over my fear of talking to girls. Makes me absolutely miserable.EagleEyedOne
I'm pretty drunk too. Feeling miserable as well in that I didn't make it to Yale or Stanford after high school. Not even UCSD with my 3.8GPA and 1900 SAT score. (I was completely baked when I took my SATs. Took like 5 bong loads.)

Well. To being drunk and miserable.
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#15 EagleEyedOne
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[QUOTE="EagleEyedOne"][QUOTE="Ugalde-"]Perfect thread. Im drunk and miserable. I just got back from the bar and cant seem to get over my fear of talking to girls. Makes me absolutely miserable.Ugalde-
I'm pretty drunk too. Feeling miserable as well in that I didn't make it to Yale or Stanford after high school. Not even UCSD with my 3.8GPA and 1900 SAT score. (I was completely baked when I took my SATs. Took like 5 bong loads.)

Well. To being drunk and miserable.

Indeed. I just wish I wasn't so stupid in high school. Wish I had my priorities straight.

Nothing to do with girls, mind you (not to make you feel bad). I got a lot of dome in high school.

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#16 Ugalde-
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[QUOTE="Ugalde-"]Perfect thread. Im drunk and miserable. I just got back from the bar and cant seem to get over my fear of talking to girls. Makes me absolutely miserable.FelipeInside
Why are so many men afraid to talk to girls? Don't you interact with females at work or something?

No all male work place, I am actually very good at talking to girls when forced. I just cant get myself to approach them no matter how hard I try, Tonight I found out my sister is dying from a infection. Weve kind of know for awhile yet I still cant even talk to a girl. Even knowing that I should be living it up knowing that my sister cant. Its f*cking pathetic.
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#17 EagleEyedOne
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[QUOTE="FelipeInside"][QUOTE="Ugalde-"]Perfect thread. Im drunk and miserable. I just got back from the bar and cant seem to get over my fear of talking to girls. Makes me absolutely miserable.Ugalde-
Why are so many men afraid to talk to girls? Don't you interact with females at work or something?

No all male work place, I am actually very good at talking to girls when forced. I just cant get myself to approach them no matter how hard I try, Tonight I found out my sister is dying from a infection. Weve kind of know for awhile yet I still cant even talk to a girl. Even knowing that I should be living it up knowing that my sister cant. Its f*cking pathetic.

Think with you balls and shaft and you will do well with the girls. This is why so many of them fall for stupid douchebags.
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#18 FelipeInside
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[QUOTE="FelipeInside"][QUOTE="Ugalde-"]Perfect thread. Im drunk and miserable. I just got back from the bar and cant seem to get over my fear of talking to girls. Makes me absolutely miserable.Ugalde-
Why are so many men afraid to talk to girls? Don't you interact with females at work or something?

No all male work place, I am actually very good at talking to girls when forced. I just cant get myself to approach them no matter how hard I try, Tonight I found out my sister is dying from a infection. Weve kind of know for awhile yet I still cant even talk to a girl. Even knowing that I should be living it up knowing that my sister cant. Its f*cking pathetic.

Sorry to hear about ur sister, but I don't think that has anything to do with ur ability to talk to girls. U say u have a hard time approaching them but not actually talking to them?
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#19 lostrib
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well this shit is depressing

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#20 Ugalde-
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[QUOTE="FelipeInside"][QUOTE="Ugalde-"][QUOTE="FelipeInside"] Why are so many men afraid to talk to girls? Don't you interact with females at work or something?

No all male work place, I am actually very good at talking to girls when forced. I just cant get myself to approach them no matter how hard I try, Tonight I found out my sister is dying from a infection. Weve kind of know for awhile yet I still cant even talk to a girl. Even knowing that I should be living it up knowing that my sister cant. Its f*cking pathetic.

Sorry to hear about ur sister, but I don't think that has anything to do with ur ability to talk to girls. U say u have a hard time approaching them but not actually talking to them?

Yupp when I finally get the courage to approach a girl I never fail. I am actually pretty good looking. I just cant get myself to do it. It has been bothering me for 3 years. Its makes me absolutely miserable. Like tonight were all at the bar. My guy friends are all talking and enjoying themselves and I am just miserable. I dont want to small talk about bs. I just want to get over my stupid f*cking phobia. Its dtives me absolutely insane.
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#21 EagleEyedOne
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well this shit is depressing

lostrib
Or painfully truthful.
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#22 lostrib
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[QUOTE="lostrib"]

well this shit is depressing

EagleEyedOne

Or painfully truthful.

'

kind of sad

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#23 EagleEyedOne
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[QUOTE="EagleEyedOne"][QUOTE="lostrib"]

well this shit is depressing

lostrib

Or painfully truthful.

'

kind of sad

You have to pay to play.
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#24 lostrib
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[QUOTE="lostrib"]

[QUOTE="EagleEyedOne"] Or painfully truthful.EagleEyedOne

'

kind of sad

You have to pay to play.

no idea what that even means

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#25 EagleEyedOne
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[QUOTE="EagleEyedOne"][QUOTE="lostrib"]'

kind of sad

lostrib

You have to pay to play.

no idea what that even means

Nobody rides for free.
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#26 FelipeInside
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[QUOTE="Ugalde-"][QUOTE="FelipeInside"][QUOTE="Ugalde-"] No all male work place, I am actually very good at talking to girls when forced. I just cant get myself to approach them no matter how hard I try, Tonight I found out my sister is dying from a infection. Weve kind of know for awhile yet I still cant even talk to a girl. Even knowing that I should be living it up knowing that my sister cant. Its f*cking pathetic.

Sorry to hear about ur sister, but I don't think that has anything to do with ur ability to talk to girls. U say u have a hard time approaching them but not actually talking to them?

Yupp when I finally get the courage to approach a girl I never fail. I am actually pretty good looking. I just cant get myself to do it. It has been bothering me for 3 years. Its makes me absolutely miserable. Like tonight were all at the bar. My guy friends are all talking and enjoying themselves and I am just miserable. I dont want to small talk about bs. I just want to get over my stupid f*cking phobia. Its dtives me absolutely insane.

Ur probably just going thru a low state.
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#27 lostrib
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[QUOTE="lostrib"]

[QUOTE="EagleEyedOne"] You have to pay to play.EagleEyedOne

no idea what that even means

Nobody rides for free.

are you just stating random platitudes?

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#28 EagleEyedOne
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[QUOTE="EagleEyedOne"][QUOTE="lostrib"]

no idea what that even means

lostrib

Nobody rides for free.

are you just stating random platitudes?

Don't stop to think 'cause you know where I stand.
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#29 lostrib
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[QUOTE="lostrib"]

[QUOTE="EagleEyedOne"] Nobody rides for free.EagleEyedOne

are you just stating random platitudes?

Don't stop to think 'cause you know where I stand.

what?

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#30 konvikt_17
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haha pretty drunk as well.

yea i had originally planned to be eaither an auto-repairman, or a carpenter, or similar title.

instead of all that, i live with my parents and watch my niece, since her mother is in jail and her father is a deadbeat. have applied at nearby jobs, but no luck:(


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#31 Judas_
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Expected to be dead or a college dropout, so I guess I superseded my expectations................
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#32 Trail_Mix
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Yep, unfortunately.

Life ain't going to well for me right now, in more ways than one. Hopefully things will get better down the line, but I have my doubts.

 

 

Welp, dammit, I just made myself feel depressed.

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#34 EagleEyedOne
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I'm doin' the betht I can.

Iszdope

That is the worst thing you can say within a group of people. Especially among those who you are trying to impress.

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#37 EagleEyedOne
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[QUOTE="EagleEyedOne"]

[QUOTE="Iszdope"]

I'm doin' the betht I can.

Iszdope

That is the worst thing you can say within a group of people. Especially among those who you are trying to impress.

And then?

There is no then. That is what I am saying.
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#39 EagleEyedOne
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[QUOTE="EagleEyedOne"][QUOTE="Iszdope"]

And then?

Iszdope

There is no then. That is what I am saying.

Ok.  And then?

You have limited. There is no then.
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#40 lostrib
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[QUOTE="Iszdope"]

[QUOTE="EagleEyedOne"] There is no then. That is what I am saying.EagleEyedOne

Ok.  And then?

You have limited. There is no then.

limited what?

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#42 EagleEyedOne
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[QUOTE="EagleEyedOne"][QUOTE="Iszdope"]

Ok.  And then?

lostrib

You have limited. There is no then.

limited what?

Limited yourself.
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#43 xdude85
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I feel like shit at the moment.
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#44 Bigboss232
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yes I am a failure I am in pain think its authritus I am a loser. I am done just waiting...

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#45 EagleEyedOne
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I feel like shit at the moment.xdude85
Why do you feel like sh*t?
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yes I am a failure I am in pain think its authritus I am a loser. I am done just waiting...

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Waiting for what?
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At the age of 10 I expected to grow up very handsome and drive a stylish car and have all the girls try to flirt with me.

Well, neither of those happened and I grew up to be an average/below average looking person driving an average car.

Also, I didn't get accepted into the university I wanted to go either and ended up going to a college near home.. which caused me depression.

Well, nevertheless, im working on my medicine degree now and hopefully i'll get to have what I wanted in the future.. hopefully.

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#48 FelipeInside
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At the age of 10 I expected to grow up very handsome and drive a stylish car and have all the girls try to flirt with me.

Well, neither of those happened and I grew up to be an average/below average looking person driving an average car.

Also, I didn't get accepted into the university I wanted to go either and ended up going to a college near home.. which caused me depression.

Well, nevertheless, im working on my medicine degree now and hopefully i'll get to have what I wanted in the future.. hopefully.

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All those things are materialistic, they don't bring true happiness.
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#49 TehFuneral
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[QUOTE="TehFuneral"]

At the age of 10 I expected to grow up very handsome and drive a stylish car and have all the girls try to flirt with me.

Well, neither of those happened and I grew up to be an average/below average looking person driving an average car.

Also, I didn't get accepted into the university I wanted to go either and ended up going to a college near home.. which caused me depression.

Well, nevertheless, im working on my medicine degree now and hopefully i'll get to have what I wanted in the future.. hopefully.

FelipeInside

All those things are materialistic, they don't bring true happiness.

So be it, ever since I can remember all what I wanted to do is make money. I think it's part of my id. 

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No