do you have a low self esteem?

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#51 hormagaunt
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nope, its all good in the hood
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#52 deactivated-5967f36c08c33
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Used to,to a certain extent,but not anymore.
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#53 jimmy-fly
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yeah, a girl once said she liked me... and i just asked "...why?" not because i was looking for flattery, i just couldnt understand why

honestly im a wretch of a man, unambitious and unmotivated.

but in the long run, we'll be okay.. we'll find balance and get on the right trail

its gonna be okay my brother, its gonna be okay

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#54 -R3Vo
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Not really, no.
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#55 Video_Game_King
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Yes. Very, very low.
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#56 DivergeUnify
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Yes. Very, very low.Video_Game_King
As e've seen in a certain very long thread >.>
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#57 jimmy-fly
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Yes. Very, very low.Video_Game_King

your nick begs to differ :p

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#58 legend26
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To an extent. I'm pretty much ok with my low expectations of myself and my life, at this point.Wetall_basic
same
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#59 julian_jr
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I don't. I have a really high self esteem instead.
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#60 Cutekitten6_18
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Not really, im fine with me in most cases
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#61 _Celldweller_
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use to but now I have average
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#62 xSIZEMATTER
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Nope, But I use too a year ago tho.
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#63 N8A
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Yeah i think i have mid level esteem.
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#64 DivergeUnify
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It's gone down ever since a girl I like turned me down to go to the movies
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#65 bluezy
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No, i'm pretty happy with myself.
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#66 Vfanek
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Mine used to be really low, but it's slowly coming back up again now that I am finally dealing with issues I should have long agodouble_decker
Don't lie, it's coming back up because of 100k. Mine used to be pathetic, it is quite okay now.
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#67 CIoud_S
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If anything I'm an egotistical SOB.
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#68 LJS9502_basic
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No I do not.
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#69 uncledeath2005
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My self esteem swings incredibly....I really don't know why :(

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#70 clock_of_omens
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eh i dont know

its alright i guess

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#71 HALO2cookie
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Mine is dead.. Go to the gym.. Trust me.
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#72 joao_22990
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Used to. Now i couldn't care less.
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#73 Video_Game_King
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[QUOTE="Video_Game_King"]Yes. Very, very low.jimmy-fly

your nick begs to differ :p

Three things:

Kings inherit their thrones.
I made it in 2003 (but deserve it much more today).
You can't change your name.

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#74 Mehfuz
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i don't have any self esteem :P
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#75 donwoogie
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i do, i dont even think i have any self esteem at all :(

probably every thing i try hard at ends up sucking in the end

and ive been made fun of for everything about me since i was five

and my mom hates me

and most of the people at my school dont like me

and i think im the ugliest person in the world

and a lot of other things that i dont really want to talk about.

so how bout you people?

lukie_pie

Do you freak out in situations you find uncomfortable, or premtively worry about the worst case scenarios?

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#76 DivergeUnify
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No I do not.LJS9502_basic
Who would as a lvl 47 with a 52000 post count :o
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#77 SolidSnake35
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Depends. Sometimes I feel good about myself, sometimes I don't. Mood swings of a teenager. :P
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#78 DivergeUnify
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Depends. Sometimes I feel good about myself, sometimes I don't. Mood swings of a teenager. :PSolidSnake35
Pff, hormones are overrated :P
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#79 Whicker89
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no, I've learned to really value and love myself. I know I'm not perfect, I know I'm flawed, but who isn't? Pearl_of_Egypt
Short Answer, Me, Im Awesome.
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#80 iam2green
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i don't think so, sometimes i feel great.
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#81 Forerunner-117
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No, not anymore really. :|
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#82 Helloiseeu
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My self-esteem is almost at a zero. Since everyone in my school doesn't think I can do anything and all everyone who knows me tortures me. I have almost no self-esteem.
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#83 Blitz_Nemesis
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sounds like the TC needs a hug........not from me though:|
anyway my self-esteem used to be kinda low but now its gradually improving.

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#84 pygmahia5
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actually it is pretty low. like i have probs with my self esteem kinda like u.
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#85 flowerif
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I useded to have my self esteem so low it was visible...but now I'm awsome and run around the hall naked :P
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#86 zeppelin_64
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Well, I am a level 20.
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#87 FunkWeasel
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Yes, I have no self-esteem. Every day I get made fun of. Seniors are trying to find my adress so they can come vandalize my house and beat me up in front of my family. People at my school egg me on to just kill myself. My family makes fun of me for every little thing I do. I cannot talk to my parents about being bullied because they just laugh at me and say "it happens to everyone." The girl I like hates me because someone spread a hateful sexual rumor about her in my name. But worst of all, I want to fix this. I've always had the dream to become an ameteur boxer, ever since I was six years old. I want to believe in myself. I want to know that if I can stand in the ring, I can stand in real life, and nobody can knock me down emotionally, metally, or physically any more. I want to be proud of myself, for the first time in my life. But my parents say its stupid. They say I'm too weak. They say I could never be that great. So do the kids at school. That's why I dedicate every second of my life to proving them wrong, I'll sell my soul to the devil if I have to. I tell myself, in the end, I will win. Sometimes, you are your only friend. The key is to stay your friend, and not lose yourself in the midst of a negative environment. I hope everyone else posting also cures their self-esteem. Sorry for ranting, but this has been festering inside me for years now. I am in the process of writing a novel, but it feels good to let it all out now too.
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#88 lukie_pie
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[QUOTE="lukie_pie"]

i do, i dont even think i have any self esteem at all :(

probably every thing i try hard at ends up sucking in the end

and ive been made fun of for everything about me since i was five

and my mom hates me

and most of the people at my school dont like me

and i think im the ugliest person in the world

and a lot of other things that i dont really want to talk about.

so how bout you people?

donwoogie

Do you freak out in situations you find uncomfortable, or premtively worry about the worst case scenarios?

no im actually extremely optimistic about almost every situation, i just sometimes realize that my problems are bigger than most of my friends and they like shoving it in my face, and then i get really depressed and everything just gets worse from there.

but im normally always happy when im out with my friends doing stuff, just when im alone i think too much and i get really depressed

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#89 swizz-the-gamer
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I used too... I think I can probably attribute the drug use to that
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#90 camreeno360
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As a person I'd say no, but I'm just a little afraid to "get out of my shell" in a few situations, such as the beginning of a class with all new people, or going to major social gatherings full of people I don't know.
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#91 stormtrooper32
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My self esteem is pretty good but my parents manage to lower it a lot most of the time.
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#93 RabidChocobo1
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im 5'2" :(
srsly if i see someone near my height i have to ask my friends
"hey hey hey....am i taller than him? :D"
if i am then thats my ego boost for the day...but it rarely comes along
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#95 donwoogie
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[QUOTE="donwoogie"][QUOTE="lukie_pie"]

i do, i dont even think i have any self esteem at all :(

probably every thing i try hard at ends up sucking in the end

and ive been made fun of for everything about me since i was five

and my mom hates me

and most of the people at my school dont like me

and i think im the ugliest person in the world

and a lot of other things that i dont really want to talk about.

so how bout you people?

lukie_pie

Do you freak out in situations you find uncomfortable, or premtively worry about the worst case scenarios?

no im actually extremely optimistic about almost every situation, i just sometimes realize that my problems are bigger than most of my friends and they like shoving it in my face, and then i get really depressed and everything just gets worse from there.

but im normally always happy when im out with my friends doing stuff, just when im alone i think too much and i get really depressed

If you worry yourself and over think stuff over in your head, then it's probably anxiety problems. If that's true, then it it's mild issues, then you can probably just get rid of it by cutting out any sugar or amphetamines from your diet from a while and going to the gym regularly. It'll increase your wellbeing and stop you thinking crazy thoughts. If you are going into a depression, you should probably go see a doctor (or counsellor).

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#96 flowdee79
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Nope, I love myself. But if someone finds out I post on GS my self-esteem will hit Rock bottom.
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#97 Tolwan
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Considering i've been called a self-absorbed egotistical arrogant prick...i dont think i have the right nor the credibility to claim i have a low self esteem. I often picture myself in important positions in the future and hold to the fact that i will achieve them and no one will stop me.

As for looks, i recognize my faults and it only helps me gauge what i need to change in my lifestyle to improve. Doesnt mean i do make that change though, as i also happen to be a procrastinator (Amazingly enough, i have a 3.5 in college. Amazing what you can do at the last second).

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#98 foxhound_fox
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Yes, I have no self-esteem. Every day I get made fun of. Seniors are trying to find my adress so they can come vandalize my house and beat me up in front of my family. People at my school egg me on to just kill myself. My family makes fun of me for every little thing I do. I cannot talk to my parents about being bullied because they just laugh at me and say "it happens to everyone." The girl I like hates me because someone spread a hateful sexual rumor about her in my name. But worst of all, I want to fix this. I've always had the dream to become an ameteur boxer, ever since I was six years old. I want to believe in myself. I want to know that if I can stand in the ring, I can stand in real life, and nobody can knock me down emotionally, metally, or physically any more. I want to be proud of myself, for the first time in my life. But my parents say its stupid. They say I'm too weak. They say I could never be that great. So do the kids at school. That's why I dedicate every second of my life to proving them wrong, I'll sell my soul to the devil if I have to. I tell myself, in the end, I will win. Sometimes, you are your only friend. The key is to stay your friend, and not lose yourself in the midst of a negative environment. I hope everyone else posting also cures their self-esteem. Sorry for ranting, but this has been festering inside me for years now. I am in the process of writing a novel, but it feels good to let it all out now too. FunkWeasel

That is one of the most moving things I have ever read on these forums in the three years I have been here. Nuts to what people say about you, you are who you are and you are much stronger than any of them. They make fun of you and lower themselves below you. You have the strength and all you have to do is realize it.

You tell yourself all these things... you "believe in yourself"... you "dedicate your life to proving them wrong"... you tell yourself "you will win." You have huge self esteem, you try your hardest to show the ones who berate you that they are wrong and that is all that matters.
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#99 linkthewindow
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I've got a pretty good self-esteem, not great, but I have a decently outgoing personality.
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Its right there it should be...