Do you have the courage to take the first initiative if you like someone?

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#1 elproson
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If you like some body do you have the courage to perhaps kiss the other boy/girl first? Or tell the other person that you like him/her? initiative
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#2 SolidSnake35
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I've told someone that I like them, yes. It didn't get me far though.
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#3 slimdog363
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I've told someone that I like them, yes. It didn't get me far though.SolidSnake35

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#4 Legendaryscmt
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I did it, after a few months though, and I'm still with her. :)
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#5 DeeJayInphinity
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I missed out on a relationship by not expressing myself; the girl is now married and I got owned.
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#6 RED_REDie
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"initiative"... if you talk like that they'll think u'r an insecure nerd and... *DUMPED*... will happen. Besides blokes never ask girls first, it's like an unwritten law
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#7 SolidSnake35
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I did it, after a few months though, and I'm still with her. :)Legendaryscmt
Stop making me look bad. :cry:
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#8 Guiltfeeder566
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If i ever liked someone enoughto take the initiative. I never have though.
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#9 yian
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Pretty much all the dates I have had so started out with me asking them out. Inm fact, I don't think there is any other way to do it.
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#10 Legendaryscmt
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[QUOTE="Legendaryscmt"]I did it, after a few months though, and I'm still with her. :)SolidSnake35
Stop making me look bad. :cry:

I'm stuck to that woman, but you got the whole world of women in front of you.

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#11 Adam-G
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Are you like a 11 year old trying to hook up with a girl? Dude just be yourself, I do that and i get lots and lots lol.
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#12 quadraleap
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It depends...but not usually, unless I g3t overwhelming indications that the likelyhood of rejection would be minimal.

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#13 Blood-Scribe
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Yeah. I've done it plenty of times.
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#14 Doomlike_Mitc
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Unfortunately.... no... :(

I start saying words wrong when I am around them, my sentences are about as good as dog-poop.
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#15 Funkyhamster
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Are you like a 11 year old trying to hook up with a girl? Dude just be yourself, I do that and i get lots and lots lol.Adam-G

Yeah... unless you're a naturally annoying person or something, that is. :P

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#16 CheddarLimbo
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You have to roll for initiative to see who gets it...

Anyway, I knew this girl in high-school, and I screwed up, and kept my feelings for her secret until she was about to leave for college out of state. When I told her, she confessed she was into me too, and we were both so frustrated with ourselves for not doing anything about it for over a year.

I moved on, met other girls, etc. But she was always in the back of my mind, and I felt like I'd made a really big mistake. Two years later, I got a letter from her saying she was engaged. Even though I hadn't seen her for two years, I felt devastated.

After she graduated, she came back home, and I found out that she didn't marry that guy after all. I looked her up, and immediately started pursuing her. I realized there was no way in hell I was going to let her slip through my fingers again.

We dated, got engaged, and we've been married now for almost four years.

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#17 leeveeu
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Yes. I pretty much got any girl I ever wanted but this has caused me nothing but problems: girls don't trust someone like me :)
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#18 luke1889
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If I really like someone, I'll tell them so. I've done that three times so far. Not many, but hey. :P
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#19 Zerocrossings
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You have to roll for initiative to see who gets it...

Anyway, I knew this girl in high-school, and I screwed up, and kept my feelings for her secret until she was about to leave for college out of state. When I told her, she confessed she was into me too, and we were both so frustrated with ourselves for not doing anything about it for over a year.

I moved on, met other girls, etc. But she was always in the back of my mind, and I felt like I'd made a really big mistake. Two years later, I got a letter from her saying she was engaged. Even though I hadn't seen her for two years, I felt devastated.

After she graduated, she came back home, and I found out that she didn't marry that guy after all. I looked her up, and immediately started pursuing her. I realized there was no way in hell I was going to let her slip through my fingers again.

We dated, got engaged, and we've been married now for almost four years.

CheddarLimbo

Thats quite a story. I hope i myself wont end up like that, as i lack confidence.

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#20 elproson
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I have a girlfriend and I started to say that I liked her. She said the same to me and after a while it all just happened by it self.
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#21 VinnoT
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I missed out on a relationship by not expressing myself; the girl is now married and I got owned.DeeJayInphinity

Im sorry. But I LOL'd at that :(

But really, I dont do it...and I really should. I think its natures way of making sure all the nice girls dont get swamped by loads of men, only the most confident will succeed lol.

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#22 Mercury88
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Yep I have asked plenty of girls out, I would recomend telling them you like them before kissing them though....
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#23 megagene
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I'd say it's about 50/50. Sometimes I do the asking out and sometimesthe girldoes. I'm not shy with that sort of thing though...You just need to exude confidence.
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#24 elproson
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Do you think it should be the boy or the girl that do the first sign that you wan't to be more than just friends?
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#25 whos_next000
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I've told someone that I like them, yes. It didn't get me far though.SolidSnake35
Yup.
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#26 Serial-No_3404
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i did....and itll be our 5 months in a week
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#27 elproson
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I missed out on a relationship by not expressing myself; the girl is now married and I got owned.DeeJayInphinity

hahaha that is just so funny!

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#28 deactivated-583e5f64e0a7e
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I wouldn't get in a permanent relationship if I didn't.
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#29 LOLhahaDEAD
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Not really.