Wait, why am I feeding the trolls?
gamerguru100
Don't worry man, these guys are idiots. Yes, in fact, I use to feel the same way. I have a friend who, right now (we are in college now btw) feels the same way. It comes to a point where your bad social skills give way to disinterest in others. This is a double whammy, because at first your just bad at making friends. But then, your disinterst in others actually makes others think you are aganist them in some way, or you do not like their company, so you grow even more distant. I just want to tell you that it is not unusual what you are feeling, but neither should you settle on the status quo. My friend, he got really social as soon as he started college, but then fell into his old habits again. Try your best to strike up a friendship. Smile a lot (don't be weird, just be pleasant). Maybe get to know one person or so, and if you get invited to a movie night, you might meet the rest of his or her friends. Just don't give up, try to be social, try to TALK (I had serious issues with this, because I always though ppl judged me or were laughing at me, etc, but try to get such thoughts out of your head). Most importantly, don't think your the only guy on earth who faces this issue. Many ppl do, and its sad, because all they need is to let in just one good friend and they will find many. Have a church group? It is best to start there. Have some other group, a club maybe, or a sport? Make a friend there. Do whatever, try to strike up a conversation. Maybe you'll never be the center of attention. But you don't have to feel left out; and it will make school that much more bearable, and even fun!
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