If you're checking people out in a club, then sure, physical appearance counts for a lot...but that's less of a "dating" situation and more of a "random hook-up" kind of thing. If you're looking for an actual date - someone to spend time with regularly on both intimate and non-intimate occasions - then you'd have to be pretty shallow to drop someone with a great personality for someone with a great pair of breasts. Also, do you seriously believe the myth that most women ignore nice guys purely because hotter guys are around? If so, it sounds like your knowledge of womankind is based entirely off things you read on the internet, rather than observations made from actually talking to women.Planeforger
Not sure if your being serious or just trying to convince yourself that people don't take looks strongly into account. How many people have cheated on their mates with great personalities. Most women and men would cheat on their mates if a much better looking person gave them the time of day. I talk to women all the time with boyfriends and husbands. They live with them sometimes but they come up with what ever excuse they need to justify their actions. Usually it is
1. I never did this before
2. He cheated on me
3. He does not pay attention to me
4. He is a push over
5. Nice guy but he is not much in bed
6. He is not working
7. He is vebally abusive
8. He is not really my man lol
9. He is stable but boring
10. The truth your much better looking
This is the real world. It sucks but there it is looks matter to women and men. It is the rare person that does not care what you look like (fat/ugly/broke/short ect).
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