Does it annoy anybody else when people flake out on you?

You know what, it ANNOYS me. So yesterday a girl I know from school decides to randomply post on my wall saying we should kick it sometime. I say yeah and she asks what my schedule is like this weekend. So I invited her to go to a festival downtown. Anyways thats all cool and dandy she was sounding enthusiatic and so was I. so yesterday I contacted her with the details about when it started and she hasn't responded. This was yesterday at around 3 PM that I sent her the info, and its almost 6 PM today and no word from her. First thing is first, she initiated plans with me.

The thing is tomorrow and I still have no word on whether we're meeting or not. So as I was pondering why she hadn't bothered to shoot a simple message letting me know if we were on, I came upon a revelation that she's just trying to get attention. OR she and her friends are in on some big conspiracy against me and this was nothing more than a ploy fufilled by people in self denial swimming in a sea of red. See I am enlightened, so this wont trick me

And once I experience another revelation, I will act accordingly to seek out revenge. Anyways does it annoy you when people flake out?

I would tell them to go flake themselves.

No. I just think "Thank God. Now I don't have to pretend to like them."cd_rom

Only flakes I like are frosted.

Unreliable people get on my nerves.

When I really want to spend time with someone, yes, it bothers me when they flake.

Never been flake(d)? :?

Happens all the time:P

Never been flake(d)? :?

T_REX305

No, it relieves me, because it saves me the trouble of flaking on themxaos

No. I just think "Thank God. Now I don't have to pretend to like them."cd_rom

She tells you that she wants to "kick it" sometime and then you are surprised she flakes out?

No. I just think "Thank God. Now I don't have to pretend to like them."cd_rom

naw i don't care.

yup

Pisses me off to no end.
If you don't wanna do something, be honest and say "I don't wanna do this"
Sheesh, people these days. >.>

When we make mutual plans in advance, you've been given ample time to prepare (shower, change, get together funds for random expenses), and I use my vehicle with which I pay maintenance, insurance, and gas; to come and pick you up, only to find out you're sleeping or not home, you're damn right it annoys me. It flat out gets under my skin. I have a friend who does that all of the time. And he usually won't respond to phone calls or texts until several hours later. Then I'm the **** because I don't feel like wasting the time or effort to attempt once more plans that were set in motion several hours before.

It has happened to me so often that I really don't hype any upcoming events in my life.bbkkristian

Yeah girls do that, annoying. A friend asked me to go out somewhere with her, then the day came and as I was about to leave she text me telling me she couldn't make it. So I still went out anyway, and guess what, I saw her with another friend, yeah, never talked to her after that. So what I'm trying to say is, maybe she had nothing to do when she asked you but now she has something 'better' to do. Never heard of the term 'flake out on you' though.

You know what, it ANNOYS me. So yesterday a girl I know from school decides to randomply post on my wall saying we should kick it sometime. I say yeah and she asks what my schedule is like this weekend. So I invited her to go to a festival downtown. Anyways thats all cool and dandy she was sounding enthusiatic and so was I. so yesterday I contacted her with the details about when it started and she hasn't responded. This was yesterday at around 3 PM that I sent her the info, and its almost 6 PM today and no word from her. First thing is first, she initiated plans with me.

The thing is tomorrow and I still have no word on whether we're meeting or not. So as I was pondering why she hadn't bothered to shoot a simple message letting me know if we were on, I came upon a revelation that she's just trying to get attention. OR she and her friends are in on some big conspiracy against me and this was nothing more than a ploy fufilled by people in self denial swimming in a sea of red. See I am enlightened, so this wont trick me

And once I experience another revelation, I will act accordingly to seek out revenge. Anyways does it annoy you when people flake out?

FrenchDynasty

it happened to me today, we were supposed to go film a movie for youtube, but the guy who we needed to play the part decided he wanted to go to a cannabis festival downtown too.... hmm... do you live in vancouver?hadoken

it annoys me so much, just it shows they really dont care about you, and its very rude

Nah, they go into the ignore list. Just ignore her.