Does your girlfriend say "I love you" back EVERYTIME you say it?

OT, does your girlfriend say "I love you too" or "I love you" back to you everytime you say it? I'm just wondering if it's normal or not if a girl doesn't, even thuogh she does on occasion.

barely ever...all my gf does is smile and blush a bit.

How often do you say it to her? Maybe just too much?

barely ever...all my gf does is smile and blush a bit.

How often do you say it to her? Maybe just too much?

Aft3rBurn3r

Maybe she only loves you on occasion?Jazz_Fan

Then that isn't love.

Then that isn't love.th3warr1or

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barely ever...all my gf does is smile and blush a bit.

How often do you say it to her? Maybe just too much?

th3warr1or

[QUOTE="th3warr1or"]Then that isn't love.Jazz_Fan

You don't stop loving a person randomly though. If you actually LOVE someone, you don't wake up tomorrow and don't love that same person for no reason. th3warr1or

[QUOTE="th3warr1or"]You don't stop loving a person randomly though. If you actually LOVE someone, you don't wake up tomorrow and don't love that same person for no reason. Jazz_Fan

Loving and being happy with are two different things. You might not be happy with someone/thing but loving them enables you to talk about it and get past it. I bet you keep on loving your dog...even after it pees on the carpet or whatever :P

You'd do better to show her you love her instead of saying it every day. It really gets annoying to some people and it could be seen as you being insecure.

If I love someone, I don't need to tell them everyday and if I do, that's a problem. It may seem cliche, but in this case action does speak louder than words.

You'd do better to show her you love her instead of saying it every day. It really gets annoying to some people and it could be seen as you being insecure.

If I love someone, I don't need to tell them everyday and if I do, that's a problem. It may seem cliche, but in this case action does speak louder than words.

heretrix

[QUOTE="Jazz_Fan"][QUOTE="th3warr1or"]Then that isn't love.th3warr1or

You'd do better to show her you love her instead of saying it every day. It really gets annoying to some people and it could be seen as you being insecure.

If I love someone, I don't need to tell them everyday and if I do, that's a problem. It may seem cliche, but in this case action does speak louder than words.

have you checked your sarcasm detector lately?Sword-Demon

Next time shes away from you do something for her. I make my girlfriend little powerpoints now and then to make her smile and know I'm thinking about her while she's away. I'd just stay away from 'I Love You' every single day. I'm sure she knows that you do. And don't worry if she doesn't say it back, you should already know if she truly does.Aft3rBurn3r

Is this advice strictly for newer relationships?

[QUOTE="Aft3rBurn3r"] Next time shes away from you do something for her. I make my girlfriend little powerpoints now and then to make her smile and know I'm thinking about her while she's away. I'd just stay away from 'I Love You' every single day. I'm sure she knows that you do. And don't worry if she doesn't say it back, you should already know if she truly does.binpink

Is this advice strictly for newer relationships?

[QUOTE="heretrix"]

You'd do better to show her you love her instead of saying it every day. It really gets annoying to some people and it could be seen as you being insecure.

If I love someone, I don't need to tell them everyday and if I do, that's a problem. It may seem cliche, but in this case action does speak louder than words.

th3warr1or

Then again, there are times when it doesn't matter what you do, it's all for nothing because the love just isn't there. In those situations you have to know when to let go. It doesn't matter what you do, if a person doesn't care for you, you are just wasting your time. Being clingy is just going to make it worse.

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[QUOTE="Aft3rBurn3r"] Next time shes away from you do something for her. I make my girlfriend little powerpoints now and then to make her smile and know I'm thinking about her while she's away. I'd just stay away from 'I Love You' every single day. I'm sure she knows that you do. And don't worry if she doesn't say it back, you should already know if she truly does.Aft3rBurn3r

Is this advice strictly for newer relationships?

Hmmm I guess newer would mean less than a year. But the second half of what you just said is probably the jist of it- not all relationships are the same and it's as simple as that.

Hmmm I guess newer would mean less than a year. But the second half of what you just said is probably the jist of it- not all relationships are the same and it's as simple as that.

binpink

i will have to have been with the girl for awhile before i say it. too many people start saying "i love you" right after they first get together, and it's stupid cause do they really love them? probably not.

yes she does and most of the time says i love you more :_)

Yea most of the time. I follow it up with if you love me go make me some damn food!

I dunno, I never said it... I think she understood I'm not one of those feelings guys and actions speak louder than words.

She's always the first to say it...

Everytime. Altho we're just 17 and been going out for a year.

youre saying "i love you" too much TC. shes getting annoyed

she used to say that very often or everytime i say i love you. but now she rarely say that. everytime i say i love you she just reply "thanks"

Why don't you show her that you love her instead? Give her like a hug or a kiss once in awhile.

We don't often sling around 'I Love Yous', that was more of a late teen phenomenon. If I'm feeling corny and say it, she'll typically Han Solo me.

I haven't said it to a girl yet.

every time :D

My wife is usually the first to say it, but if I say it she always says "I love you too"

If I had one, she probably would.

Just guessin'.

If I'm feeling corny and say it, she'll typically Han Solo me.

dhyce

unless she's performing fellatio, yes.

she says it to me all the time I do anything remotely nice... I don't say it back because if I do, she'll tackle me and I hate hugs and affection.

she'll tackle me and I hate hugs and affection.

AtlanticRock

What's that mean? th3warr1or

She'll say "I know" or something similar. "Why wouldn't you? I'm lovable. I love me."

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she'll tackle me and I hate hugs and affection.

th3warr1or

it's annoying, especially she'll try to do such things when I'm watching a movie or playing games and I try to brush her off gently - but then it turns into an argument about how I don't accept her love blah blah blah

[QUOTE="th3warr1or"][QUOTE="AtlanticRock"]

she'll tackle me and I hate hugs and affection.

AtlanticRock

it's annoying, especially she'll try to do such things when I'm watching a movie or playing games and I try to brush her off gently - but then it turns into an argument about how I don't accept her love blah blah blah

the recent movie I was watching was Under The Red Hood, and I'm a comic freak so I'm trying to see if the movie stays true to the books and what changes were made. She's all up on me talking and asking me questions... long story short I had to watch the movie again on wednesday like 4am while she was sleeping to enjoy it. I can take any other movie with her but when it comes to anime or comedies, she's terrible to watch with.