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#1 Serraph105
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should i do it hard and fast like a bandaide should i do in a gentle matter? idk i really like her and all but when its over its over and thats how it is. oh and its going to hurt her way more than it does me no matter which way you slice it.

Edit so new question and the rest of the information my girlfriend is pregnant and its not mine however she did not cheat on me because she is three months pregnant and ive only known her for 2 so the question is am i a bad person for leaving her?

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#2 gameroz
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why do you want to break up with this girl ?
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#3 -Sluggo-
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Call her names with plenty of profanity included, over text messaging.
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#4 flordeceres
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Write a note saying that you don't like her, put it in a box with a cookie.

That will make her both sad and happy.

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#5 Serraph105
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why do you want to break up with this girl ?gameroz

i dont really want too but certain things have come up that have nothing to do with my actions and its over but neither of us have admitted it yet

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#6 Sajedene
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Depends on the type of girl. Some you do fast and others you need to console for a bit and do it gently.
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#7 xlil-starx
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be honest..best way...not to nasty tho lol

My ex was a **** about it when we split up so i smashed his car up!!

i duno how old u r so u might not have that problem!

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#8 gameroz
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[QUOTE="gameroz"]why do you want to break up with this girl ?Serraph105

i dont really want too but certain things have come up that have nothing to do with my actions and its over but neither of us have admitted it yet

well tell her that it's over then
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#9 fallconet
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during a sex,..tell her u don't like her anymore
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#10 InsultToInjury_
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Really think through why you want to break up with her. Nothing is worse than going through a break up to have the person who rejected you to come crawling back. Also do it to her face, over the phone, via text, online etc is the worst thing you could ever do to her, breaking up is one thing but adding insult to injury is nasty. This is coming from personal experience and its not at all nice. Am I bitter much!?....of course not...
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#11 zeppelin_64
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Just say, "we both know this has been coming for a while. It's over sista."
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#12 deactivated-5e0e425ee91d8
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there is no right way...it depends on the girl
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#13 Serraph105
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be honest..best way...not to nasty tho lol

My ex was a **** about it when we split up so i smashed his car up!!

i duno how old u r so u might not have that problem!

xlil-starx

ok and im 21 btw so yeah might have that problem anyways honesty sounds right

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#15 dreamdude
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Just say, "we both know this has been coming for a while. It's over sista."zeppelin_64

Then snap yo fingas and walk away!

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#16 Bloodbath_87
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Good luck...all of my relationships have ended by the girl breaking up with me. When I wanted it to end, I just couldn't bring myself to say it.
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#17 Blitz_Nemesis
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well first off have sex with her the day before cause who knows the next time you'll get any. if you have any intent of still having a cool type of relationship with this girl afterwards id suggest you do it nice and easy, otherwise just drop the girl and move on.
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#18 zeppelin_64
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[QUOTE="zeppelin_64"]Just say, "we both know this has been coming for a while. It's over sista."dreamdude

Then snap yo fingas and walk away!

Don't forget to put yo hands right up to her face and say talk to the hand! Pshaw!
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#20 zombieman666
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Falcon Punch it always helps
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#21 Berzz
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Talk to her.
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#22 esb1118
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Depends on the type of girl. Some you do fast and others you need to console for a bit and do it gently.Sajedene
This post turns me on so much.

Please go in to further details

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#23 Zaeryn
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Tell her that you don't feel the same about her anymore than you used to. Easy...
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#24 Mr_ToastMan
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Buy her something nice like a ring or necklace and tell her its really special, next time she fall's asleep steal it from her, then when she tells you she cant find it get super mad say your never gonna talk to her again and leave. Just make sure the store will let you return the gift.

this way she looks like the bad one not you.

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#25 Serraph105
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have sex with her and when its over just say "yah... thats just not doing it for me anymore, i'm bored of you.. its been fun tho" .. she slaps you and walks away... " hey umm.. can u make me a sandwich before you go tho? super... "

^ thats a joke.. dont do it, IMO just sit her down and calmly and nicely say " we both know things havnt been working out between us too well these last few ( insert months / weeeks here ) and i think itd be best for both of us if we were just good friends" that should work.

EDIT : if all else fails.. FALCON PUNCH

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i like that part but ill say we can always be friends

just to be more specific

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#27 Gh0st_Of_0nyx
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Do it over myspace
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#29 Andrn
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Are you sure she's actually pregnant? Maybe she knows that you want to end it and she's trying to stop you...

It's really your call on whether to leave her or not, but just think about how much your life would change if your father wasn't there at all.

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#30 Serraph105
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Are you sure she's actually pregnant? Maybe she knows that you want to end it and she's trying to stop you...

It's really your call on whether to leave her or not, but just think about how much your life would change if your father wasn't there at all.

Andrn

well if shes not I'll be leaving her for lying to me about it and i will feel no remorse but I'm pretty sure

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#31 lolwaffles
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you should go to her, tell her you dont like her...

D: the boring way always works

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#32 Bloodbath_87
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Ok...wow, you should have said that to start with. DO NOT LEAVE HER...
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#33 Andrn
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[QUOTE="Andrn"]

Are you sure she's actually pregnant? Maybe she knows that you want to end it and she's trying to stop you...

It's really your call on whether to leave her or not, but just think about how much your life would change if your father wasn't there at all.

Serraph105

well if shes not I'll be leaving her for lying to me about it and i will feel no remorse but I'm pretty sure

Then I'd advise to wait for the "ultrasound" (if it's even happening) and then take the call from there.

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#34 markop2003
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Stay with her but as a friend, she will need support so at least be there for her

Have to know a few things first, have you told her you love her? Have you slept with her? Do you think she'll cope with a child by herself? Has she got family to support her?

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#35 Serraph105
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Stay with her but as a friend, she will need support so at least be there for her

Have to know a few things first, have you told her you love her? Have you slept with her? Do you think she'll cope with a child by herself? Has she got family to support her?

markop2003
i like that first bit so ill do that most likely and to answer your questions yes yes but she is 3 months and we had sex for the first time 2 weeks ago and we used protection so its not mine, i dont know how she will cope and yes she has family
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#36 Serraph105
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umm so anybody else have oppinions?