More than once. I feel like crap during those times.
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"]Not really NO...seems to be an 'ability' I lack -adaptive childhood development FTW (or FTL, depending on your POV) _Ben99_you could teach some kids in here then, Mr. former teacher Don't think many would want this lesson... -will great pain comes great pleasure...w/out great pain...well you get the picture
Never been in a relationship that i know off. Hopeful way one day. Its difficult when girls cant understand a word you say. And you need you big tall 6 feet something friend that is sorta rich all girls like to translate for you.
Noes is the easy answer. I hope I never do either.
I've not lived a life that resembles anything slightly normal so the break ups i've had in the past are probably not in the same light as the breakup of those who are making for life and seeing eye to eye with eachotheron a daily basis.
Can't say I have; disappointment and frustration sure, but never heartbreak. Of course, never having been in a relationship probably helps.D_BatteryHehe I notice a pattern in your replies. This needs to be sorted out! Do you live in the UK? I'll lend you my girlfriend for a few days, after that she will dump you and you'll have plenty to talk about!
Not really, but it does take a lot of work. No matter what fairy tale we'd like to believe. After 10 years my wife and I try to go over things the other does that we don't like/appreciate every 6 months or so. For what it's worth.Yeah, it sucks. But hey, if the world didn't suck we would all fall off.
Over long relationships the chance of a break down is practically inevitable.
UltimoIce
I have twice. My first girlfriend realized she was bisexual and left me for her best friend, who had shared more negative life experiences and could relate to her more. My second girlfriend left me a few months after I left for university, she realized that the distance relationship wasn't working for her. I hold no regrets though, overall I feel that the total hapiness I gained from the relationships was greater than the pain of the breakups. Experiencing heartbreak is definately not fun though.
That first one is insane, mate. I mean... holy crap! You could have at least got a threesome out of it by the end, but man... I don't know what I'd do if my girl left my for her best friend. I am truly sorry for you. :(I have twice. My first girlfriend realized she was bisexual and left me for her best friend, who had shared more negative life experiences and could relate to her more. My second girlfriend left me a few months after I left for university, she realized that the distance relationship wasn't working for her. I hold no regrets though, overall I feel that the total hapiness I gained from the relationships was greater than the pain of the breakups. Experiencing heartbreak is definately not fun though.
NoQuarterGiven
Oh, have I ever.
Relationship-wise, only one girl has truly broken my heart. We were together for a year and sure shared something special. Nobad emotionscould really compare to what I felt that day.
To cope with it, I kind of went all out and did all kinds of crazy things. And hey! It worked! But I sure lived at the edge :b
Now I'm happy as ever. And I must admit, I've found a gal that peaks my interest. Havent felt anything like it since my other girl left me, a year ago. Well, I've been in two other relationships since she did that. And I got a feeling I'm about to enter my third.
..third since my true love (or so i thought at the time :b) left me, that is. Not all in all.
no im not mentally weakwii60_3
Being heartbroken just means you have feelings, not that you are mentally weak.
Same here.You have to experience love to experience heartbreak, and I am a very lonely person.
MetroidPrimePwn
I'm tired of people **** how they are upset that their girlfriend broke up with them or something. At least they had someone who loved them for a while. I have nobody and it makes me depressed all day.
I've had this feeling many a time. It's necessary for us to grow as people. But man it sucks more than anything else in the world. We get through it though.
Nope. You have to form a connection to another human being to go through that and I was born without that particular gene.
I went through a really bad breakup that sent me over the edge. In the end I grew up :)
As much as I miss it I realized there was no use obsessing over what once was. Sure I was the happiest I've been all my life, but the whole relationship was a physical manifestation of the final months of my carefree, youthful high school life. We started dating halfway through my senior year of high school, went a few months leading an incredibly fun, incredibly passionate and quite amazing relationship, then after the summer was over I moved about 30 miles away, was starting college, and life in general was changing a great deal. We fought a lot, broke up, I made some bad decisions, and threw away over a year of my life obsessing over losing her and everything we had. It was only a few months ago I just woke up one day and no longer cared. I had accepted that life isn't like it was in my senior year; it sucks and sucky stuff will always happen. Once I learned to live more independently I was able to go five minutes without feeling regret or remorse.
Breakups can do that to you. Sure they suck, but you really come out stronger in the end.
I didn't mean for this to be so long but I guess I had a lot to say lol.
cdav89
i am sorry? i was not listening?
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