Ever Had Your Feelings Hurt For Trying To Help Someone Out?

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#51 Tauruslink
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Yeah, once a couple of us kids went on a school fieldtrip and a few things happened that basically left one of my friends (well friend/acquaintance I don't know exactly what to call her) on the side on the verge of tears. I tried to do the whole comforting thing by putting my arm around her and trying to cheer her up. She pushed me away and rudely told me to leave her alone. I get she was upset, but damn I was only trying to help.
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#52 Dystopian-X
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Hah the day I get my e-feelings hurt over something said on this forum is the day I quit.

Not saying anyone who does is a major pansy who needs some serious perspective in life or anything! :P:P:P

Joke's on them, 'cause they're not going to heaven.

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Suck on this.

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Free pass to heaven b***s. 8)

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#53 jediknight52501
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[QUOTE="jediknight52501"]i try to be as nice as i can to everyone and yet there will always be jerks out there to hurt us. makes me sad some people have no hearts at all.cybrcatter

Joke's on them, 'cause they're not going to heaven.

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best thing i have heard all day.
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#54 TheNewEraIcon
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I held the door open once, and this woman slammed it shut on my hand really hard. It didn't hurt my feelings but it was more of a WTF, I was being a gentleman holding the door and this woman totally grabs the door and totally just slams it as hard as she can, lady what the hell I was trying to hold the door for you! I was pretty pissed to say the least...

Also when I used to be with my Ex, and she was upset I went out of my way to be there for her and she acted like she didn't even care, I'm doing all this stuff to offer to help her out and putting this huge effort in to be there and she just acts like its nothing. I'm not saying she owes me anything, was happy to be there for her but some gesture of appreciation would have been nice such a small thank you, it takes 2 seconds. Something to make you feel loved lol :P

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#55 Vesica_Prime
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Lots of times, it just made me not care anymore.

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#56 jediknight52501
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i think i am only going to help those that really matter to me, like Family.
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#57 NCsmallCHILDS
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I'm bigger than everyone i nkow, and quite scary from the reactions and comments.

forever alone but lovin it

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#58 Dariency
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i think i am only going to help those that really matter to me, like Family.jediknight52501

They can hurt your feelings too. I tried to be there for my family once, and they just pushed me away. They didn't need, or want, my help.

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#59 jediknight52501
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[QUOTE="jediknight52501"]i think i am only going to help those that really matter to me, like Family.dog64

They can hurt your feelings too. I tried to be there for my family once, and they just pushed me away. They didn't need, or want, my help.

i have been there as well. at least i was willing to forgive my Family.
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#60 ThePerro
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[QUOTE="ThePerro"]

Not really trying to help someone out, but last week I started my first session of class, and went to sit down. I usually don't care where I sit so I sat in between these two girls. At the end of class, The girl sitting to the right of me asked "Can I ask you something? Why did you decide to sit here? I mean it seems kind of scrunched up". She said it all smiley as if not to sound like a **** although I'm pretty sure that's what she was trying to convey. Point is, it's a small class, so she pretty much called me out in front of the whole class, I'm sure the other five people in class heard. I guess I can understand, but really what a **** move.

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you should have said: "why so i could sit between you too babes duh!"



Actually, I was about to say to her, "So I could sit next to this lovely lady --and you".

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#61 BrutalPlayer666
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i try to be as nice as i can to everyone and yet there will always be jerks out there to hurt us. makes me sad some people have no hearts at all.jediknight52501
there's always somebody trying yo make you fell bad because thay don't feel good about themselves. I just try to forget about it. you know you're doing the right thing, but sometimes the guy is a simple jerk, so just forget it, and care for your real friends, those who will always be there to help out.
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#62 sonofsmeagle
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Well there was this time this hot girl who had just had her grandmother die, she needed a shoulder to cry on and talk to so i was there,

and then soon we had sex.

What really hurt my feelings was that it only went for 40minutes :(

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#63 jediknight52501
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[QUOTE="jediknight52501"]i try to be as nice as i can to everyone and yet there will always be jerks out there to hurt us. makes me sad some people have no hearts at all.BrutalPlayer666
there's always somebody trying yo make you fell bad because thay don't feel good about themselves. I just try to forget about it. you know you're doing the right thing, but sometimes the guy is a simple jerk, so just forget it, and care for your real friends, those who will always be there to help out.

i am always thankfful for the ones who are willing to help me.
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#64 Cheesehead9099
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Alll the time. It really used to piss me off.

So now I just sit back and watch when someone is in trouble (unless they ask for my help)

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#65 jediknight52501
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sorry to hear about all of you that have been in the same situation as me.
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#66 -Big_Red-
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Actually this hasn't happened to me:|.
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#67 deactivated-6016e81e8e30f
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Yes, about 80% of the time I decide to help someone with something. But the genuine appreciation of the other 20% more than makes up for it, so I persist.
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#68 Mr_Alexander
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Not me, but I heard of recently (2010) when a child was drowning at a beach, a guy swam to him and saved him, then called an ambulance since he was in a bad condition, then the kid's parents send the savior the bill for the ambulance. Some people are utterly shameless
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#69 jediknight52501
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some people are shameless. others are just rude,
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#70 SAVE_US_KYJ
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I'm not trying to be a d**k or anything because from what some people have said on here they did actually have legitmate real life problems where they're right to feel hard done by, but seriously some people getting all emotional over idiots on the internet trying to "hurt your feelings", grow up and get some perspective.

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#71 jediknight52501
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i am at a loss for words right now.
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i am at a loss for words right now.jediknight52501
Apparently, since it took two days for you to come up with that much :)
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#73 cybrcatter
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God I love that signature.
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#74 Krigen89
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Pretty much everyday I go to work.. I'm an ER nurse, I get told off once every 2-3 hours over there... or yelled at.. or puked on... I don't really like my job anymore! Outside of work, it's happened a few times.. once I was driving late at niht (probably coming back from work, not sure) and I saw a car hit the cement wall in the middle of the highway and then go left/right to the other side of the road... and eventually come to a stop about 3-4 minutes later. I called the cops (thinking the person had a heart attack or some other problem), and then was able to stop not too far and come back to check out if the person needed help... the old crazy woman started yelling at me for calling the cops because she had "only" fallen asleep, and the SUV she was driving was her ex-husband's truck.. they were in the middle of a divorce fight... I turned around and left after she yelled all this, let her there to wait for the cops and fix her ****.
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#75 cybrcatter
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[QUOTE="Krigen89"]Pretty much everyday I go to work.. I'm an ER nurse, I get told off once every 2-3 hours over there... or yelled at.. or puked on... I don't really like my job anymore!

F**** that job. I don't care how much you pay me, I'd never do that. My bother is graduating with a nursing degree after this semester, and along the way he's been keeping me up to date with clinical stories. Do not want.
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#76 Darthkaiser
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Happens lots of times I'm the guy you call when you have an issue on school or when you need some help with anything. I like to help people, I don't really expect anything in return and I never ever ask for help from other people but sometimeswhen I do need even a little help, hurts that the same people I helped don't give a s****.
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#77 jediknight52501
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[QUOTE="jediknight52501"]i am at a loss for words right now.xaos
Apparently, since it took two days for you to come up with that much :)

i have other more important things to worry about. i do other things beside post here. i do work for a living or i would not be able to get on the internet.
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#78 194197844077667059316682358889
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[QUOTE="xaos"][QUOTE="jediknight52501"]i am at a loss for words right now.jediknight52501
Apparently, since it took two days for you to come up with that much :)

i have other more important things to worry about. i do other things beside post here. i do work for a living or i would not be able to get on the internet.

I'm having some difficulty reconciling this post with the post that kicked off this thread. Regardless, you should totally find a job where you can post at work; tis fun!
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#79 jediknight52501
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[QUOTE="jediknight52501"][QUOTE="xaos"] Apparently, since it took two days for you to come up with that much :)xaos
i have other more important things to worry about. i do other things beside post here. i do work for a living or i would not be able to get on the internet.

I'm having some difficulty reconciling this post with the post that kicked off this thread. Regardless, you should totally find a job where you can post at work; tis fun!

i would rather post at home, don't need bosses yelling at me for not doing my job.
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#80 darkfox101
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Internet drama is srs bisnis.
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#81 jediknight52501
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i just wanted to others opinions and that happened, this thread needs to be closed now.