Fallen in love with f buddy, what do i do?

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#1 IAMTHEJOKER88
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We're students and live together. We are also best friends.

She broke up with her bf (because she couldn't stop thinking about me, apparently) about 6 months ago, and since then we've been 'friends with benefits'.

I've now fallen in love with her. I told her how i felt, but she said she only saw me as a friend. Though she said she was jealous when i had a threesome a few days ago.

She asked me to stay with her for two weeks in the holiday break.

I told her how i felt last night, but she said she only saw me as a friend, and then started talking about some other guy.

I feel a bit depressed. My 'friends' have been a bit nasty. I just don't get how you can be such great friends with someone, want to have sex with them, but don't want to start seeing them...

probably because the dating scene is more exciting... I don't know.

OT any thoughts? How am i meant to get over someone like this who i am contracted to live with for another year and a half.

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#3 Flubbbs
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keep knockin boots with her!

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#4 Jackc8
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If someone who just had a threesome the other day asked me if I wanted to have a relationship with them, I think I know what my answer would be.

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#5 limpbizkit818
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Threesomes and friends with benefits seem to happen far more often to people on the internet than to those I have met in real life. Wonder why......
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#6 Vogyn
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If someone who just had a threesome the other day asked me if I wanted to have a relationship with them, I think I know what my answer would be.

Jackc8
Exactly. If she had ANY indications of having little feelings for you, they were thrown out the window the second you had a threesome. Don't even try.
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#7 AussieePet
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Go have another threesomehummer700
Mostly this
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#8 AtlanticRock
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Get her pregnant, then you'll stop loving her.

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#9 turaaggeli
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Threesomes and friends with benefits seem to happen far more often to people on the internet than to those I have met in real life. Wonder why......limpbizkit818
Bingo!
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#10 IAMTHEJOKER88
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the threesome thing was just a couple of friends on my course...

she doesn't think any worse for me for it. shes done some one night stands too...

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#11 AussieePet
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Get her pregnant, then you'll stop loving her.

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Why would it make him stop loving her? lol
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#12 FMAB_GTO
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[QUOTE="AtlanticRock"]

Get her pregnant, then you'll stop loving her.

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Why would it make him stop loving her? lol

She'll want more money.
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#13 da_chub
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as much fun as sex is, its more fun with someone you love. you might as well just ditch her and find somone else. i had same issue minus whole threesome thing(way to go btw) and when i got rid of my dead end f buddy...i met someone else and have been with her for 8 years.(married 4 years) and we still have sex almost daily.
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#14 junglist101
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By some stange power some folks are able to make threesome happen and your one of those people. Do I really need to spell it out for you?

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#15 Gen007
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well to be fair you really shouldn't go looking for love if causal threesomes are your thing but at the same time it is kind of a catch 22 because you really cant avoid having feelings for someone that you sleep with on a regular basis otherwise you wouldnt be sleeping with them.

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#16 supa_badman
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You could stop being a cliche. :P

[spoiler] Sounds like she's just horny, even if you're not her bf, you at least got the perks of being one. Least you can do is oblige. [/spoiler]

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#17 lightleggy
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We're students and live together. We are also best friends.

She broke up with her bf (because she couldn't stop thinking about me, apparently) about 6 months ago, and since then we've been 'friends with benefits'.

I've now fallen in love with her. I told her how i felt, but she said she only saw me as a friend. Though she said she was jealous when i had a threesome a few days ago.

She asked me to stay with her for two weeks in the holiday break.

I told her how i felt last night, but she said she only saw me as a friend, and then started talking about some other guy.

I feel a bit depressed. My 'friends' have been a bit nasty. I just don't get how you can be such great friends with someone, want to have sex with them, but don't want to start seeing them...

probably because the dating scene is more exciting... I don't know.

OT any thoughts? How am i meant to get over someone like this who i am contracted to live with for another year and a half.

IAMTHEJOKER88
sounds like they could do an original movie about that...oh wait
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#18 Hexagon_777
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Is your name Allie, Darren, or Dylan, by chance?
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#19 IAMTHEJOKER88
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Is your name Allie, Darren, or Dylan, by chance?Hexagon_777

No. None of those.

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#20 Hexagon_777
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[QUOTE="Hexagon_777"]Is your name Allie, Darren, or Dylan, by chance?IAMTHEJOKER88

No. None of those.

All good then. Please, continue. :D

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#21 Bane_09
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Threesomes and friends with benefits seem to happen far more often to people on the internet than to those I have met in real life. Wonder why......limpbizkit818

Everyone knows gamespot is the best place to get advice for f buddies and threesomes! Duh!

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#22 mAArdman
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[QUOTE="Hexagon_777"]Is your name Allie, Darren, or Dylan, by chance?IAMTHEJOKER88

No. None of those.



what is your name?
it's critical information.

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#23 IAMTHEJOKER88
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[QUOTE="limpbizkit818"]Threesomes and friends with benefits seem to happen far more often to people on the internet than to those I have met in real life. Wonder why......Bane_09

Everyone knows gamespot is the best place to get advice for f buddies and threesomes! Duh!

yeah well. dont really have anyone to talk to. famiy and i arent speaking. shes kind of all ive got.

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#24 deactivated-59b71619573a1
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This sounds like a thread to brag. if you really loved her then you wouldn't have had a threesome the other day. Sounds like you just don't want her sleeping with other guys but you want to keep doing it with other girls

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#25 CKYguy25
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aren't you a pimp? :P

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#26 NirdBerd
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What do you do?

F her, again.

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#27 Just-Breathe
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I told her how i felt last night, but she said she only saw me as a friend, and then started talking about some other guy.IAMTHEJOKER88
loser
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#28 Necrifer
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[QUOTE="IAMTHEJOKER88"]

I told her how i felt last night, but she said she only saw me as a friend, and then started talking about some other guy.

Just-Breathe

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Exactly.

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#29 Barbariser
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You've been rejected on far better terms than almost any other man in the world. Please realize this and move on.

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#30 LJS9502_basic
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Somehow doubting this thread.....but if true... move on and find someone else. Friends are friends. Nothing more.
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#31 VaguelyTagged
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i refuse to believe this.

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#33 chilly-chill
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[QUOTE="IAMTHEJOKER88"]I told her how i felt last night, but she said she only saw me as a friend, and then started talking about some other guy.Just-Breathe
loser

:lol:

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#34 Just-Breathe
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i refuse to believe this.VaguelyTagged
Its the internet All girls are guys, all guys are guys and all kids are the police.
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#35 ChampionoChumps
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Threesomes and friends with benefits seem to happen far more often to people on the internet than to those I have met in real life. Wonder why......limpbizkit818
It's even better because a person who supposedly had a threesome is asking for advice on a gaming forum to get his f*ck buddy to date him. Sounds plausible
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#36 ghoklebutter
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She made it clear from the start that she's just a friend. You really shouldn't be surprised. Love generally requires more than sex and friendship. Just keep things the way they are and move on.

You've been rejected on far better terms than almost any other man in the world.

Barbariser
Also, this.
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#37 iskeethunters
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So she loved you 6 months ago, broke up with her boyfriend because of that and she asked you to move in with her now. Suddenly after a threesome you fell in love with her but she only sees you as a friend. Now you're wondering how someone can be friends with benefits when you were the one that started it apparently since you didn't love her 6 months ago. Seems legit.
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#39 PiscesChick93
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[QUOTE="AtlanticRock"]

Get her pregnant, then you'll stop loving her.

AussieePet

Why would it make him stop loving her? lol

Child support

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#41 XilePrincess
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Once a whore, always a whore. She moved on from old guy to you, and now you're old guy and you're getting 'dumped'.
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#42 chilly-chill
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[QUOTE="AussieePet"][QUOTE="AtlanticRock"]

Get her pregnant, then you'll stop loving her.

PiscesChick93

Why would it make him stop loving her? lol

Child support

 No child support dance :D
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#43 PiscesChick93
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[QUOTE="PiscesChick93"]

[QUOTE="AussieePet"] Why would it make him stop loving her? lol chilly-chill

Child support

 No child support dance :D

Maury was what I had in mind! :lol:

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#44 chilly-chill
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^^ I can read you like book :P
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#45 PiscesChick93
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^^ I can read you like book :P chilly-chill

Lmao :P

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#46 DevilishFalcon
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If she's hot then don't leave her.

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Threesomes and friends with benefits seem to happen far more often to people on the internet than to those I have met in real life. Wonder why......limpbizkit818
I guess TC really wanted to make a new thread.

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#48 ZumaJones07
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keep f'ing her god that was easy
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#49 AgentA-Mi6
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Threesomes and friends with benefits seem to happen far more often to people on the internet than to those I have met in real life. Wonder why......limpbizkit818
My thoughts exactly, although it isn't actually that rare, its just that most people dont talk about it openly. I do know of someone that did a threesome IRL. Give our society another 10-15 years and we'll see open discussion about it flourish everywhere (workplaces, university, friends).
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#50 Wilfred_Owen
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She broke Haddaway's number one rule. Leave her.