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Fallen in love with f buddy, what do i do?

IAMTHEJOKER88 · 2012-03-02 06:27:07

We're students and live together. We are also best friends.She broke up with her bf (because she couldn't stop thinking about me, apparently) about 6 months ago, and since then we've been 'friends with benefits'.I've now fallen in love with her. I told her how i felt, but she said she only saw me as a friend. Though she said she was jealous when i had a threesome a few days ago.She asked me to stay with her for two weeks in the holiday break.I told her how i felt last night, but she said she only saw me as a friend, and then started talking about some other guy.I feel a bit depressed. My 'friends' have been a bit nasty. I just don't get how you can be such great friends with someone, want to have sex with them, but don't want to start seeing them...probably because the dating scene is more exciting... I don't know.OT any thoughts? How am i meant to get over someone like this who i am contracted to live with for another year and a half.

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#51 TehFuneral

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I don't want to live on this planet anymore.

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#52 MissLibrarian

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1. Stand in front of a mirror.

2. Point and laugh.

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#53 EmpCom

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Just another chump trying to convince strangers online that their life is better than it actually is.

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#55 eboyishere

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Get her pregnant, then you'll stop loving her.
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:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

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#56 Dogswithguns

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Find yourself a g/f.. your buddies are your friends, keep it that way.

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#57 soulless4now

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You should watch that movie Friends With Benefits to see the outcome of your situation.

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#58 Just-Breathe

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You should watch that movie Friends With Benefits to see the outcome of your situation.
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yes because movies translate so well into rel life ..

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#59 shadowkiller11

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[QUOTE="soulless4now"]
You should watch that movie Friends With Benefits to see the outcome of your situation.
Just-Breathe

yes because movies translate so well into rel life ..

It's true though this one night I had a situation just like Irreversible.

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#60 foxhound_fox

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I just don't get how you can be such great friends with someone, want to have sex with them, but don't want to start seeing them...IAMTHEJOKER88

Easy... by using the sex merely as a physical release and not attaching any emotional value to it. This is the inherent problem with f*ck buddies, and why it is better not to get involved lest one half fall for the other.

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#61 lostfan132